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Can some one help me understand, am I not trying enough am I trying to hard,

for over 3 years now,

 

it's to the point that I monitor my thoughts to make sure that what I'm

thinking is not negative or ego..

 

thank you

 

 

 

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Just allow dear T. No controlling or going into effort. You have

Kundalini. She has you. You do not need phenomena at this time for

confirmation. You have other issues that need your attention at this

time dear friend. Yes? - blessings to you. - chrism

 

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>it's to the point that I monitor my thoughts to make sure that what I'm

>thinking is not negative or ego..

 

Any time we're beating ourselves up, it's ego trying to keep us in our place.

When you are beating on yourself (and any time you consider yourself a failure,

you are beating on yourself), stop for a moment, pay attention to your

self-talk, and ask yourself ...

 

For even one red second ... would I let myself or someone else talk to a child

(or any of my friends) in this manner?

 

If not, why not? ... think about it for a bit ... now ask yourself why, if you

know it is abusive and counterproductive to talk to anyone else that way, why

are you doing it to yourself?

 

Oh, and before you start beating on yourself for beating on yourself <g> ...

have a good chuckle at the thought that more than one person here has done the

exact same thing. ;-)

 

 

Brandi

 

 

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Oh my goodness T;

 

You are not a failure by any stretch of the imagination!

Controlling thoughts can be difficult at times. When you mess up,

just forgive yourself, and start again. Just my humble opinion.

 

Much Love,

 

Melissa

 

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LionessLove76 wrote:

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> Can some one help me understand, am I not trying enough am I

trying to hard,

> for over 3 years now,

>

> it's to the point that I monitor my thoughts to make sure that

what I'm

> thinking is not negative or ego..

>

> thank you

>

>

>

> **************Gas prices getting you down? Search AOL Autos for

> fuel-efficient used cars. (http://autos.aol.com/used?

ncid=aolaut00050000000007)

>

>

>

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A favorite quote to share from Eckhart Tolle:

 

" Whatever you fight you strengthen,

Whatever you resist, persists. "

 

The mind is a flowing river. Just watch it go by, don't identify with

it. Release it and gain your freedom. My two cents, T! Love and a big

Hug, dhyana

 

 

 

 

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> LionessLove76@ wrote:

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> > Can some one help me understand, am I not trying enough am I

> trying to hard,

> > for over 3 years now,

> >

> > it's to the point that I monitor my thoughts to make sure that

> what I'm

> > thinking is not negative or ego..

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> > thank you

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