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Hi all..

 

This sounds so very much wierdbut ...i am not able to Love... :(((

I very much see love from a conceptual point... im just not been able

to experience it or give it to others.....i feel as if there is no

Love at all inside me.....anyone can look in me and tell wats wrong me

in me and tats stopping love from embracing me...please help

 

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Prasad

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Hi Prasad, I was just reading an article on this person's blog today

title, " Love Fire In Adam's Bones " . We all come from Adam the first

human so we all have according to this article and the bible enough

love fire in our bones to raise the dead.

 

If you are not sensing this love within this is what this person

suggested one do:

 

Majestify yourself, " you are wonderfully made " . Live your life

everyday like you've figured it out,,,,, until the day you do figure it

out. Everyday say, " I am expressing the fiery love in my bones: I am

loved, I love; I am loved, I love; I am loved, I love….. I the

Manifester tell you there is enough love in your bones to raise the

dead. No wonder why in Jesus's case not one bone of His body was ever

allowed to be broken (Psalms 34:20 KJV).

 

If interested here is where you can read the rest of the blog.

 

http://themanifester.com/WordPress/?p=116

 

Hugs & much love,

Linda

 

 

, " prasadkrn "

<nagendra.prasad wrote:

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> Hi all..

>

> This sounds so very much wierdbut ...i am not able to Love... :(((

> I very much see love from a conceptual point... im just not been able

> to experience it or give it to others.....i feel as if there is no

> Love at all inside me.....anyone can look in me and tell wats wrong me

> in me and tats stopping love from embracing me...please help

>

> regards

> Prasad

>

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Prasad, it sounds like a lot of things are coming up for you through the

K. Imho, this means progress is happening. If you can work through

this I think you will find yourself in a new and better place. Things

that are worth having rarely come easy.

 

Have you tried doing some selfless service for others? It is so

rewarding and it might stimulate some feelings of love in you.

 

Sarita

 

 

, " prasadkrn "

<nagendra.prasad wrote:

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> Hi all..

>

> This sounds so very much wierdbut ...i am not able to Love... :(((

> I very much see love from a conceptual point... im just not been able

> to experience it or give it to others.....i feel as if there is no

> Love at all inside me.....anyone can look in me and tell wats wrong me

> in me and tats stopping love from embracing me...please help

>

> regards

> Prasad

>

 

 

 

 

 

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hi all..

 

i just started to look into the entity called love...

 

i feel i cant even recognise it in others.....and whn i look at love i

feel fear in me...i am afraid to touch it.....as if im going to loose

something in me....im running away from it....

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At 10:23 PM 7/5/2008, you wrote:

>This sounds so very much wierdbut ...i am not able to Love... :(((

>I very much see love from a conceptual point... im just not been able

>to experience it or give it to others.....i feel as if there is no

>Love at all inside me.....anyone can look in me and tell wats wrong me

>in me and tats stopping love from embracing me...please help

 

Two thoughts come to me - one is that this is a common expression of people in

certain forms or stages of depression. They don't feel " sad " ... they just feel

numb.

 

If depression can be ruled out, then perhaps you are confusing " love " with the

hormonal rush that accompanies romantic love?

 

To me, " love " isn't always a " feeling " in the traditional romantic sense of the

word. If you care about others and want their best and highest good, that's the

truest form of love. Everything else is frosting on the cake ... and it can

sometimes distort the difference between love and attachment. It feels nice to

have that hormonal rush of course, but if you don't feel it, maybe that is not a

sign of something " wrong " with you but an opportunity to pursue a higher and

deeper, more meaningful kind of love?

 

Brandi

 

 

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At 12:43 AM 7/6/2008, you wrote:

>i just started to look into the entity called love...

>

>i feel i cant even recognise it in others.....and whn i look at love i

>feel fear in me...i am afraid to touch it.....as if im going to loose

>something in me....im running away from it....

 

How do you define " love " ?

 

Brandi

 

 

 

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Hey brandi.....love you for this :P

 

I feel every thing you said im able to draw some meaning out of

it....somewhere yes i am depressed and sad coz of some dissapointments

i got....so i think i go numb to love...

but the second one what you are talking of romantic love..i think tats

wat i try to define love as.....i just try to look out a romactic

fantazized version of love definition created by me ...and it thus

fails out everytime......now and then i do get a sort of very good

feeling in heart...a sort of plain and calm joy ...jsut the way as im

typing this mail.....so this is love???

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At 06:13 AM 7/6/2008, you wrote:

>Hey brandi.....love you for this :P

 

:-)

 

>I feel every thing you said im able to draw some meaning out of

>it....somewhere yes i am depressed and sad coz of some dissapointments

>i got....so i think i go numb to love...

 

I felt that way when I was depressed.

 

>but the second one what you are talking of romantic love..i think tats

>wat i try to define love as.....i just try to look out a romactic

>fantazized version of love definition created by me ...and it thus

>fails out everytime......now and then i do get a sort of very good

>feeling in heart...a sort of plain and calm joy ...jsut the way as im

>typing this mail.....so this is love???

 

It can be, yes. There are many different kinds of love. There is philos love,

" brotherly love " . There is agape love, what some call unconditional love. Most

people think of eros or physical love when they think of romance ... but in our

culture we have so overly romanticized eros love that it's lost all meaning.

It's that " falling in love " feeling. From where I sit, that's little more than a

hormonal rush, and it's not all it's cracked up to be. It rarely lasts longer

than a few months in any given relationship. After that, what lasts is the

philos or agape love. These kinds of love don't have the head or heart rush - at

least not as strongly. So a lot of people feel they have fallen out of love,

when that's not necessarily the case. My test of " love " is my willingness to do

the best and highest good for myself and for others. It's less about " feelings "

and more about " doings " .

 

I believe that calm joy is always inside us, whenever we can slow our minds

enough to feel it. It is part of agape love. A love for all things, just as they

are.

 

Brandi

 

 

 

 

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