Nightmares about ex

[Guest guest]

Claudia suggested I share with the group some recurrent nightmares I'm having

about my ex lately, as she felt this is part of the K clearing process and said

some of you are really good with dreams.

 

This morning I had a whopping 5 dreams where I was jealous and angry

that my ex has a girlfriend. This happens to me from time to time and I

don't understand why! In wakeful life I don't feel jealous at all!!!

I'm very relieved he finally has one, and I'm grateful he is losing

attention one me. I've been waiting for this for a long time, so I'm

relieved and I'm happy for him. So, why do I keep having these dreams

of being jealous. They leave me cranky as hell!

 

What's interesting about theses dreams, and just my dreams in generally lately,

is that all 5 senses are engaged. In one of the dreams I went into the freezer

and found about 5 containers of new ice cream. For some reason I knew my ex's

girlfriend had bought them and I was angry and resentful. I took them out and

had my kids start eating them, and I took one myself and was eating it. I awoke

tasting the ice cream and could still feel the coldness of the container.

 

Now, in real life I love ice cream and don't care who buys it!!!!

 

In another dream, I saw his girlfriend and she was pregnant. For some reason I

was lying on his couch with our baby (all our kids are grown now), and in the

dream I knew we were divorced, but when his pregnant girlfriend came out and he

walked her to her car, I got up and was ready to tell him how disgusted I was

that he was having another child at his age, and so forth. I was soooooo angry

and jealous.

 

So odd. In wakeful life I am so, so relieved. My ex was one of those really

possessive, controlling, jealous men, who I was much relieved to finally get

away from. It took me 26 years to get out of a relationship I was never happy

in. Now after almost 6 years of divorce he's had a steady girlfriend for the

last 8 months or so, and I am very relieved, and happy for him.

 

So what's with all this jealousy???? Thank you so much.

 

Dana Nourie

Cosmic Pathway

http://www.cosmicpathway.com

 

 

 

 

[Guest guest]

Hi Dana! Maybe you're just giving him a taste of his

own medicine in your dreams, so you can get the

satisfaction of saying " See! this is how it felt to

me! " . In my opinion, it's a great sign that you're

done with him having an overbearing presence in your

life. Peace -D

 

--- Dana Nourie <dana.nourie wrote:

 

> Claudia suggested I share with the group some

> recurrent nightmares I'm having about my ex lately,

> as she felt this is part of the K clearing process

> and said some of you are really good with dreams.

>

> This morning I had a whopping 5 dreams where I was

> jealous and angry

> that my ex has a girlfriend. This happens to me from

> time to time and I

> don't understand why! In wakeful life I don't feel

> jealous at all!!!

> I'm very relieved he finally has one, and I'm

> grateful he is losing

> attention one me. I've been waiting for this for a

> long time, so I'm

> relieved and I'm happy for him. So, why do I keep

> having these dreams

> of being jealous. They leave me cranky as hell!

>

> What's interesting about theses dreams, and just my

> dreams in generally lately, is that all 5 senses are

> engaged. In one of the dreams I went into the

> freezer and found about 5 containers of new ice

> cream. For some reason I knew my ex's girlfriend had

> bought them and I was angry and resentful. I took

> them out and had my kids start eating them, and I

> took one myself and was eating it. I awoke tasting

> the ice cream and could still feel the coldness of

> the container.

>

> Now, in real life I love ice cream and don't care

> who buys it!!!!

>

> In another dream, I saw his girlfriend and she was

> pregnant. For some reason I was lying on his couch

> with our baby (all our kids are grown now), and in

> the dream I knew we were divorced, but when his

> pregnant girlfriend came out and he walked her to

> her car, I got up and was ready to tell him how

> disgusted I was that he was having another child at

> his age, and so forth. I was soooooo angry and

> jealous.

>

> So odd. In wakeful life I am so, so relieved. My ex

> was one of those really possessive, controlling,

> jealous men, who I was much relieved to finally get

> away from. It took me 26 years to get out of a

> relationship I was never happy in. Now after almost

> 6 years of divorce he's had a steady girlfriend for

> the last 8 months or so, and I am very relieved, and

> happy for him.

>

> So what's with all this jealousy???? Thank you so

> much.

>

> Dana Nourie

> Cosmic Pathway

> http://www.cosmicpathway.com

>

>

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been

> removed]

>

>

 

 

 

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[Guest guest]

To me, recurring dreams are a red flag saying " Hey! It's me, your

subconscious, trying to get a message across! " The dreams will

usually continue until you get what it is trying to say.

 

Dreams are not usually literal. You probably have no jealousy

towards him at all. You are really the only one who will be able to

know what these dreams are about. We can make suggestions, but

ultimately you need to get quiet and listen to your inner guidance.

Maybe something we say will set off an Aha! with you.

 

The themes I see here are strong emotions and the number 5. Is there

a quality that your ex had that is missing in your life? Not that

you miss HIM per se, but if you are involved with someone maybe there

is a quality he had that your current partner doesn't. The number 5

is repeated here. The fifth chakra is about communication. Is there

an issue with communication? Are there any issues with your children

getting in the middle of your relationship?

