Guest guest Posted July 9, 2008 Report Share Posted July 9, 2008 In ancient India and Tibet, Egypt, China and Arabia there were monasteries and hermitages set aside to train the Kundalini intended on the necessary steps involved in maintaining balance inside a Kundalini activation/Awakening. These students would go through the needed steps lead by those who had walked the path before them. They developed stages and gradients of information these students would when they were ready as deemed by their teachers, put into practice. They rarely left the school in many traditions. The students were " forced " to meditate and pray and perform service. They were " forced " to eat only certain foods, meditate in certain ways and perform the tasks given to them by their Masters (teachers). They were schooled in sometimes thousands of years old traditions of metaphysical knowledge. In this case " forced " is a good thing. Not so here, now. In the contemporary West there are many, many distractions that can confuse and mislead those who come into this experience. There is a medical community that treats this condition with the heaviest of drugs. There are micro waves and radio waves and television waves. Long waves and short waves and all manner of frequency generation. There is audible noise. There is visual noise. Foods that are mal- nutritious and water that has been altered by poisonous gases. Air that has been altered by poisonous gases, etc. It is now a very different world for the Kundalini to rise and yet she does rise. All this to say that when dealing with strong emotional Kundalini induced phenomena one needs to be very carefully focused on what is occurring and how to organize, as best as possible, the ego response when the phenomena threatens to overwhelm. If you experience the loss of a loved one it can be very hard on the newly Kundalini Awakened. A person can go into severe emotional trauma. But take a step back from the intensity of the experience as best you can and internally detach and allow the grieving process to occur with out becoming so attached to it that the greif begins to do you instead of you doing it. Though sometimes this will occur. If you cannot find balance simply allow this to happen. The old ways would only allow a certain degree of time for a grief period andthen " It's a new day! " The Tibetans would basically get the time todo the " Prayer for the dead " and then it was business as usual astheir knowledge of the afterlife allowed them to know some things for certain. With Kundalini do your best to not become overwhelmed. Remember the amplification that will occur. Stay in touch. Let us know what is happening with you. - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2008 Report Share Posted July 9, 2008 Hello chrism and all... I feel I have been getting exposed to this amplification factors.....especially with the case of anger and sadness.... When I get angry...it just shoots up so much....i can feel the fire burning....i just loose the temper to such a extent I shout like hell and fight a lot....now a days its going beyond I even step on the verge of sending some energy to the person im angry.....somehow I control myself in doing this and pull the energy and myself back... And when sad...no need to ask...first of all im sort of a emotional bucket....and the sadness just fills in it and starts flooding out...I take days to get back a smile on my face,.....and this hardly remains....im lost in my own disappointments and sadness..... Yes for se & ual drive too....it goes to an intolerable state...its so hard to stop myself...being from a hindu background where it is under much private and secretly observed part of the life...its being much difficult for me....it is a suffering for me in this factor... Im surprised I have never experienced any amplification of happiness in me.... :-/ Regards prasad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2008 Report Share Posted July 9, 2008 > > If you experience the loss of a loved one it can be very hard on the > newly Kundalini Awakened. A person can go into severe emotional > trauma. But take a step back from the intensity of the experience as > best you can and internally detach and allow the grieving process to > occur with out becoming so attached to it that the greif begins to > do you instead of you doing it. Though sometimes this will occur. If > you cannot find balance simply allow this to happen. > > The old ways would only allow a certain degree of time for a grief > period andthen " It's a new day! " The Tibetans would basically get > the time todo the " Prayer for the dead " and then it was business as > usual astheir knowledge of the afterlife allowed them to know some > things for certain. > > With Kundalini do your best to not become overwhelmed. Remember the > amplification that will occur. Stay in touch. Let us know what is > happening > with you. - I am one of the grieving members...and this is what is happening with me. My grief over the loss of my precious father continues...it has been a little over 4 months since he transitioned. This weekend at the Lake where my mother still lives in the house that Dad and my siblings and I built for them 20 years ago, we gathered to spread Dad's ashes according to his wishes....around the 4 acres of land and in the lake that abuts the property. I felt immense sadness, as we were performing the final chapter in the book of my dad's earthly life. I know that my dad continues! I know that he is free of his body, which had been made useless by Peripheral Neuropathy, and I know that he is happier than he has ever been now that he is at Home, as he loved God and had faith that he would join Him. I am allowing myself to grieve and I believe that I am " doing it " rather than letting the grief " do me. " I wonder how long the grief will last??? If it's proportional to the love I have for Dad, then it will never end. I can't express how 'wrong' his absence feels! Some days, tears just aren't enough to ease the aching in my heart. I feel distant from my kundalini right now...I am talking to God and trying hard not to be overwhelmed by my sadness but I long for the day when I