Guest guest Posted April 5, 2008 Report Share Posted April 5, 2008 Chrism asked me to let you all know that his internet connection is currently down: that's why he is currently quiet. Also, he asked me to share the following: Lately I have felt a new degree of detachment from people. Not that I don't love them--the other way around, I do care a whole lot! I just don't feel I need to have others constantly show me their love. Even if they walk away from me, that's fine. I still love them, and I still love myself (the Self in me), too. At first I thought this was a bizarre mental pathology (some kind of religious delirium, LOL!), but now I realize that, in fact, I am shedding codependency. Not to have to expect anything from others and still be able to love and be at peace with oneself is very liberating. On the other hand, I am more sensitive than ever to people who use my energy for their own purposes (mostly to soothe their own insecurities). I crave solitude. When I am denied quiet time with myself, my immune system goes down and I become physically ill. Chrism says this will change, too--and I truly hope he's right! Sel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2008 Report Share Posted April 5, 2008 Here's hoping is feeling better soon. There are probably some great lessons for many in this. Sarita , " selena230 " <selena230 wrote: > > asked me to let you all know that his internet connection is > currently down: that's why he is currently quiet. > > Also, he asked me to share the following: > > Lately I have felt a new degree of detachment from people. Not that I > don't love them--the other way around, I do care a whole lot! I just > don't feel I need to have others constantly show me their love. Even > if they walk away from me, that's fine. I still love them, and I still > love myself (the Self in me), too. > > At first I thought this was a bizarre mental pathology (some kind of > religious delirium, LOL!), but now I realize that, in fact, I am > shedding codependency. Not to have to expect anything from others and > still be able to love and be at peace with oneself is very liberating. > > On the other hand, I am more sensitive than ever to people who use my > energy for their own purposes (mostly to soothe their own > insecurities). I crave solitude. When I am denied quiet time with > myself, my immune system goes down and I become physically ill. Chrism > says this will change, too--and I truly hope he's right! > > Sel > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 5, 2008 Report Share Posted April 5, 2008 I think the Detachment message is from Sel. Love. , " Sarita " <sarita1969 wrote: > > Here's hoping is feeling better soon. There are probably some > great lessons for many in this. > > Sarita > > , " selena230 " > <selena230@> wrote: > > > > asked me to let you all know that his internet connection is > > currently down: that's why he is currently quiet. > > > > Also, he asked me to share the following: > > > > Lately I have felt a new degree of detachment from people. Not that > I > > don't love them--the other way around, I do care a whole lot! I just > > don't feel I need to have others constantly show me their love. Even > > if they walk away from me, that's fine. I still love them, and I > still > > love myself (the Self in me), too. > > > > At first I thought this was a bizarre mental pathology (some kind of > > religious delirium, LOL!), but now I realize that, in fact, I am > > shedding codependency. Not to have to expect anything from others > and > > still be able to love and be at peace with oneself is very > liberating. > > > > On the other hand, I am more sensitive than ever to people who use > my > > energy for their own purposes (mostly to soothe their own > > insecurities). I crave solitude. When I am denied quiet time with > > myself, my immune system goes down and I become physically ill. > Chrism > > says this will change, too--and I truly hope he's right! > > > > Sel > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2008 Report Share Posted April 6, 2008 Seems clear to me the detachment message is from Chrism; Sel was relaying a message from Chris.....she said: " Also, he asked me to share the following: > > > > Lately I have felt a new degree of detachment from people. Not that > I > > don't love them--the other way around, I do care a whole lot! " etc. Blessings to you, Chris! Take as much quiet time for yourself that you need. I certainly understand needing solitude, we all need that and I doubt that you get much of it. I am sending you love. Claudia novalees <Novalees wrote: I think the Detachment message is from Sel. Love. , " Sarita " <sarita1969 wrote: > > Here's hoping is feeling better soon. There are probably some > great lessons for many in this. > > Sarita > > , " selena230 " > <selena230@> wrote: > > > > asked me to let you all know that his internet connection is > > currently down: that's why he is currently quiet. > > > > Also, he asked me to share the following: > > > > Lately I have felt a new degree of detachment from people. Not that > I > > don't love them--the other way around, I do care a whole lot! I just > > don't feel I need to have others constantly show me their love. Even > > if they walk away from me, that's fine. I still love them, and I > still > > love myself (the Self in me), too. > > > > At first I thought this was a bizarre mental pathology (some kind of > > religious delirium, LOL!), but now I realize that, in fact, I am > > shedding codependency. Not to have to expect anything from others > and > > still be able to love and be at peace with oneself is very > liberating. > > > > On the other hand, I am more sensitive than ever to people who use > my > > energy for their own purposes (mostly to soothe their own > > insecurities). I crave solitude. When I am denied quiet time with > > myself, my immune system goes down and I become physically ill. > Chrism > > says this will change, too--and I truly hope he's right! > > > > Sel > > > You rock. That's why Blockbuster's offering you one month of Blockbuster Total Access, No Cost. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2008 Report Share Posted April 6, 2008 Lol! If this message was from then he has regressed. I sense that told Sel to share this message that she had shared with him, like he has done with others... " share it with the group if you are comfortable with it. " Love and smiles, dhyana >When I am denied quiet time with myself, my immune system goes down >and I become physically ill. says this will change, too--and I >truly hope he's right! Sel , Claudia <newtfoodbowl wrote: > > Seems clear to me the detachment message is from Chrism; Sel was relaying a message from Chris.....she said: > > " Also, he asked me to share the following: > > > > > > Lately I have felt a new degree of detachment from people. Not that > > I > > > don't love them--the other way around, I do care a whole lot! " > etc. > > Blessings to you, Chris! Take as much quiet time for yourself that you need. I certainly understand needing solitude, we all need that and I doubt that you get much of it. I am sending you love. > > Claudia > > > novalees <Novalees wrote: > I think the Detachment message is from Sel. Love. > > , " Sarita " > <sarita1969@> wrote: > > > > Here's hoping is feeling better soon. There are probably some > > great lessons for many in this. > > > > Sarita > > > > , " selena230 " > > <selena230@> wrote: > > > > > > asked me to let you all know that his internet connection is > > > currently down: that's why he is currently quiet. > > > > > > Also, he asked me to share the following: > > > > > > Lately I have felt a new degree of detachment from people. Not that > > I > > > don't love them--the other way around, I do care a whole lot! I just > > > don't feel I need to have others constantly show me their love. Even > > > if they walk away from me, that's fine. I still love them, and I > > still > > > love myself (the Self in me), too. > > > > > > At first I thought this was a bizarre mental pathology (some kind of > > > religious delirium, LOL!), but now I realize that, in fact, I am > > > shedding codependency. Not to have to expect anything from others > > and > > > still be able to love and be at peace with oneself is very > > liberating. > > > > > > On the other hand, I am more sensitive than ever to people who use > > my > > > energy for their own purposes (mostly to soothe their own > > > insecurities). I crave solitude. When I am denied quiet time with > > > myself, my immune system goes down and I become physically ill. > > Chrism > > > says this will change, too--and I truly hope he's right! > > > > > > Sel > > > > > > You rock. That's why Blockbuster's offering you one month of Blockbuster Total Access, No Cost. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2008 Report Share Posted April 6, 2008 Sorry for the confusion. The issue of detachment is mine, not Chrism's. He asked me to share it, and I obliged. Sel , " novalees " <Novalees wrote: > > > Lol! If this message was from then he has regressed. I sense > that told Sel to share this message that she had shared with > him, like he has done with others... " share it with the group if you > are comfortable with it. " Love and smiles, dhyana > > >When I am denied quiet time with myself, my immune system goes down > >and I become physically ill. says this will change, too--and I > >truly hope he's right! > > Sel > > , Claudia > <newtfoodbowl@> wrote: > > > > Seems clear to me the detachment message is from Chrism; Sel was > relaying a