Guest guest Posted June 4, 2007 Report Share Posted June 4, 2007 You are doing well Nicole - no worries. No it isn't always an easy path. Being in New York you also have the miasma of that city and the EMF to deal with but that is something you are doing fine. The heat as you know is temporary and the sweeps are also furthering your development no worries there. Your dreams are not an issue right now as far as I can see. As far as the pregnant daughter goes yes, tough love isn't easy for either party that is why it is " tough " . It is necessary for her to understand the fruits of her actions and that the decision processes that have lead her to the place she is in need to be changed. She made her choices and those choices have taken you away from her to a large degree but not completely and she needs to honor " your " situation and comply with the rules as they are now in the present. Not saying that you stop loving her or your grandchild. Only that consequences will be honored by the person who brings them into reality and that, in this case, is her. You have special skills with in you right now to help her come into a better balance with what she is fast approaching. She may try to use the baby in order to manipulate a different approach and as a way to engage your attention. Dont buy into it unless the safety of the child is at risk. Through out all of this Niki, stay focused on her as your daughter and your love for her as expressed by you seventeen years ago. She has her whole life ahead of her and she has much goodness that she can access if " SHE " wishes to. She is deserving of your love but not on her terms, on yours. When you can begin a sending of love to her. Allow the energy that is heating you up to be focused on a loving and positive way for a resolution to some of her main current dilemmas. Send unconditional love to the unborn child and communicate with it as much as you can in a loving positive format as it is experiencing everything. You go to God and you ask for guidance and direction for your " right use of will " and for help regarding your treatment towards her. Express love for her and health and mental balance and emotional balance. Send this to her - these qualities. This can be very strong when sent inside the aspect of the awakening that you are currently in. Accept no guilt and be in complete control and confidence. You are becoming a very strong and potent individual and it is time that you feel this with regards to the issues that come your way. There isn't anything you cannot handle or do. This is a fact. Please go to website forum for some suggestions for your son - strength and love to you Nicole. Confidence and connection always - chrism Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2007 Report Share Posted June 5, 2007 Thank you for responding chrism and your answer resonates deep within me. I agree wholeheartedly with what your are saying. Some might think that I am cruel or heartless or an idiot but I know this is the right thing to do under the circumstances and nothing will make me change my mind because I am no longer controlled by my mind(ego).I have tried to make her understand and to heal herself many times. I gave her lots of chances and with every one she blew , my trust in her went lower. I love her but I can't trust her but maybe with time I will. All I know is that that time is not now. She made some rash choices and she has to live with them. I have to protect my two younger children and because she can be so unpredictable and can't trust her she can't stay with us. She is not even supposed to be here anyway, she should be in the correctional facility. Love,Nicole Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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