being quiet - sharon

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hi sharon, thanks i appreciate your kind words.

yea i agree about him being insecure. he wants to move up to management/have an

office. at this point that would not be good for jc or anyone. :-)

i will be seeing him to day. i will pray for him too.

debby

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Sharon Grubb

Saturday, June 14, 2008 10:51 AM

Re: being quiet

 

 

Hi Debby,

& nbsp;

I completely can understand where you are coming from. & nbsp; I manage a very

large team at my office and I have so many different personalities to deal

with. & nbsp; Usually this type of individual is truly just insecure with himself,

and needs help. & nbsp; & nbsp; I will pray for this person,and hope he will see the

light. & nbsp; You sound like a very hard and loyal worker, that anyone would be

blessed to have as an employee. & nbsp; I know I WOULD love to have about 10 of

you.

& nbsp;

God Bless

& nbsp;

Sharon

 

--- On Sat, 6/14/08, Debby W & lt;dwilliams25 & gt; wrote:

 

Debby W & lt;dwilliams25 & gt;

being quiet

Saturday, June 14, 2008, 12:24 AM

 

i think as some has said silence IS golden. i have never been the life of

the party...but i can be a very good listener, a best friend, the person

everyone wants to turn to for understanding and compassion. i love a good

time i can laugh and let my hair down with the best of them once i get to

know people, i'm just not the center of attention.

 

linda, when you mentioned just being in a quiet mood...i resonated with it.

since my husband and i split up i have spent many hours alone and i love it!

i am growing, thinking, feeling, breathing, reflecting in a way i never had

a chance to in all my life and loving it! i still have some uneasiness about

what the future holds for me but most of the time i can just go with

it....know its good.

 

interesting tidbit...they built a new jc penney's store here on our mall

right after the my split with hubby. i filled out an app and got hired. i

have worked there since before they opened, helped put the store together...

not my dream job...but it is part of my process to the next part of my life.

but its been good. i know everyone there. very friendly atmosphere. a new

guy gets hired in our dept. a couple weeks ago. he knows he's important

because they need a man in the department for the heavy lifting ect. he's

been brown nosing big time, but i'm one of those people who just don't care.

i go with the flow. i am very friendly with the people i know and the

customers. i have not had a nasty customer since we opened march 1 th

(that's a feat). i just do my job and well if i might add. lol any way all

this to say he's a talk way guy. i haven't been around him a lot till the

last couple days. spent just enough time with him to know he's a brown

noser, doesn't do any thing around the department except the heavy lifting

and hang out at the registers which isn't our main job but he is getting to

know and entertain the girls at the register. he and i were walking with one

of the supervisors for the catalog dept (register people) and he says the

supervisor (talking about me) she's so quiet...she needs to talk more...

being quiet is so lame and boring. i though did he really say that. what a

unenlightened something to say. brown noser...quick to cut someone down with

out even knowing them. i am sure it wont take long for him to be seen

through but they need him so life goes on....but i would not like to be him.

i like my quiet self and so do a lot of other people. i wonder how long it

will take for everyone to dislike him. i already know of a few.

 

i love friends and family but i love the time to know myself more....and god

has been kind enough to give me that and i am thankful.

 

debby