Sat Wedding... Sherri

[Guest guest]

Hey Sherri,

 

My brother is getting married Saturday as well. Whooaaahh Nelly the

house is hectic and buzzing with people running around doing all sorts

of things, the phone ringing off the hook, people coming in from out

of town, etc, etc, etc!

 

Blessings to you and yours and enjoy these wonderful days!

 

Bradly

 

> Thank you. I have been reading all of you and very am involved in

my brothers wedding Saturday so have little time to write.

>

[Guest guest]

And to you and your brother too. I smiled to know of others running all around.

What chaos!

 

My brother came to live with me in Texas 9 years ago after a divorce and after

he had no more money. My parents were in California and were frantic not

knowing what to do to help him so I said " Send him out and let me take a look. "

One of those statements you sort of hear coming out of your mouth at the same

time as others....from ones higher self perhaps.

 

To make a long story shorter it was discovered he was an undiagnosed paranoid

schizophrenic, got the diagnosis and meds after many loud and angry outbursts at

me (to say the least) and was hospitalized several times. I was doing healing

work in my home at the time, worked on him a lot and had him in the room a lot

while I worked on others with the intent of him getting information. I returned

(with him and a Texas foster kid) to California as my parents are quite old and

I wanted to share more time with them and help if needed , he was hospitalized

again and then went in patient in the VA hospital where they said they could

give him back his life if he gave them 8 weeks.

 

He did the work, kept getting better and better (I kept zapping him, lol) and he

has been working and making money, moved out of my place a couple of years ago,

has helped his kids and is now marrying a wonderful women as he approaches his

60th birthday.

 

Words cannot say how happy I am for him and how much I admire his courage and

dedication.

 

So this marriage is a culmination, for me, of his being able to heal himself and

a happy ending to what could have been a very sad story. My eyes well with pride

and love watching prepare for this wedding as well as my happiness for my foster

child. I'll be a total mess, crying with joy over everything at THIS wedding!

 

In gratefulness,

 

Sherri.

 

--

The high destiny of the individual is to serve rather than rule-Albert Einstein

 

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" curball2002 " <curball2002

Hey Sherri,

 

My brother is getting married Saturday as well. Whooaaahh Nelly the

house is hectic and buzzing with people running around doing all sorts

of things, the phone ringing off the hook, people coming in from out

of town, etc, etc, etc!

 

Blessings to you and yours and enjoy these wonderful days!

 

Bradly

 

> Thank you. I have been reading all of you and very am involved in

my brothers wedding Saturday so have little time to write.

>

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

That's beautiful Sherri...

 

If you could comment some more on how you helped him it might be great

for myself and others to hear. Finding that balance between patience,

knowing when to say the right thing at the right time, when to just

observe, send healing, etc... Hmm not sure how to ask, but it just

seems I can step back and see my brother's situation a little clearer

but when I try to offer my two cents it's in one ear and out the

other. Might just be a matter of timing. But still I feel the need to

be doinging something you know?

 

Thanks and blessings tomorrow!!!

 

bradly

[Guest guest]

Thanks for the question. I gained more insight as I thought about how to answer

you.

 

What I did with my brother is similar to what I do with each foster child.

First I look at the inner being (higher self) of whoever I am with. The strength

of the light that I am shown indicates how far I should go and how committed I

should be with each person. I guess I am actually tuning in to my higher self

and looking to see, energetically, what has brought us together.

 

Then I look at the strength of my commitment towards each person. It can be easy

to go into co-dependence with someone especially if I am getting positive

feedback in conventional reality as to what I am doing. (Being a foster parent,

helping my brother, etc.) I try to get a strong grip and image of how far I

should go with each one, for their benefit, not my ego, and hold on to that.

 

Next is to look at the person and their behavior and spiritual development.

When I can see that I sort of (like a wild horse in a corral) create a " fence "

around them which has a mirror like surface facing in. This will be the space

within which I am wiling to work with someone. They actually have to do the

work...I just set up the situation and monitor things. This energy corral will

become smaller as they advance or, often, the person will go outside the

boundaries enough times that I will discontinue the work. It is like our 2

higher selves make an agreement for me to show them a path and we both must

honor it or discontinue. My part is to know when to stop which is often the

best lesson for them and has been, in the past, emotionally very difficult for

me.

 

Then I begin to reflect back to them, each time it occurs, the behaviors and

thoughts that are unacceptable in whatever level of higher vibration our higher

selves have agreed on. There is then much fighting, outbursts and attacks (

sometimes both physical and energetic) towards me. Hence I need to remember how

strong I was shown my commitment is to be with the individual. The mirrored

fence helps a lot as they have agreed to be in this corral and the energy mirror

does much of the work so I do not need to do everything. I used to be exhausted

all the time until I figured this out as I am often working with several people

at a time.

 

Once the person is able to stay within their corral most of the time we either

stop as that is as far as they want to go as it is very hard work for them or

our souls renegotiate and the corral is made smaller and we start all over

again.

 

It seems, in my learning over the years, I have been doing this with my guides,

they being the ones creating corrals (and they still are) for me with my

agreement being smaller and smaller ones created as fast as possible.

 

I am greatly interested in people gaining as much as possible from this process

(hence am so delighted at my youngest foster child and my brother) so have to

watch myself carefully to not be disappointed or angry with them when they

falter and especially when they stop. Detachment, backing off neutrally and

blessing their process is what I strive for. As I am able to see what they

could become and used to long for friends at a similar level as myself I had to

learn to just be hugely grateful to be able to be of service in this way and to

drop my ego and desires out of the process. If I did not the other person

became pretty confused, their progress was altered and this just is not cool,

especially when they have trusted me to help them go into this corral/arena to

fight their own devils and they are at their most vulnerable.

 

I could give you a more concrete version of healing and describe techniques if

you wish but this is what came when I thought about your question.

 

In gratefulness,

 

Sherri

 

--

The high destiny of the individual is to serve rather than rule-Albert Einstein

 

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" curball2002 " <curball2002

That's beautiful Sherri...

 

If you could comment some more on how you helped him it might be great

for myself and others to hear. Finding that balance between patience,

knowing when to say the right thing at the right time, when to just

observe, send healing, etc... Hmm not sure how to ask, but it just

seems I can step back and see my brother's situation a little clearer

but when I try to offer my two cents it's in one ear and out the

other. Might just be a matter of timing. But still I feel the need to

be doinging something you know?

 

Thanks and blessings tomorrow!!!

 

bradly