message from Chris.....she said: > > > > " Also, he asked me to share the following: > > > > > > > > Lately I have felt a new degree of detachment from people. Not that > > > I > > > > don't love them--the other way around, I do care a whole lot! " > > etc. > > > > Blessings to you, Chris! Take as much quiet time for yourself > that you need. I certainly understand needing solitude, we all need > that and I doubt that you get much of it. I am sending you love. > > > > Claudia > > > > > > novalees <Novalees@> wrote: > > I think the Detachment message is from Sel. Love. > > > > , " Sarita " > > <sarita1969@> wrote: > > > > > > Here's hoping is feeling better soon. There are probably some > > > great lessons for many in this. > > > > > > Sarita > > > > > > , " selena230 " > > > <selena230@> wrote: > > > > > > > > asked me to let you all know that his internet connection is > > > > currently down: that's why he is currently quiet. > > > > > > > > Also, he asked me to share the following: > > > > > > > > Lately I have felt a new degree of detachment from people. Not that > > > I > > > > don't love them--the other way around, I do care a whole lot! I just > > > > don't feel I need to have others constantly show me their love. Even > > > > if they walk away from me, that's fine. I still love them, and I > > > still > > > > love myself (the Self in me), too. > > > > > > > > At first I thought this was a bizarre mental pathology (some kind of > > > > religious delirium, LOL!), but now I realize that, in fact, I am > > > > shedding codependency. Not to have to expect anything from others > > > and > > > > still be able to love and be at peace with oneself is very > > > liberating. > > > > > > > > On the other hand, I am more sensitive than ever to people who use > > > my > > > > energy for their own purposes (mostly to soothe their own > > > > insecurities). I crave solitude. When I am denied quiet time with > > > > myself, my immune system goes down and I become physically ill. > > > Chrism > > > > says this will change, too--and I truly hope he's right! > > > > > > > > Sel > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You rock. That's why Blockbuster's offering you one month of > Blockbuster Total Access, No Cost. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2008 Report Share Posted April 6, 2008 Blessings to YOU, Sel, and much love, Claudia selena230 <selena230 wrote: Sorry for the confusion. The issue of detachment is mine, not Chrism's. He asked me to share it, and I obliged. Sel , " novalees " <Novalees wrote: > > > Lol! If this message was from then he has regressed. I sense > that told Sel to share this message that she had shared with > him, like he has done with others... " share it with the group if you > are comfortable with it. " Love and smiles, dhyana > > >When I am denied quiet time with myself, my immune system goes down > >and I become physically ill. says this will change, too--and I > >truly hope he's right! > > Sel > > , Claudia > <newtfoodbowl@> wrote: > > > > Seems clear to me the detachment message is from Chrism; Sel was > relaying a message from Chris.....she said: > > > > " Also, he asked me to share the following: > > > > > > > > Lately I have felt a new degree of detachment from people. Not that > > > I > > > > don't love them--the other way around, I do care a whole lot! " > > etc. > > > > Blessings to you, Chris! Take as much quiet time for yourself > that you need. I certainly understand needing solitude, we all need > that and I doubt that you get much of it. I am sending you love. > > > > Claudia > > > > > > novalees <Novalees@> wrote: > > I think the Detachment message is from Sel. Love. > > > > , " Sarita " > > <sarita1969@> wrote: > > > > > > Here's hoping is feeling better soon. There are probably some > > > great lessons for many in this. > > > > > > Sarita > > > > > > , " selena230 " > > > <selena230@> wrote: > > > > > > > > asked me to let you all know that his internet connection is > > > > currently down: that's why he is currently quiet. > > > > > > > > Also, he asked me to share the following: > > > > > > > > Lately I have felt a new degree of detachment from people. Not that > > > I > > > > don't love them--the other way around, I do care a whole lot! I just > > > > don't feel I need to have others constantly show me their love. Even > > > > if they walk away from me, that's fine. I still love them, and I > > > still > > > > love myself (the Self in me), too. > > > > > > > > At first I thought this was a bizarre mental pathology (some kind of > > > > religious delirium, LOL!), but now I realize that, in fact, I am > > > > shedding codependency. Not to have to expect anything from others > > > and > > > > still be able to love and be at peace with oneself is very > > > liberating. > > > > > > > > On the other hand, I am more sensitive than ever to people who use > > > my > > > > energy for their own purposes (mostly to soothe their own > > > > insecurities). I crave solitude. When I am denied quiet time with > > > > myself, my immune system goes down and I become physically ill. > > > Chrism > > > > says this will change, too--and I truly hope he's right! > > > > > > > > Sel > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You rock. That's why Blockbuster's offering you one month of > Blockbuster Total Access, No Cost. