Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 I have always been fairly cautions in undermining the work of behavioral care professionals (and had quite a few disagreements with Chrism on this issue, LOL!). However, after today's experience I am afraid I need to revise my position on this matter. My husband is severely depressed, and has been caught in a downward spiral for quite a while now. Finally he got prescribed Effexor. After crying his eyes out for the last two days, he was sent to a psychiatrist. The guy didn't even bother talking to him. His student had a cursory interview with him, then the big fat doc barged in and said " you have bipolar disease and will have to be on drugs for the rest of your life. " I would not have a problem with that, except that my husband has none of the symptoms of bipolar disease. I cautiously questioned the diagnosis, only to get patronized by the big fat doc: " I know it's a difficult diagnosis to accept, but your physician wouldn't have referred you to me if he didn't know how good I am. " He didn't even try to make a rational argument to persuade me--of course, how dare the worried wifey of a tearful patient question Scientific Authority? From now on, may I be damned if I say a word to defend the work of legal drug pushers. Sel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 YIKES! Well we both know thats a screwed up Dx. Hope your not following it. Please do not send your K to " help " the MD Selena! lol - , " selena255 " <selena wrote: > > I have always been fairly cautions in undermining the work of > behavioral care professionals (and had quite a few disagreements with > on this issue, LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 I could help him lose some weight, and save some of his patients in the process, too... Sometimes kicking some butt is service, too--isn't it? Sel , " chrism " <> wrote: > > YIKES! Well we both know thats a screwed up Dx. Hope your not > following it. Please do not send your K to " help " the MD Selena! lol - > > > , " selena255 " > <selena@> wrote: > > > > I have always been fairly cautions in undermining the work of > > behavioral care professionals (and had quite a few disagreements with > > on this issue, LOL > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 One part of depression is to do with food............70% of Seratonin is made in the gut from what you eat. So its nutrition and DIGESTION. I realize there is a lot to depression but thats where to ''start with digestion''........then work from there. Dont ask the DR tho as he has ''no clue and sadly no training either''. I'm not really one for products at all........but we do have a great one here for this problem and it works,so well in fact the Gov tried to shut it all down and got defeated in Court later. Its called TRUEHOPE. Blessings to you Both. Igor. : selena: Tue, 20 May 2008 20:15:54 +0000Subject: Psychiatry, or the Art of Pushing Drugs Legally I have always been fairly cautions in undermining the work ofbehavioral care professionals (and had quite a few disagreements withChrism on this issue, LOL!). However, after today's experience I amafraid I need to revise my position on this matter.My husband is severely depressed, and has been caught in a downwardspiral for quite a while now. Finally he got prescribed Effexor. Aftercrying his eyes out for the last two days, he was sent to apsychiatrist. The guy didn't even bother talking to him. His studenthad a cursory interview with him, then the big fat doc barged in andsaid " you have bipolar disease and will have to be on drugs for therest of your life. " I would not have a problem with that, except thatmy husband has none of the symptoms of bipolar disease. I cautiouslyquestioned the diagnosis, only to get patronized by the big fat doc: " I know it's a difficult diagnosis to accept, but your physicianwouldn't have referred you to me if he didn't know how good I am. " Hedidn't even try to make a rational argument to persuade me--of course,how dare the worried wifey of a tearful patient question ScientificAuthority? From now on, may I be damned if I say a word to defend the work oflegal drug pushers.Sel _______________ If you like crossword puzzles, then you'll love Flexicon, a game which combines four overlapping crossword puzzles into one! http://g.msn.ca/ca55/208 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 Off in the distacne they heard a piercing scream and all at once they knew......KALI was coming to get them! Their trowsers were never the same....c , " selena255 " <selena wrote: Sometimes kicking some butt is service, too--isn't it? > > Sel > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 Good Lord! If that isn't a prime example of ego based doctoring! One thing I would like to mention about Effexor is that getting off it is difficult for many people. I was going through the most horrific symptoms (which nobody warned me of) trying to stop it. I was moody, had electrical sensations running throughout my head and body, headaches, throwing up... etc. There is tons of info on Effexor Withdrawal on the net. I ended up diagnosing myself and when I went to the doctor to inform him I needed to go back on it and wean off slower, he just waved