Question about honesty-need clairification

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Thanks, Chrism,

 

When I said that you 'advised' us not to tell our

families about the K, I meant just that: advice, a

suggested course of action...I'm sorry if it appears

that I meant you 'ordered' us not to tell our

families. I certainly don't want the newbies to think

you lay out rules by which we must live, LOL!!

 

As I said, I agree with that suggestion because my

parents definitely would not understand and would

likely worry about me.

 

SO......I will use the health/dietary idea...I used to

have major problems with diarrhea (in fact, I had a

bout with that the last time I visited them), so I can

say that it is a way of cleansing and balancing my

digestive system.

 

Will you please elaborate on your first paragraph?

How will honestly be important 'as avenues of

experience and interaction begin to blossom?' What do

you mean?

 

Thank you,

Love,

Claudia

 

 

--- chrism <> wrote:

 

> Yes Claudia honesty is very important and as you

> progress further

> it will become more and more so as avenues of

> experience and

> interaction begin to blossom.

>

> It isn't an order to not tell your family. It is a

> suggestion as

> they may not be able to understand or support a

> person going through

> such an intense and fantastic experience. If you

> feel they can then

> yes of course tell them. My concern is that at least

> here in the US

> a persons family can have you committed to a mental

> ward (for your

> own good lol) for exhibiting symptoms and having

> experiences that

> fall outside of " their " comfort zones. This will

> typically also fall

> outside of medical comfort zones as well.

>

> This is why I suggest the privacy. Also as a way of

> keeping a stable

> situation...stable. Kundalini can occur with nominal

> interference

> for family members. Or it can have a major

> interaction. Depends upon

> the dynamics of those involved.

>

> Fasting is a system cleanse. It is also a method of

> exercising

> personal control and a way of establishing and

> fulfilling personal

> intake goals. Its use in Kundalini is in line with

> these other

> qualities. So there are other options rather than

> telling them about

> the Kundalini. Some physicians even recommend a one

> day fast per

> week.

> -

>

>

>

>

--- In

> ,

> Claudia

> Lambright <newtfoodbowl wrote:

> >

> > I see a bit of a conflict between a couple of

> things

> > and I'd like to get the group's thoughts about it.

> >

> > We have talked here about the problems inherent in

> > telling family about our involvement with

> Kundalini

> > because they may not understand and therefore they

> > will worry or think we are losing our mind.

> Chrism,

> > you have advised us not to discuss it with family

> > because of that, and I agree completely...my

> parents

> > would not understand and I do not want to concern

> > them.

> >

> > As it turns out, we will be making a trip to my

> > parents' house the weekend of Sept. 22, arriving

> > Friday the 21st and leaving Sunday the 23rd, the

> first

> > day of Shaktipat. I have been planning to fast

> for 3

> > days starting on Friday and going through Sunday.

> >

> > Without telling my parents about Kundalini and

> > Shaktipat, how do I explain my fasting to them

> while

> > still honoring the 'honesty' tenant of the

> Safeties?

> > Believe me, in my family, fasting will not go

> > unnoticed, LOL!

> >

> > Your thoughts will be appreciated.

> >

> > Blessings & love,

> > Claudia

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

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