Question about Forgiveness

[Guest guest]

Could you explain how we are to deal with forgiveness? I was under the

impression that once we were able to truly forgive something (not just

think we did) that we can move on. Do we need to forgive things over

and over again? Or is this only in certain cases?

 

Sarita

[Guest guest]

Hi Sarita... my main issues regarding forgiveness have been related to someone

actively " in my space " doing things of which I objected. I don't know your

situation, but if this sounds familiar, you may wish to look at: Message 20636 -

" Re: Forgivness " .

 

Blessings.

Paul

 

 

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" Sarita " <sarita1969

> Could you explain how we are to deal with forgiveness? I was under the

> impression that once we were able to truly forgive something (not just

> think we did) that we can move on. Do we need to forgive things over

> and over again? Or is this only in certain cases?

>

> Sarita

>

>

 

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

I know what you are referring to. For years things that my ex did

could make me red in the face every time I thought of them. But now I

sometimes revisit past transgressions just to see if I have any

emotional response and I don't. The same with things that my father

did when I was a child/grown up and most especially my ex-step mother

for abusive treatment from when I was a child.

 

So, if I am clear of bad feelings then I can move on.

 

Sarita

 

, " chrism "

<> wrote:

>

> It can take some repetition Sarita. If the hurt still lingers and

can

> call up an emotional response there is still residue to be released.

> So your individual honesty and integrity with yourself is the main

> determining factor. When you can feel balanced about the person or

> situation then you move on. -

>