his hand and said " Oh yeah, Effexor withdrawal, no big deal. " No big deal? It was a horrible experience and I think it is sad that nobody warned me about it. I ended up designing my own weaning schedule based on my symptoms and it took me 3-4 months to be completely free of it. Please Sel, find another doctor for your hubby! He deserves to have a solid evaluation by someone who is going to listen and welcomes questions. Sarita , " selena255 " <selena wrote: > > I have always been fairly cautions in undermining the work of > behavioral care professionals (and had quite a few disagreements with > on this issue, LOL!). However, after today's experience I am > afraid I need to revise my position on this matter. > > My husband is severely depressed, and has been caught in a downward > spiral for quite a while now. Finally he got prescribed Effexor. After > crying his eyes out for the last two days, he was sent to a > psychiatrist. The guy didn't even bother talking to him. His student > had a cursory interview with him, then the big fat doc barged in and > said " you have bipolar disease and will have to be on drugs for the > rest of your life. " I would not have a problem with that, except that > my husband has none of the symptoms of bipolar disease. I cautiously > questioned the diagnosis, only to get patronized by the big fat doc: > " I know it's a difficult diagnosis to accept, but your physician > wouldn't have referred you to me if he didn't know how good I am. " He > didn't even try to make a rational argument to persuade me--of course, > how dare the worried wifey of a tearful patient question Scientific > Authority? > > From now on, may I be damned if I say a word to defend the work of > legal drug pushers. > > Sel > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 Thanks, Sarita. I can really see how this stuff messes with people's minds. My husband has taken Effexor for two days, and as of today he's off it. He is still crying, but hopefully he's not addicted to it--not yet. BTW: that doctor is out! Sel , " Sarita " <sarita1969 wrote: > > Good Lord! If that isn't a prime example of ego based doctoring! > > One thing I would like to mention about Effexor is that getting off > it is difficult for many people. I was going through the most > horrific symptoms (which nobody warned me of) trying to stop it. I > was moody, had electrical sensations running throughout my head and > body, headaches, throwing up... etc. There is tons of info on > Effexor Withdrawal on the net. I ended up diagnosing myself and when > I went to the doctor to inform him I needed to go back on it and wean > off slower, he just waved his hand and said " Oh yeah, Effexor > withdrawal, no big deal. " No big deal? It was a horrible experience > and I think it is sad that nobody warned me about it. I ended up > designing my own weaning schedule based on my symptoms and it took me > 3-4 months to be completely free of it. > > Please Sel, find another doctor for your hubby! He deserves to have > a solid evaluation by someone who is going to listen and welcomes > questions. > > Sarita > > , " selena255 " > <selena@> wrote: > > > > I have always been fairly cautions in undermining the work of > > behavioral care professionals (and had quite a few disagreements > with > > on this issue, LOL!). However, after today's experience I am > > afraid I need to revise my position on this matter. > > > > My husband is severely depressed, and has been caught in a downward > > spiral for quite a while now. Finally he got prescribed Effexor. > After > > crying his eyes out for the last two days, he was sent to a > > psychiatrist. The guy didn't even bother talking to him. His student > > had a cursory interview with him, then the big fat doc barged in and > > said " you have bipolar disease and will have to be on drugs for the > > rest of your life. " I would not have a problem with that, except > that > > my husband has none of the symptoms of bipolar disease. I cautiously > > questioned the diagnosis, only to get patronized by the big fat doc: > > " I know it's a difficult diagnosis to accept, but your physician > > wouldn't have referred you to me if he didn't know how good I am. " > He > > didn't even try to make a rational argument to persuade me--of > course, > > how dare the worried wifey of a tearful patient question Scientific > > Authority? > > > > From now on, may I be damned if I say a word to defend the work of > > legal drug pushers. > > > > Sel > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 I'll look into it, Igor. Thanks for your advice! Sel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 He better be afraid... V E R Y afraid!!! LOL! Sel , " chrism " <> wrote: > > Off in the distacne they heard a piercing scream and all at once they > knew......KALI was coming to get them! Their trowsers were never the > same....c > > , " selena255 " > <selena@> wrote: > Sometimes kicking some butt is service, too--isn't it? > > > > Sel > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 Selena, a week or so ago Dr. John Gray was on C2C and spoke about the cause of depression in men and women. He said for men they are low in dopamine and for women it is a lack of Seritonin. For men they