Guest guest Posted June 17, 2007 Report Share Posted June 17, 2007 There has been discussion on this already, how we might affect our families with our energy. The other night, my 2 year old started crying at bedtime and wanted me to pick her up. When I did, she started getting really upset, kicking and thrashing. She wanted me to put her down and then when I did wanted to be held again. I had the Golden Helmet going on at the time and no matter what I did, she was unhappy. So, how are we to deal with things such as this? When she is upset, she only wants " Mama " . She will say " No Dada! " if my husband comes in the room. (lol) How do you fix something when you are the problem?? Sarita Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2007 Report Share Posted June 17, 2007 I don't know Sarita, but they can be like that.I don't have a 2 yold but I have a 9y old and in the morning when I take her to school she wants to hold my hand but then she doesn't want to anymore.Maybe our skin feels too hot to them or something else.I have not figured that out but your child is not the only one who behaves that way so don't feel bad. Love,Nicole , " Sarita " <sarita1969 wrote: > > There has been discussion on this already, how we might affect our > families with our energy. The other night, my 2 year old started > crying at bedtime and wanted me to pick her up. When I did, she > started getting really upset, kicking and thrashing. She wanted me to > put her down and then when I did wanted to be held again. I had the > Golden Helmet going on at the time and no matter what I did, she was > unhappy. > > So, how are we to deal with things such as this? When she is upset, > she only wants " Mama " . She will say " No Dada! " if my husband comes in > the room. (lol) How do you fix something when you are the problem?? > > Sarita > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2007 Report Share Posted June 17, 2007 As I slept in my bed, I heard the rains come down around the house. I could smell the fresh rain aroma sweeping through the windows. It felt blissful in a way. I then opened my eyes and peered at a small being next to the bed, my heart started to pound thinking 'they are here!', and the being said to me, " Mommy, can I sleep with you? " So the question is, how our children affect us. LOL. lisa ---- ntaroiu <lsirca wrote: > I don't know Sarita, but they can be like that.I don't have a 2 > yold but I have a 9y old and in the morning when I take her to > school she wants to hold my hand but then she doesn't want to > anymore.Maybe our skin feels too hot to them or something else.I > have not figured that out but your child is not the only one who > behaves that way so don't feel bad. > > Love,Nicole > > > > > > , " Sarita " > <sarita1969 wrote: > > > > There has been discussion on this already, how we might affect our > > families with our energy. The other night, my 2 year old started > > crying at bedtime and wanted me to pick her up. When I did, she > > started getting really upset, kicking and thrashing. She wanted > me to > > put her down and then when I did wanted to be held again. I had > the > > Golden Helmet going on at the time and no matter what I did, she > was > > unhappy. > > > > So, how are we to deal with things such as this? When she is > upset, > > she only wants " Mama " . She will say " No Dada! " if my husband > comes in > > the room. (lol) How do you fix something when you are the > problem?? > > > > Sarita > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2007 Report Share Posted June 17, 2007 Sarita, don't try to fix it...just allow it to happen...this too shall pass. It is passing with my grandchildren...most anyway. My daughter on the other hand...now she went to the hospital last night with her right side in pain...had been for three days i just found out. I asked her to practice the Safeties..she is meditating...but I don't know if she is practicing the rest. Her hubby had a migraine all last week...he is not a believer in any of this...and so trying to teach him safeties isn't on his list of to-do's. The kids are doing better now as they acclimate to what is taking place. Adina Don't pick lemons. See all the new 2007 cars at Autos. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2007 Report Share Posted June 17, 2007 Nicole, There is a bunch of negatives coming out of us...things that have needed to be let go of. Children are very open and can sense this....their bodies tell them what is there...not like they can read what it is exactly...just a feeling as if it doesn't belong there (and it doesn't). They react to this...they don't understand why it is so close to the surface of us. As we move these things out one by one...and the pains leave and are let go of...they will calm...and there will be a newer, deeper bond that will be created. They don't understand the inner changes taking place. All will be well when it is over...things will not go back to what they were...but they will be better...all our relationships will be better because of this. Adina Get the toolbar and be alerted to new email wherever you're surfing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2007 Report Share Posted June 17, 2007 LOL, Lisa! Too funny. Sarita , <pleiades69 wrote: > > As I slept in my bed, I heard the rains come down around the house. I could smell the fresh rain aroma sweeping through the windows. It felt blissful in a way. I then opened my eyes and peered at a small being next to the bed, my heart started to pound thinking 'they are here!', and the being said to me, " Mommy, can I sleep with you? " > So the question is, how our children affect us. LOL. > lisa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2007 Report Share Posted June 17, 2007 Yes Adina, I am trying hard to let it happen. It is so hard with the little ones though. When she cries it is like someone is twisting something inside me. When I am the source of more crying it is much worse! It will be so much better when I can explain to her why I can't pick her up at the moment. How is your daughter doing now? Sarita , Adina Bolt <whitefeatherprincess wrote: > > Sarita, > don't try to fix it...just allow it to happen...this too shall pass. It is passing with my grandchildren...most anyway. My daughter on the other hand... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2007 Report Share Posted June 18, 2007 My daughter is still in much pain...she cannot lift her baby. i am taking care of the 7 children and the household. Her husband has been having his own problems as well. told me to haul water and chop wood...I am wondering if this is the kind of thing he was talking about. I am going to ask the healing group to help her. She is open...where I am not sure my brother is. We haven't spoken in a few years...only because he is so very ill that he spends time only with what he has to...work bed eat...that is his life now. He is the only one I have not gone to stay with...and the only one who isn't healing yet. But I have no way to get to NH where he lives. Thank you Sarita for your concern. The kids are all doing great today...no more effects right now. Adina Get the free toolbar and rest assured with the added security of spyware protection. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2007 Report Share Posted June 18, 2007 Sarita sweetheart, I hear ya girl,this is a strange time for all of us indeed, my 2 year old has taken to crying practically all day,its like a jealous cry,its an attention cry,im not behaving different to her,im giving her the same attention but she doesnt see it that way,keeps telling me shes hungry and stuff when its just not possible,lolMy 6 year old has been acting out too,very cheecky to me,making faces all the time.......lol As for my partner.......well, yesterday when my head was so sore,he said his was too,all day,now his went last night and mine didnt but this seems to be how we are affeting them..it will pass. Karen x , " Sarita " <sarita1969 wrote: > > There has been discussion on this already, how we might affect our > families with our energy. The other night, my 2 year old started > crying at bedtime and wanted me to pick her up. When I did, she > started getting really upset, kicking and thrashing. She wanted me to > put her down and then when I did wanted to be held again. I had the > Golden Helmet going on at the time and no matter what I did, she was > unhappy. > > So, how are we to deal with things such as this? When she is upset, > she only wants " Mama " . She will say " No Dada! " if my husband comes in > the room. (lol) How do you fix something when you are the problem?? > > Sarita > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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