can feel less 'attached' to Dad and my grief, and I can get on with my wonderful life and my awakening. And that seems to be the best that I can do for now... Thank you for this post, Chris. I am very grateful for you and this group. Love & blessings, Claudia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2008 Report Share Posted July 9, 2008 Claudia, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I am sending loving prayers your way. Your friend, Sharon --- On Wed, 7/9/08, Claudia <newtfoodbowl wrote: Claudia <newtfoodbowl Re: Modern Awakenings Wednesday, July 9, 2008, 1:20 PM > > If you experience the loss of a loved one it can be very hard on the > newly Kundalini Awakened. A person can go into severe emotional > trauma. But take a step back from the intensity of the experience as > best you can and internally detach and allow the grieving process to > occur with out becoming so attached to it that the greif begins to > do you instead of you doing it. Though sometimes this will occur. If > you cannot find balance simply allow this to happen. > > The old ways would only allow a certain degree of time for a grief > period andthen " It's a new day! " The Tibetans would basically get > the time todo the " Prayer for the dead " and then it was business as > usual astheir knowledge of the afterlife allowed them to know some > things for certain. > > With Kundalini do your best to not become overwhelmed. Remember the > amplification that will occur. Stay in touch. Let us know what is > happening > with you. - I am one of the grieving members...and this is what is happening with me. My grief over the loss of my precious father continues... it has been a little over 4 months since he transitioned. This weekend at the Lake where my mother still lives in the house that Dad and my siblings and I built for them 20 years ago, we gathered to spread Dad's ashes according to his wishes....around the 4 acres of land and in the lake that abuts the property. I felt immense sadness, as we were performing the final chapter in the book of my dad's earthly life. I know that my dad continues! I know that he is free of his body, which had been made useless by Peripheral Neuropathy, and I know that he is happier than he has ever been now that he is at Home, as he loved God and had faith that he would join Him. I am allowing myself to grieve and I believe that I am " doing it " rather than letting the grief " do me. " I wonder how long the grief will last??? If it's proportional to the love I have for Dad, then it will never end. I can't express how 'wrong' his absence feels! Some days, tears just aren't enough to ease the aching in my heart. I feel distant from my kundalini right now...I am talking to God and trying hard not to be overwhelmed by my sadness but I long for the day when I can feel less 'attached' to Dad and my grief, and I can get on with my wonderful life and my awakening. And that seems to be the best that I can do for now... Thank you for this post, Chris. I am very grateful for you and this group. Love & blessings, Claudia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2008 Report Share Posted July 9, 2008 At 05:05 AM 7/9/2008, you wrote: >If you experience the loss of a loved one it can be very hard on the >newly Kundalini Awakened. A person can go into severe emotional >trauma. But take a step back from the intensity of the experience as >best you can and internally detach and allow the grieving process to >occur with out becoming so attached to it that the greif begins to >do you instead of you doing it. Though sometimes this will occur. If >you cannot find balance simply allow this to happen. I went through several deaths when my " Experiences " first started happening. In the late 80's, I lived in Vancouver's " gay ghetto " , in the middle of one of the first sweeps of the AIDS epidemic. I lost 5 friends to AIDS in a six month period, another died of lung cancer. I was strangely detached about it for the most part, but I have always seemed to have that reaction to death. Not to say it doesn't move me - I was profoundly moved by one friend's passing, I witnessed his spirit leaving his body a few hours before he died. I think having Kundalini active was a comfort, it allowed me to know their spirits were still alive, and that made a big difference to me. I think the word " attachment " really keys in on what is going on when there is overwhelming grief. We get attached to people - we may love and be attached, but we can also be attached without love. Few people are capable of love without attachment, yet that's where peace comes from. Brandi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2008 Report Share Posted July 9, 2008 At 01:20 PM 7/9/2008, you wrote: >I am one of the grieving members...and this is what is happening with >me. My grief over the loss of my precious father continues... There is no time clock that says you must grieve " this much time " and no longer. Four months for most folks isn't that long for a loss this great ... it's still pretty raw for you. I do think you are maybe being a bit too hard on yourself, but you do seem to be asking " How can I move on? " That's a good sign. Healing starts there. >I wonder how long the grief will last??? If it's proportional to the >love I have for Dad, then it will never end. I believe living a life full of joy is the best gift any daughter can give her father, regardless of the circumstances. >I long for the day when I can feel less 'attached' When I face a loss, whether it is through death, or through some other of life's transitions, I try to remember to celebrate the life whenever I am tempted to stay stuck in my sadness over the loss. I " let " myself feel joy over the memories we created, and gratitude that I had the opportunity to create that for whatever time we were granted together. That puts me back on track again. Everyone is different. What may take me a few days or weeks to grieve may take someone else months. Only you can decide " now's the time " . Don't let anyone tell you what that timing should be. Brandi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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