Need some advice

[Guest guest]

This morning my ex husband's mother contacted me. She passed about

12 years ago and we were very close. I loved her like a second

mother and her death hit me hard.

 

Well, she looked beautiful and we talked out some personal stuff and

then we got to her son. She wants me to pass a message on to him.

He was very abusive to me and always made fun of my spiritual

pursuits. Being with him is a main reason that I did not grow for a

long time and it took me years to remove the damage. I do not want

him to know I have skills as a medium, nor do I have any intention of

letting him into my life even a little bit. His very presence is

toxic. I HAVE forgiven him, that is no longer an issue. I just

don't want him in my life and I don't think he would believe the

message if it came from me. He has no idea how I've changed and who

I am now.

 

Sorry for the long winded message guys! I am looking for advice on

how I might be able to get the message to him without exposing

myself? I have an idea how to reach him, maybe might be able to get

an email address. Suggestions anyone?

 

Sarita

[Guest guest]

Send it with flowers and no return address. They will deliver it. Make

sure it has just enough personal stuff for him to know it is real. I

have to get back to my vacuuming now. -

[Guest guest]

All I can think of is an anonymous message. He may still not take it

seriously but the message would be read or mostly read and the seed

planted that his mother wants him to have. I'm sorry I can't think of

anything more clever. I totally understand why you want to keep

distance between you in anyway. You can't risk bringing toxicity

anywhere near you again! I'm glad you got to talk to her again! I can

imagine what that means to you. Pity about her son.

 

Good luck, Sarita!

Love to you,

Valarie

 

, " Sarita "

<sarita1969 wrote:

>

> This morning my ex husband's mother contacted me. She passed about

> 12 years ago and we were very close. I loved her like a second

> mother and her death hit me hard.

>

> Well, she looked beautiful and we talked out some personal stuff

and

> then we got to her son. She wants me to pass a message on to him.

> He was very abusive to me and always made fun of my spiritual

> pursuits. Being with him is a main reason that I did not grow for

a

> long time and it took me years to remove the damage. I do not want

> him to know I have skills as a medium, nor do I have any intention

of

> letting him into my life even a little bit. His very presence is

> toxic. I HAVE forgiven him, that is no longer an issue. I just

> don't want him in my life and I don't think he would believe the

> message if it came from me. He has no idea how I've changed and

who

> I am now.

>

> Sorry for the long winded message guys! I am looking for advice on

> how I might be able to get the message to him without exposing

> myself? I have an idea how to reach him, maybe might be able to

get

> an email address. Suggestions anyone?

>

> Sarita

>

[Guest guest]

Sarita

 

that is a tough choice but for me I think I would

have done it if I had that kind of spiritual connection but i dont only an

emotional one. so it is up to you though I would have foregone any bad memories

and done it . I went kind of the same treatment because I was different in

someway but it was all young males. but still it is up to you.

 

Allison

 

 

 

Sarita <sarita1969

 

Tuesday, September 18, 2007 2:58:08 PM

Need some advice

 

This morning my ex husband's mother contacted me. She passed about

12 years ago and we were very close. I loved her like a second

mother and her death hit me hard.

 

Well, she looked beautiful and we talked out some personal stuff and

then we got to her son. She wants me to pass a message on to him.

He was very abusive to me and always made fun of my spiritual

pursuits. Being with him is a main reason that I did not grow for a

long time and it took me years to remove the damage. I do not want

him to know I have skills as a medium, nor do I have any intention of

letting him into my life even a little bit. His very presence is

toxic. I HAVE forgiven him, that is no longer an issue. I just

don't want him in my life and I don't think he would believe the

message if it came from me. He has no idea how I've changed and who

I am now.

 

Sorry for the long winded message guys! I am looking for advice on

how I might be able to get the message to him without exposing

myself? I have an idea how to reach him, maybe might be able to get

an email address. Suggestions anyone?

 

Sarita

 

 

 

 

 

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[Guest guest]

Hmmmm...that is an interesting idea! I might have to try that,

thanks! Oh, better go over that again - you missed a spot LOL!

 

Sarita

 

, " chrism "

<> wrote:

>

> Send it with flowers and no return address. They will deliver it.

Make

> sure it has just enough personal stuff for him to know it is real. I

> have to get back to my vacuuming now. -

>

[Guest guest]

Yes, it was great communicating with her! She looked so ravaged at the

end, it was good to see her looking so young, healthy and most of all

happy. It meant a lot to me to speak with her.

 

I like Chrism's suggestion about the anonymous message with flowers.

Good deal.

 

Sarita

 

, " vjvousden "

<vjvousden wrote:

>

> All I can think of is an anonymous message. He may still not take it

> seriously but the message would be read or mostly read and the seed

> planted that his mother wants him to have.

[Guest guest]

Hi Allison! I absolutely believe in honoring someone's request to

pass on a message to a loved one. I feel that this gift was bestowed

for a purpose and that I would not be contacted unless there was a

reason for it. Who knows, maybe this message will be the catalyst

that helps him to start turning his life around. I would be remiss

if I did not pass it on.

 

It is my responsibility to pass on the message, but I do not have to

expose myself to do it imho.

 

Sarita

 

, Allison Brody

<brodyallison wrote:

>

> Sarita

>

> that is a tough choice but for me I

think I would have done it if I had that kind of spiritual connection

but i dont only an emotional one. so it is up to you though I would

have foregone any bad memories and done it . I went kind of the same

treatment because I was different in someway but it was all young

males. but still it is up to you.

>

> Allison

>

[Guest guest]

An e-mail message might be an option. If you don't have an e-mail for him,

you may send a regular mail letter to him without including a return

address, in the event he doesn't know your address, and you don't want him

to know.

I think by doing that, you would fulfill your mother-in-law's wish.

Dipi

 

 

 

On Behalf Of Sarita

Tuesday, September 18, 2007 2:58 PM

 

Need some advice

 

This morning my ex husband's mother contacted me. She passed about

12 years ago and we were very close. I loved her like a second

mother and her death hit me hard.

 

Well, she looked beautiful and we talked out some personal stuff and

then we got to her son. She wants me to pass a message on to him.

He was very abusive to me and always made fun of my spiritual

pursuits. Being with him is a main reason that I did not grow for a

long time and it took me years to remove the damage. I do not want

him to know I have skills as a medium, nor do I have any intention of

letting him into my life even a little bit. His very presence is

toxic. I HAVE forgiven him, that is no longer an issue. I just

don't want him in my life and I don't think he would believe the

message if it came from me. He has no idea how I've changed and who

I am now.

 

Sorry for the long winded message guys! I am looking for advice on

how I might be able to get the message to him without exposing

myself? I have an idea how to reach him, maybe might be able to get

an email address. Suggestions anyone?

 

Sarita