interesting insight yesterday - Tara

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Hello Tara. I feel others emotions, too. Its a

wonderful tool to have. I find I don't get swept up by

them, they just show me what someone needs. Sometimes

language totally misses it, and they may not even know

themselves what they are feeling. I can tune in and

either hug them or verbally touch the feeling in them

to release it or validate it. To me its another form

of communication, not to be absorbed, just listened

to. I don't feel I need to detach...just learn to

hear...not a sponge but an ear. lol! Hope that makes

sense! Warm love and hugs, dhyana

 

--- tara jacoby <tjmassage7777 wrote:

 

> Thanks Elektra,

> It's true, I do need to learn that.

> I become very umm...'A.D.D.-LIKE' because I

> apparently allow others' emotions to pull me this

> way and that. I've never known how to separate

> myself, and at times when I've had the intuition to,

> I felt cold (like a heartless being) for wanting

> to distance myself from the emotions I feel

> emanating from those around me. I guess I've always

> felt as though I'm supposed to feel that, so that I

> can truly identify and love and comfort others.

> Ahh...but I no not how to shut off the switch. I

> shall work on that.

> One million thank yous for your help!!!

> With much love and gratitude,

> Tara

>

> Elektra Fire <elektra.fire wrote:

> Hi Tara,

>

> I notice in your mails that you get very caught up

> in

> others emotions, I would say to you that people are

> entitled to their own way of reacting to stimulus,

> don't get upset at others for their emotions. Also,

> you never truely know how another person is feeling

> no

> matter what you pick up.

> So, try to develope a less attached and judgement

> based reaction to the people around you , I think

> it

> would bring you much energy. (IMHO)

>

> It's the lesson of non attachment. I am also trying

> to

> learn it : = P

> (It's a work in progress)

>

> Glad you are well, that was good going on your

> behalf.

>

> Big hug,

> Elektra x x x

>

>

>

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