Forgiving Unforgiveness--Melissa

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Hello Melissa,

 

It would be nice to be done, but unfortunately we have lived a life where we did

things we didn't forgive ourselves for then and so now we have to find a way to

do it as well as forgive those who may have hurt us in someway. I am sure that

in the future we may have one of those days where life feels like it is getting

the best of us and we catch ourselves being short with someone because we are

tired or not feeling well or whatever or we may allow ourselves to be hurt by

someone and we may respond in such a way that isn't the best way and so we will

always have a need for forgiveness whether it is for something we do or someone

else does. At least that is MHO. Love ya girl!

 

Love,

Katherine

 

 

 

Melissa <mm7810

 

Thursday, October 4, 2007 9:35:07 PM

Re: Forgiving Unforgiveness

 

Hi Amanda and welcome -

 

I think you re so correct. We need to forgive whether the other

party is participating or not. That can be a VERY hard thing to

do! Thanks for reminding us of that. I have really been working

alot on forgiveness lately nd was advised to keep doing so, even

though I *thought* I was done. Maybe not.

 

Much Love,

 

Melissa

Kundalini-Awakening -Systems- 1 , " Amanda "

<mi5anthr0pe@ ...> wrote:

>

> Hi Dhyana,

>

> I can relate. Sometimes it feels like when we forgive, the other

> party should reciprocate, or admit faults. The fact is, we can't

make

> that happen and sometimes it never will. I think what we need to

> remember is that forgiveness is for ourselves, and not necessarily

> for the one who needs to be forgiven. Once we accept things as they

> are and let go of the bitterness; we can grow spiritually. Thats my

> take on it anyway. We can only hope for the best.

>

> Amanda

> ---- Original Message ----

> Novalees

> Kundalini-Awakening -Systems- 1

> RE: [Kundalini-Awakenin g-Systems- 1] Forgiving

Unforgiveness

> Thu, 04 Oct 2007 16:51:08 -0000

>

> >This was a new one for me this past week.

> >

> >I have a friend (of 20 some years) who has been wallowing in

> >bitterness the past 10 because of something she believes I did to

> >her...she actually did it to herself, but she is not able to hear

> >that.

> >

> >We've come together and separated a few times over the years. She,

> >seeing how it feels to be around me...me hoping she forgives and

> >moves

> >on. The last time I saw her, a couple of weeks ago, I went to hug

her

> >and she moved away...talking warmly with my hubby, but giving me

the

> >icey shoulder. This was right after a Sunday church service, and

we

> >were guests.

> >

> >Funny, I never know how she is going to respond to me when I see

her.

> >I always extend love, but the shell is so hard I don't think it

gets

> >through.

> >

> >I felt such a deep sadness that she is stuck and still hurting

after

> >all these years. I have to forgive her for not forgiving me, since

> >she

> >sees me as the cause of her hurt. I've prayed so much for her this

> >past week. I can't understand how she can't/won't see what

actually

> >happened. I don't understand why people cling to what hurts them.

> >

> >So, I'm learning to forgive unforgivenss, and releasing her to

peace.

> >I learned from her how bitterness can strangle a life and kill

joy.

> >

> >Thank you for listening.

> >Love, dhyana

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

 

 

 

 

 

 

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