-Claudia

[Guest guest]

I do love you, my dear Claudia.

Thank you for your sweet, sweet words.

There's just nothin' like you, Claudia.

Love,

Tara

 

Claudia Lambright <newtfoodbowl wrote:

" I can't wait to see how the K helps me even more,

because I want

to be the brightest light I can be, to all who need

me. "

 

I, too, cannot to wait to see how the K enhances your

already bright light! I'm so glad you're a part of

this family!

 

Love, Claudia

 

--- tara jacoby <tjmassage7777 wrote:

 

> You are so very right, Elektra.

> The closer the person is to us, the

> more intense the hurt that is caused. I feel two

> ways about this 'philosophy' - the first being, the

> closer the connection, the more betrayed we feel

> when we've been hurt. Two would be that family would

> probably be even more distanced to us than a close

> friend, because we feel as though they've suddenly

> changed, and we now have to write them out of our

> book- so to speak. At least that's my take on it.

>

> Yes, I was destroyed for a long time. Thankfully, I

> have a wonderful boyfriend.

> He spent time reminding me of what a caring and

> loving and creative person I was. I blocked so much

> out, that I lost who I was.

> I found myself, a bitter and 'soul less' person,

> and I was never ever like that before, and if in my

> right mind, would have never chosen to be like that.

>

> Because of her loss, I felt lost. I didn't know how

> to go on, and I found myself on the verge(?) of a

> breakdown.

> It felt like I really broke down, because I couldn't

> even remember aspects of me that Mike loved to

> watch, and when he would try to remind me, I would

> either think- " Oh well, she (or that) died along

> with Ashley " , or

> " I was never like that, what is he talking about? "

> He bought drawing supplies for me to encourage me to

> try to find the 'old me' who seemed to have been

> lost. Then he even made a book about a fantasy life

> of Ashley, where she got old and died, and tried to

> get me to draw picture for it, and to feel it as

> though that's what happened to her, in order to help

> 'bring me back'. All I ever did was lie or sit like

> a zombie, and I made hateful remarks and hated

> everything. That all changed, because of him and

> because of that first

> out-of-body-experience/near-death-experience.

> I am so thankful that I have Mike, and that I was

> able to forgive and move on.

> Before I forgave, I just let the same situation run

> circles through my mind. I could never be set free.

> Forgiveness set me free.

>

> Wow, how on earth could your Mother ever say

> something mean about your sister after her murder?

> Maybe that was her way of distancing herself from

> the pain?

> Human beings are so complex!

>

> I'm thankful that I joined this group, because

> everyone here

> is so open and loving.I haven't met with any harsh

> judgment at all.

> That's a blessing, to feel safety and comfort.

> You don't find that much in this world anymore, but

> I try

> to radiate it to everyone around me.

> Especially at work, because I want us all to have a

> peaceful life in our

> 'home away from home'- so I show love and comfort,

> offer my

> sympathy and suggestions, and give lots of hugs and

> kisses.

> Some people look at me funny, but most love it, and

> run with it,

> and feel good. It solves a lot of conflicts.

> I can't wait to see how the K helps me even more,

> because I want

> to be the brightest light I can be, to all who need

> me.

> Thanks for your kind words, Elektra.

> Love,

> Tara

>

> Elektra Fire <elektra.fire wrote:

> That is really awful

> Tara, I really felt that pain as

> you told the story, that would have really

> destroyed

> me. I would have been devastated.

> I'm sure your brother did it in a fit of anger

> which

> later subsided and I'm sure he regreted it.

>

> you did a wonderful thing to forgive that action,

> time

> is a great healer.

> I found it hard to forgive my mother for years

> because

> she said something hurtful about my sister just

> after

> her murder. It took time and distance for me to

> forgive.

> The closer we are to the person, the more difficult

> it

> is.

> I find it easier to forgive strangers at times then

> my

> close friends and family.

> I am getting better at it though.

>

> Thankyou for sharing , I send love out to your

> amazing

> bunny baby.

> Elektra x x x

>

>

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