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2008 Report Share Posted April 6, 2008 Hi Selena The degree of detachment you feel imho, is the greater integration of your being with all, with knowledge and understanding to become even more connected as you assimilate this wonderful essence of being. blessings and love, now you will shine even brighter! nick --- selena230 <selena230 wrote: > Sorry for the confusion. The issue of detachment is > mine, not > Chrism's. He asked me to share it, and I obliged. > > Sel > > > --- In > , > " novalees " > <Novalees wrote: > > > > > > Lol! If this message was from then he has > regressed. I sense > > that told Sel to share this message that > she had shared with > > him, like he has done with others... " share it with > the group if you > > are comfortable with it. " Love and smiles, dhyana > > > > >When I am denied quiet time with myself, my > immune system goes down > > >and I become physically ill. says this > will change, too--and I > > >truly hope he's right! > > > > Sel > > > > --- In > , > Claudia > > <newtfoodbowl@> wrote: > > > > > > Seems clear to me the detachment message is from > Chrism; Sel was > > relaying a message from Chris.....she said: > > > > > > " Also, he asked me to share the following: > > > > > > > > > > Lately I have felt a new degree of > detachment from people. Not > that > > > > I > > > > > don't love them--the other way around, I do > care a whole lot! " > > > etc. > > > > > > Blessings to you, Chris! Take as much quiet > time for yourself > > that you need. I certainly understand needing > solitude, we all need > > that and I doubt that you get much of it. I am > sending you love. > > > > > > Claudia > > > > > > > > > novalees <Novalees@> wrote: > > > I think the Detachment message is from > Sel. Love. > > > > > > --- In > , > " Sarita " > > > <sarita1969@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Here's hoping is feeling better soon. > There are probably > some > > > > great lessons for many in this. > > > > > > > > Sarita > > > > > > > > --- In > , > " selena230 " > > > > <selena230@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > asked me to let you all know that his > internet > connection is > > > > > currently down: that's why he is currently > quiet. > > > > > > > > > > Also, he asked me to share the following: > > > > > > > > > > Lately I have felt a new degree of > detachment from people. Not > that > > > > I > > > > > don't love them--the other way around, I do > care a whole lot! > I just > > > > > don't feel I need to have others constantly > show me their > love. Even > > > > > if they walk away from me, that's fine. I > still love them, and I > > > > still > > > > > love myself (the Self in me), too. > > > > > > > > > > At first I thought this was a bizarre mental > pathology (some > kind of > > > > > religious delirium, LOL!), but now I realize > that, in fact, I am > > > > > shedding codependency. Not to have to expect > anything from others > > > > and > > > > > still be able to love and be at peace with > oneself is very > > > > liberating. > > > > > > > > > > On the other hand, I am more sensitive than > ever to people who > use > > > > my > > > > > energy for their own purposes (mostly to > soothe their own > > > > > insecurities). I crave solitude. When I am > denied quiet time with > > > > > myself, my immune system goes down and I > become physically ill. > > > > Chrism > > > > > says this will change, too--and I truly hope > he's right! > > > > > > > > > > Sel > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You rock. That's why Blockbuster's offering you > one month of > > Blockbuster Total Access, No Cost. > > > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > > > > > > > > --- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2008 Report Share Posted April 6, 2008 Hi Sel, thank you for sharing this. I feel the freedom in what you're saying. Its like the need for love and acceptance shifts from needing it from others to seeking it from within, in the quiet and solitude. I'm feeling that, too. The fulfillment of living in one's beingness brings an overflowing love that moves out into the world... so nurturing that place within seems to bring a