Re[2]: Sat Wedding... Sherri

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I tune into the other persons higher self with my higher self (the other person

has come to me in some way, with the agreement that I might help with some

issue) and an agreement is made to work on the issue. The " corral " image is

one of a mirror surrounding the person so it can reflect to them (with their

permission) a particular behavior or thought pattern that is not working for

them. As I said I set it up (again, with their permission) and monitor it

(detachment) until the process come to completion in whatever way it does. I

always wanted and want fast learning...some want slower, more gentle learning.

Everyone is at choice and also at choice to stop at any time.

 

This is just what I do with folks who come to me. There are many other ways and

I am very much a student at the same time. This is what I have learned to do

following many traditions for the last 30 years and I do not seek to offer this

to others but some show up. And I was trying to answer a question that was put

to me as to what I do.

 

Does this answer your question?

 

In gratefulness,

 

Sherri

 

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The high destiny of the individual is to serve rather than rule-Albert Einstein

 

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mechtech <mechtech

Hello kaliese,

 

Friday, June 1, 2007, 8:59:45 AM, you wrote:

 

kcn> Thanks for the question. I gained more insight as I thought about how to

answer you.

 

kcn> What I did with my brother is similar to what I do with each foster child.

First I look at the inner being (higher self) of whoever I am with. The strength

of the light that I am shown

kcn> indicates how far I should go and how committed I should be with each

person. I guess I am actually tuning in to my higher self and looking to see,

energetically, what has brought us together.

 

kcn> Then I look at the strength of my commitment towards each person. It can be

easy to go into co-dependence with someone especially if I am getting positive

feedback in conventional reality as to

kcn> what I am doing. (Being a foster parent, helping my brother, etc.) I try to

get a strong grip and image of how far I should go with each one, for their

benefit, not my ego, and hold on to that.

 

kcn> Next is to look at the person and their behavior and spiritual development.

When I can see that I sort of (like a wild horse in a corral) create a " fence "

around them which has a mirror like

kcn> surface facing in. This will be the space within which I am wiling to work

with someone. They actually have to do the work...I just set up the situation

and monitor things. This energy corral

kcn> will become smaller as they advance or, often, the person will go outside

the boundaries enough times that I will discontinue the work. It is like our 2

higher selves make an agreement for me

kcn> to show them a path and we both must honor it or discontinue. My part is to

know when to stop which is often the best lesson for them and has been, in the

past, emotionally very difficult for

kcn> me.

 

kcn> Then I begin to reflect back to them, each time it occurs, the behaviors

and thoughts that are unacceptable in whatever level of higher vibration our

higher selves have agreed on. There is then

kcn> much fighting, outbursts and attacks ( sometimes both physical and

energetic) towards me. Hence I need to remember how strong I was shown my

commitment is to be with the individual. The

kcn> mirrored fence helps a lot as they have agreed to be in this corral and the

energy mirror does much of the work so I do not need to do everything. I used to

be exhausted all the time until I

kcn> figured this out as I am often working with several people at a time.

 

kcn> Once the person is able to stay within their corral most of the time we

either stop as that is as far as they want to go as it is very hard work for

them or our souls renegotiate and the corral

kcn> is made smaller and we start all over again.

 

kcn> It seems, in my learning over the years, I have been doing this with my

guides, they being the ones creating corrals (and they still are) for me with my

agreement being smaller and smaller ones

kcn> created as fast as possible.

 

kcn> I am greatly interested in people gaining as much as possible from this

process (hence am so delighted at my youngest foster child and my brother) so

have to watch myself carefully to not be

kcn> disappointed or angry with them when they falter and especially when they

stop. Detachment, backing off neutrally and blessing their process is what I

strive for. As I am able to see what they

kcn> could become and used to long for friends at a similar level as myself I

had to learn to just be hugely grateful to be able to be of service in this way

and to drop my ego and desires out of

kcn> the process. If I did not the other person became pretty confused, their

progress was altered and this just is not cool, especially when they have

trusted me to help them go into this

kcn> corral/arena to fight their own devils and they are at their most

vulnerable.

 

kcn> I could give you a more concrete version of healing and describe techniques

if you wish but this is what came when I thought about your question.

 

kcn> In gratefulness,

 

kcn> Sherri

 

Please explain? How is building corrals around someone useful? Or

detached?

 

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Best regards,

rr mechtech