Guest guest Posted July 4, 2007 Report Share Posted July 4, 2007 The reason I felt the urge to write my confession is all linked in to my ex boyfriends return and how he cannot forgive himself for the death of his twin, he believes he killed him, by not lending him money for a hotel, leading to his brother driving home and falling asleep at the wheel and dying. I realised that I had felt the same once, with hubby, blaming myself for his " Murder " due to my own cowardice and fear. I can remember the suffering inside to feel you've hurt the one you love. So, after reading his letters I decided to do my confession, to fully forgive myself (the hardest thing to do is forgive yourself), and hope that as I love and forgive myself, in hawiian style, he will forgive himself and heal. Was hopununo style or something? I will let you know how it all goes, poor thing, he is really still suffering. I am really praying he can forgive himself, he did nothing wrong, it's all in his mind, just like my situation!!! If you wanna say a prayer for him he is called Jonathan, help him to forgive himself. Love ya all, coming to you from hong kong airport Elektra x x x _________ Now you can scan emails quickly with a reading pane. Get the new Mail. http://uk.docs./nowyoucan.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 4, 2007 Report Share Posted July 4, 2007 What a story, that poor soul. If his brother could stand before him and be seen..and speak to him and be heard- he would make him know that it was never his fault. I wish him to find peace and healing. He will be in my prayers. Have a safe trip, Elektra- and congrats on finding healing and self- forgiveness. Love, Tara Elektra Fire <elektra.fire wrote: The reason I felt the urge to write my confession is all linked in to my ex boyfriends return and how he cannot forgive himself for the death of his twin, he believes he killed him, by not lending him money for a hotel, leading to his brother driving home and falling asleep at the wheel and dying. I realised that I had felt the same once, with hubby, blaming myself for his " Murder " due to my own cowardice and fear. I can remember the suffering inside to feel you've hurt the one you love. So, after reading his letters I decided to do my confession, to fully forgive myself (the hardest thing to do is forgive yourself), and hope that as I love and forgive myself, in hawiian style, he will forgive himself and heal. Was hopununo style or something? I will let you know how it all goes, poor thing, he is really still suffering. I am really praying he can forgive himself, he did nothing wrong, it's all in his mind, just like my situation!!! If you wanna say a prayer for him he is called Jonathan, help him to forgive himself. Love ya all, coming to you from hong kong airport Elektra x x x ________ Now you can scan emails quickly with a reading pane. Get the new Mail. http://uk.docs./nowyoucan.html Ready for the edge of your seat? Check out tonight's top picks on TV. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 4, 2007 Report Share Posted July 4, 2007 Elektra, I know how that kind of guilt could happen even though irrational. I felt guilty when I lost my younger brother. Not because of anything I'd done to cause it, but being eight years older I felt guilty that it should have been me not him. John Colanzi ______________________________\ ____ No need to miss a message. Get email on-the-go with Mail for Mobile. Get started. http://mobile./mail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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