withdrawal from the way things used to be done, creating space for the new. Thank you. Love. , " selena230 " <selena230 wrote: > > asked me to let you all know that his internet connection is > currently down: that's why he is currently quiet. > > Also, he asked me to share the following: > > Lately I have felt a new degree of detachment from people. Not that I > don't love them--the other way around, I do care a whole lot! I just > don't feel I need to have others constantly show me their love. Even > if they walk away from me, that's fine. I still love them, and I still > love myself (the Self in me), too. > > At first I thought this was a bizarre mental pathology (some kind of > religious delirium, LOL!), but now I realize that, in fact, I am > shedding codependency. Not to have to expect anything from others and > still be able to love and be at peace with oneself is very liberating. > > On the other hand, I am more sensitive than ever to people who use my > energy for their own purposes (mostly to soothe their own > insecurities). I crave solitude. When I am denied quiet time with > myself, my immune system goes down and I become physically ill. Chrism > says this will change, too--and I truly hope he's right! > > Sel > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2008 Report Share Posted April 6, 2008 Oops! In that case, I hope you are feeling better soon and still feel that the lessons abound. Hugs, Sarita , " selena230 " <selena230 wrote: > > Sorry for the confusion. The issue of detachment is mine, not > Chrism's. He asked me to share it, and I obliged. > > Sel > > > , " novalees " > <Novalees@> wrote: > > > > > > Lol! If this message was from then he has regressed. I sense > > that told Sel to share this message that she had shared with > > him, like he has done with others... " share it with the group if you > > are comfortable with it. " Love and smiles, dhyana > > > > >When I am denied quiet time with myself, my immune system goes down > > >and I become physically ill. says this will change, too-- and I > > >truly hope he's right! > > > > Sel > > > > , Claudia > > <newtfoodbowl@> wrote: > > > > > > Seems clear to me the detachment message is from Chrism; Sel was > > relaying a message from Chris.....she said: > > > > > > " Also, he asked me to share the following: > > > > > > > > > > Lately I have felt a new degree of detachment from people. Not > that > > > > I > > > > > don't love them--the other way around, I do care a whole lot! " > > > etc. > > > > > > Blessings to you, Chris! Take as much quiet time for yourself > > that you need. I certainly understand needing solitude, we all need > > that and I doubt that you get much of it. I am sending you love. > > > > > > Claudia > > > > > > > > > novalees <Novalees@> wrote: > > > I think the Detachment message is from Sel. Love. > > > > > > , " Sarita " > > > <sarita1969@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Here's hoping is feeling better soon. There are probably > some > > > > great lessons for many in this. > > > > > > > > Sarita > > > > > > > > Kundalini-Awakening-Systems- 1 , " selena230 " > > > > <selena230@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > asked me to let you all know that his internet > connection is > > > > > currently down: that's why he is currently quiet. > > > > > > > > > > Also, he asked me to share the following: > > > > > > > > > > Lately I have felt a new degree of detachment from people. Not > that > > > > I > > > > > don't love them--the other way around, I do care a whole lot! > I just > > > > > don't feel I need to have others constantly show me their > love. Even > > > > > if they walk away from me, that's fine. I still love them, and I > > > > still > > > > > love myself (the Self in me), too. > > > > > > > > > > At first I thought this was a bizarre mental pathology (some > kind of > > > > > religious delirium, LOL!), but now I realize that, in fact, I am > > > > > shedding codependency. Not to have to expect anything from others > > > > and > > > > > still be able to love and be at peace with oneself is very > > > > liberating. > > > > > > > > > > On the other hand, I am more sensitive than ever to people who > use > > > > my > > > > > energy for their own purposes (mostly to soothe their own > > > > > insecurities). I crave solitude. When I am denied quiet time with > > > > > myself, my immune system goes down and I become physically ill. > > > > Chrism > > > > > says this will change, too--and I truly hope he's right! > > > > > > > > > > Sel > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > You rock. That's why Blockbuster's offering you one month of > > Blockbuster Total Access, No Cost. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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