need to take Velvet Bean to help balance the dopamine level and for women they need parfonia bean (sp). Dr. John Gray is the guy who wrote men are from Mars and women from Venus. Check it out here, if it is of interest. http://www.marsvenus.com/xcart/product.php? productid=147 & xid=04f9c07d07ccfdc1e016888f31eeb55a Linda , " selena255 " <selena wrote: > > I have always been fairly cautions in undermining the work of > behavioral care professionals (and had quite a few disagreements with > on this issue, LOL!). However, after today's experience I am > afraid I need to revise my position on this matter. > > My husband is severely depressed, and has been caught in a downward > spiral for quite a while now. Finally he got prescribed Effexor. After > crying his eyes out for the last two days, he was sent to a > psychiatrist. The guy didn't even bother talking to him. His student > had a cursory interview with him, then the big fat doc barged in and > said " you have bipolar disease and will have to be on drugs for the > rest of your life. " I would not have a problem with that, except that > my husband has none of the symptoms of bipolar disease. I cautiously > questioned the diagnosis, only to get patronized by the big fat doc: > " I know it's a difficult diagnosis to accept, but your physician > wouldn't have referred you to me if he didn't know how good I am. " He > didn't even try to make a rational argument to persuade me--of course, > how dare the worried wifey of a tearful patient question Scientific > Authority? > > From now on, may I be damned if I say a word to defend the work of > legal drug pushers. > > Sel > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 Welcome to the club Selena. When all you have is a hammer, a lot of problems look like nails. Peter , " selena255 " <selena wrote: > > I have always been fairly cautions in undermining the work of > behavioral care professionals (and had quite a few disagreements with > on this issue, LOL!). However, after today's experience I am > afraid I need to revise my position on this matter. > > My husband is severely depressed, and has been caught in a downward > spiral for quite a while now. Finally he got prescribed Effexor. After > crying his eyes out for the last two days, he was sent to a > psychiatrist. The guy didn't even bother talking to him. His student > had a cursory interview with him, then the big fat doc barged in and > said " you have bipolar disease and will have to be on drugs for the > rest of your life. " I would not have a problem with that, except that > my husband has none of the symptoms of bipolar disease. I cautiously > questioned the diagnosis, only to get patronized by the big fat doc: > " I know it's a difficult diagnosis to accept, but your physician > wouldn't have referred you to me if he didn't know how good I am. " He > didn't even try to make a rational argument to persuade me--of course, > how dare the worried wifey of a tearful patient question Scientific > Authority? > > From now on, may I be damned if I say a word to defend the work of > legal drug pushers. > > Sel > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 Sounds like a real gas! - oops - SORRY! - c , " Linda " <crazycats711 wrote: > For men they > need to take Velvet Bean to help balance the dopamine level and for > women they need parfonia bean (sp). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 Peter, thanks for saying that. It's so true! I'll frame it and hang it up in my office! Sel , " peter.nichols " <peter wrote: > > Welcome to the club Selena. When all you have is a hammer, a lot of > problems look like nails. > > Peter > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 Hi Sel, LOL! Glad I could help! But it's true. In my younger days I thought I wanted to be an MD and took premed and thought very scientifically. When I started taking acupuncture and herbal classes, I explained it to myself as nerve blocking and yet to be discovered alkaloids. After about a year and a half suddenly it all made beautiful sense. Of course you can have an invasion of cold wind that brings low fever, chills, and a desire to drink hot liquids, slow pulse, a white tongue, and a desire to hide under the covers. I can't go back now, and the fact that MDs want to prescribe the same medications for roughly the same symptoms just blows my mind. Then one day I realized, my western MD as good as she is, is not treating me, but a statistical sample that I may or may not resemble. Madness. Peter , " selena255 " <selena wrote: > thanks for saying that. It's so true! I'll frame it and hang it up in > my office! