Marriage 1

[Guest guest]

What happens when Kundalini comes to one spouse and not the other?

Sometimes it can be the cross upon which all of the issues of the

marriage come to bear. Sometimes it can be so heavy that the solid

timbers of the cross will snap! And the contents of the relationship

will tumble to the earth.

 

Sometimes the cross of the marriage is strengthened as the love

between husband and wife becomes laced with the living gold of the

divine Marriage. The Kundalini.

 

So much of the success of a marriage and the loving dynamic of the

activated individual will depend on the support of the spouse that

isn't being activated at that time. These are the heroic spouses. To

stand in the presence of kriyas and spinal sweeps and simply release

the desire to rush their dear spouse off to the hospital is a true

and

faithful person who can trust and be trusted and who can live by that

trust and faith. Knowing that it is their partner in life's wishes

that this be allowed regardless of contemporary panic opportunities.

 

Many crosses will break but they do not have to. They can be

strengthened by just a little bit of education. Even a mere book on

the coffee table. For instance Ajit Mookerji's Kundalini book with

its

Golden cover and its historical and visual descriptions of the

Kundalini. This can help a spouse begin the journey of understanding.

Or a video like Anodea Judiths Kundalini video. You can find it

on " you tube " .

 

These are just two ways a spouse can be educated into the fact of the

Kundalini as it transforms the activated spouse. A gentle help and a

gentle and trusting directed visual or educational option for the

spouse not being activated can be extremely beneficial for the entire

process.

 

During the kriyas stage it is often best to get separate sleeping

arrangements as the contortions of the awakening spouse can be

somewhat severe in scope and range of motion. Separate beds would be

a

definite yet impermanent assistance as at least one spouse may be

able

to sleep.

 

It is very important for the awakening spouse to be aware of their

emotional balances inside of their awakening and to do their best to

not " blow up " at the marriage partner due to hurts and harms one has

received or inflicted and that are being released due to the

awakening

process. You may struggle with this at first but if the both of you

know that these are being brought up for balancing then at least the

knowledge can stave off the hurt that can be unintentionally given.

 

It is important to realize that the awakening spouse is no

more " spiritual " than the supporting spouse. Kundalini may end up

coming to the supporting spouse as well and as it is in every human

being the idea of a competition between the spouses is probably

related to other imbalances within the marriage.

 

So it is a test and a strong reward for those in a marriage.

Sometimes

it takes time and gentle nudges here and there by the awakening

spouse. Sometimes it requires the foot going down and the parameters

explained in no uncertain terms. This is up to the dynamic already

present in the marriage.

 

It isn't always helpful to be as honest and revealing all at once to

a

spouse that isn't familiar or activating with the Kundalini. Slow and

gentle and always present visual stimulations can help. A chakra book

or poster. Or the picture of an awakened being with an aura etc. It

is

important to determine the rate of information a spouse can handle

safely and with in the known comfort levels.

 

Kundalini will also be working on them to be sure as the proximity

and

degree of sharing will bear fruit. Not always in an awakening though.

One must remember the inherent intelligence of the Kundalini and its

ability to discern the dynamic of receptivity for Kundalini of the

supporting spouse.

 

Kundalini can greatly enhance the marital experience. It can open

windows and doorways into amazing shared and deeply intimate personal

experiences of bliss and ecstasy beyond words. It can be so wonderful

to have and be a supportive spouse. It can be the difference between

a

crumbled cross and one that stands the test of time, shining amidst

the love of the divine marriage reflected into the physical

expression. -

[Guest guest]

I have to say that I am one of those who is blessed with a wonderful

(and very understanding) husband. We are best friends and share

everything. When I first realized that I was going through an

awakening, I didn't tell him for a week. That was the worst, most

miserable week of my life because we don't keep secrets. I just

didn't know how to approach it as I didn't really understand it

myself!

 

I fully sympathise with those who are faced with trying to explain

this to their spouse/partner. I imagine if there are any issues

already in the marriage that it will be double hard to approach it.

 

Telling him about the K was one of the hardest, most awkward things I

have ever done. I think the " little at a time " approach might be

good for those who are not sure how their spouse/partner will react.

It's a big pill to swallow, even for those just beginning to go

through it. Just my ten cents.

 

Sarita

 

, " chrism "

<> wrote:

>

> What happens when Kundalini comes to one spouse and not the other?

> Sometimes it can be the cross upon which all of the issues of the

> marriage come to bear. Sometimes it can be so heavy that the solid

> timbers of the cross will snap! And the contents of the relationship

> will tumble to the earth.

[Guest guest]

Reading this just made me so grateful for my wonderful hubby who supports me

whole heartedly within my spiritual persuits.

I think the Kundalini is such a blessing to be enjoyed within a happy marriage

and can take you to places of intimacy beyond just s$x.

 

Thanks for that wonderful post

elektra x x x

 

 

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