 

I would recommend making some kind of flow chart with the most

prevalent elements of these dreams and see what repeat patterns and

correlations you can make.

 

Sarita

 

, Dana Nourie

<dana.nourie wrote:

>

> Claudia suggested I share with the group some recurrent nightmares

I'm having about my ex lately, as she felt this is part of the K

clearing process and said some of you are really good with dreams.

>

> This morning I had a whopping 5 dreams where I was jealous and angry

> that my ex has a girlfriend. This happens to me from time to time

and I

> don't understand why! In wakeful life I don't feel jealous at all!!!

> I'm very relieved he finally has one, and I'm grateful he is losing

> attention one me. I've been waiting for this for a long time, so I'm

> relieved and I'm happy for him. So, why do I keep having these

dreams

> of being jealous. They leave me cranky as hell!

>

> What's interesting about theses dreams, and just my dreams in

generally lately, is that all 5 senses are engaged. In one of the

dreams I went into the freezer and found about 5 containers of new

ice cream. For some reason I knew my ex's girlfriend had bought them

and I was angry and resentful. I took them out and had my kids start

eating them, and I took one myself and was eating it. I awoke tasting

the ice cream and could still feel the coldness of the container.

>

> Now, in real life I love ice cream and don't care who buys it!!!!

>

> In another dream, I saw his girlfriend and she was pregnant. For

some reason I was lying on his couch with our baby (all our kids are

grown now), and in the dream I knew we were divorced, but when his

pregnant girlfriend came out and he walked her to her car, I got up

and was ready to tell him how disgusted I was that he was having

another child at his age, and so forth. I was soooooo angry and

jealous.

>

> So odd. In wakeful life I am so, so relieved. My ex was one of

those really possessive, controlling, jealous men, who I was much

relieved to finally get away from. It took me 26 years to get out of

a relationship I was never happy in. Now after almost 6 years of

divorce he's had a steady girlfriend for the last 8 months or so, and

I am very relieved, and happy for him.

>

> So what's with all this jealousy???? Thank you so much.

>

> Dana Nourie

> Cosmic Pathway

> http://www.cosmicpathway.com

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

You say that he was jealous and possessive, perhaps

you just need to forgive him and yourself for allowing

that behaviour, it is something that has obviously

been a large part of your life so you are bound to

have some deep seated emotional debris from the whole

experience.

I say start by forgiving him and yourself, and see

what comes up, often the most simple things work best.

 

Blessings

Elektra x x x

 

 

 

 

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[Guest guest]

Thanks, Elektra, it's funny you mention that, because I'm just getting

into that space where I can do that I have been working on it. I'm

finally feeling compassion for him instead of anger and resentment.

That's also part of why these dreams seemed so surprising!

 

Dana

[Guest guest]

, T Donahue

<dagnygalt7 wrote:

>

> Hi Dana! Maybe you're just giving him a taste of his

> own medicine in your dreams, so you can get the

> satisfaction of saying " See! this is how it felt to

> me! " . In my opinion, it's a great sign that you're

> done with him having an overbearing presence in your

> life. Peace -D

 

That's an interesting perspective. I had not thought of that. Could

be! Dana

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, " Sarita "

<sarita1969 wrote:

 

> The themes I see here are strong emotions and the number 5. Is there

> a quality that your ex had that is missing in your life? Not that

> you miss HIM per se, but if you are involved with someone maybe there

> is a quality he had that your current partner doesn't. The number 5

 

Yes, you know, Sarita, one of the things I've been doing so I can

forgive and feel compassion instead of hatred and anger for him is

going over in my mind some of his good traits. I've realized recently

that he was a good influence on me where money is concerned, and he

learns really easily. He is also very responsible.

 

On my own, I've gotten a little flighty, so I'm working on being more

grounded, a very strong trait my ex had. It's kind of funny 'cause I

used to fight with him about some of my flighty tendencies, but now

with distance I can see he was right about a few things. Just a few:-)

 

 

> is repeated here. The fifth chakra is about communication. Is there

> an issue with communication? Are there any issues with your children

> getting in the middle of your relationship?

 

No, but my ex and I were never able to communicate. We still can't for

the most part. I'd swear sometimes we weren't both speaking English!

I'm noticing now that my daughter is a lot like her dad, but in her

it's endearing. In him, it was overwhelming and obnoxious.

>

> I would recommend making some kind of flow chart with the most

> prevalent elements of these dreams and see what repeat patterns and

> correlations you can make.

 

Thanks, Sarita! Dana

[Guest guest]

I do a lot of working through things in my dreams,

don't find it suprising if your real life workings

carry over in to dream time as I think we can get much

deeper in to the issue whilst asleep.

people in dreams are also representing parts of our

own psyche and our own inner journey to the balancing

of our male and female sides.

 

Try not to judge things as they surface, just be an

observer and fill your heart with love and joy and

know that you are blessed. Keep on forgiving as even

when we think we have finished there are deeper layers

to the onion.

 

Love and hugs

Elektra x x x

 

 

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