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 I would echo what everyone else has said and add my own 2 cents ... I was clinically depressed from grade school though the age of 40 (more or less). Up until about 4-5 years ago I used to buy the so-called " scientific " idea that chemicals cause depression. I decided to stop taking the meds though because the side effects (and the cost) were worse than my emotional turmoil. Finally I reached rock bottom and a friend recommended I take a personal growth class. I was desperate, but I didn't really believe taking a class would make much difference. A couple weeks after that class, one of the team leaders (grads who volunteer to help new students) said to me " Oh my god Brandi you are actually smiling! " ... as miserable as I was, I thought I smiled during the class at some point, but he said " It never reached your eyes " . People now ask me how it can be I'm so happy. It makes me laugh, because " miserable " was such an ingrained part of my self-image I never thought the day would come when I would be able to say " I'm happy " . I experienced a miracle overcoming depression from this class, and nothing else I tried helped. By all means try the diets and supplements and see another doctor. Don't rule out the cognitive approach, get into some kind of experiential class if you can - books and ideas I got from people online only took me so far. I needed mentoring to get these concepts to " stick " . The class I took is sort of going through a transformative process right now, I don't know what the future holds for it in Toronto, but there is a class in Rochester NY based on the same process: http://www.lifestreamrochester.com/ ... I got a lot out of Caroline Myss's Book " Why People Don't Heal " and one called " Feeling Good " by David Burns. Brandi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 LOL! Chrism! Gosh dang! I don't think they use the whole bean to make those pills, if they do surely they removed the gas producing part. Anyways, I guess I should have done more research before posting about that. Here is a website where you can read about the benefits of the velvet bean. It looks like it has more benefits than the balance of hormones to help with depression. http://rain-tree.com/velvetbean.htm What was said about it on C2C sounded like a good thing to me. I have mostly been my own doctor for many years now. When I went through menopause I refuse to take the horse piss pills prescribed by my doctor. I did try the patch for that about a week, which was enough for me to know it was not for me. I found my own alternative for that and one of the thing I took was 5HTP for a while which was a big help for me. It is one of the ingredient in the pill for women, that Dr. Gray spoke of. I looked up the name and it is Griffonia simplicifolia. Sorry I should have looked that up before posting. http://www.affordablesupplements.com/5-htp_natures_way.asp The other thing I took was DIM. http://www.energeticnutrition.com/vitalzym/dim.html This is what helped me more than anything. I just wish I had known about it in my 40's. My daughter is taking DIM now at my advice for some problems she has been experiencing and it is helping her. She will be 40 this year. This is something that men can take for hormonal imbalances as well. Blessings, Linda , " chrism " <> wrote: > > Sounds like a real gas! - oops - SORRY! - c > > , " Linda " > <crazycats711@> wrote: > > > For men they > > need to take Velvet Bean to help balance the dopamine level and for > > women they need parfonia bean (sp). > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 21, 2008 Report Share Posted May 21, 2008 I agree. I have worked as a psychiatric RN (mostly in that area) since 1976. We all all 'Legal Drug Pushers " . The whole " medical system " is in a mess. You got a problem? The system looks at you for a few seconds and says " take this dope " . You are dying? The system takes you in...looks at you for a few days (seconds at a time each day) and says " take more dope until you die or get better " . Periodically the system malfunctions and helps people. Or perhaps the people survive despite the system? The Human Body is an amazing self regulating machine. The less we " mess with it " the better it seems to do. Feed it correctly. Exercise it correctly. Let it rest correctly. It will heal itself! Looking foward to retirement from the " Medical Machine " ! :) Stephen , " selena255 " <selena wrote: > > I have always been fairly cautions in undermining the work of > behavioral care professionals (and had quite a few disagreements with > on this issue, LOL!). However, after today's experience I am > afraid I need to revise my position on this matter. > > My husband is severely depressed, and has been caught in a downward > spiral for quite a while now. Finally he got prescribed Effexor. After > crying his eyes out for the last two days, he was sent to a > psychiatrist. The guy didn't even bother talking to him. His student > had a cursory interview with him, then the big fat doc barged in and > said " you have bipolar disease and will have to be on drugs for the > rest of your life. " I would not have a problem with that, except that > my husband has none of the symptoms of bipolar disease. I cautiously > questioned the diagnosis, only to get patronized by the big fat doc: > " I know it's a difficult diagnosis to accept, but your physician > wouldn't have referred you to me if he didn't know how good I am. " He > didn't even try to make a rational argument to persuade me--of course, > how dare the worried wifey of a tearful patient question Scientific > Authority? > > From now on, may I be damned if I say a word to defend the work of > legal drug pushers. > > Sel > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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