Guest guest Posted July 16, 2008 Report Share Posted July 16, 2008 " Oh I have been doing THAT my entire life! " I hear this quite a bit from people who are going to just pass over the emotional balances through forgiveness. Or they will forgive it once and expect that it is done and will not repeat or make the forgiving part of a continuing practice. Hurts that are received need to be balanced through forgiveness. They need to be acknowledged and released and it typically isn't a one time process. It must be done over and over assiduously recovering and remembering those things that were part of the pain, those people who were part of the pain, those scenarios that were part of the pain. And as these are uncovered they require forgiveness for a piece of the balance to be achieved. Little pieces adding up to a whole. You will know without needing to be told when a matter is at last put to rest. With the Kundalini the emotional state can become extremely magnified and even the littlest hurt can become a huge issue. This little issue can become a snowball of anxiety and hurt and deception if it is allowed to go unchecked. So as you begin to feel a certain way that is perhaps not balanced emotionally about a subject or person or experience, go into it and check it out! Do not let it sit and fester and infect the other aspects of your emotional body. Work at it and allow it to cleanse and heal. It takes an effort at times so please be advised of this. It takes effort and diligence to be aware of the emotional body and then it takes an effort to reveal that which needs to be cleared and then to clear it. As one gets into the practice of doing this one becomes more adept and the resolutions do become much quicker and more pronounced in the ability to plumb the depths of the issue. Old hurts are covered up by more denial and more memory blocks than new ones unless the new ones are extremely severe. So if one has had a difficult childhood one can then uncover it piece by piece and begin to forgive and balance those hurtful remembrances that occurred as a child. Often the view of an adult of a childhood issue is enough to work the balance in and of itself as the person now being an adult can perhaps relate to what the parent or parents did as they tried what they could to raise the child within societal guidelines present at that time. Other hurts from parent to child go much deeper and require more time and more love. So please DO this part of the practice. You have EVERYTHING to gain from it and it can save you from focusing on a negative event blown up and magnified by Kundalini. - blessings all - chrism Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2008 Report Share Posted July 16, 2008 thank you, chrism. i can never read this too many times..... brandyk On 7/16/08, chrism <> wrote: > > " Oh I have been doing THAT my entire life! " > > I hear this quite a bit from people who are going to just pass over > the emotional balances through forgiveness. Or they will forgive it > once and expect that it is done and will not repeat or make the > forgiving part of a continuing practice. > > Hurts that are received need to be balanced through forgiveness. > They need to be acknowledged and released and it typically isn't a > one time process. It must be done over and over assiduously > recovering and remembering those things that were part of the pain, > those people who were part of the pain, those scenarios that were > part of the pain. > > And as these are uncovered they require forgiveness for a piece of > the balance to be achieved. Little pieces adding up to a whole. You > will know without needing to be told when a matter is at last put to > rest. > > With the Kundalini the emotional state can become extremely > magnified and even the littlest hurt can become a huge issue. This > little issue can become a snowball of anxiety and hurt and deception > if it is allowed to go unchecked. > > So as you begin to feel a certain way that is perhaps not balanced > emotionally about a subject or person or experience, go into it and > check it out! Do not let it sit and fester and infect the other > aspects of your emotional body. > > Work at it and allow it to cleanse and heal. It takes an effort at > times so please be advised of this. It takes effort and diligence to > be aware of the emotional body and then it takes an effort to reveal > that which needs to be cleared and then to clear it. > > As one gets into the practice of doing this one becomes more adept > and the resolutions do become much quicker and more pronounced in > the ability to plumb the depths of the issue. > > Old hurts are covered up by more denial and more memory blocks than > new ones unless the new ones are extremely severe. So if one has had > a difficult childhood one can then uncover it piece by piece and > begin to forgive and balance those hurtful remembrances that > occurred as a child. > > Often the view of an adult of a childhood issue is enough to work > the balance in and of itself as the person now being an adult can > perhaps relate to what the parent or parents did as they tried what > they could to raise the child within societal guidelines present at > that time. Other hurts from parent to child go much deeper and > require more time and more love. > > So please DO this part of the practice. You have EVERYTHING to gain > from it and it can save you from focusing on a negative event blown > up and magnified by Kundalini. - blessings all - chrism > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2008 Report Share Posted July 16, 2008 Thank you, Chrism, for this very timely reminder. I seem to be going through a phase of extreme emotional sensitivity, where, as you mention, the slightest hurt or harsh word is blown way out of proportion in my consciousness. It's as if my heart and solar plexus chakras have been exposed to the open air, raw and sensitive. Many lessons re forgiveness, letting go and relinquishing control have been coming my way. Some of them take a while for me to get -- even when I remember I need to forgive right away, I'm sometimes so overwhelmed or rocked off balance by a triggering event I can't actually forgive or release until some time has passed and the knot of anger or hurt has unclenched somewhat. On the flip side, I've also had many beautiful moments, especially when meditating, listening to kirtan and petting the cats or hugging my son, filling up with love. Some of the kirtan I listen to is simultaneously the saddest and most beautiful thing, filled with wistful longing, as if a glimpse of home were viewed through a window and then the window closed, but the memory and longing for the experience remains. Much love, David , " chrism " <> wrote: > > " Oh I have been doing THAT my entire life! " > > I hear this quite a bit from people who are going to just pass over > the emotional balances through forgiveness. Or they will forgive it > once and expect that it is done and will not repeat or make the > forgiving part of a continuing practice. > > Hurts that are received need to be balanced through forgiveness. > They need to be acknowledged and released and it typically isn't a > one time process. It must be done over and over assiduously > recovering and remembering those things that were part of the pain, > those people who were part of the pain, those scenarios that were > part of the pain. > > And as these are uncovered they require forgiveness for a piece of > the balance to be achieved. Little pieces adding up to a whole. You > will know without needing to be told when a matter is at last put to > rest. > > With the Kundalini the emotional state can become extremely > magnified and even the littlest hurt can become a huge issue. This > little issue can become a snowball of anxiety and hurt and deception > if it is allowed to go unchecked. > > So as you begin to feel a certain way that is perhaps not balanced > emotionally about a subject or person or experience, go into it and > check it out! Do not let it sit and fester and infect the other > aspects of your emotional body. > > Work at it and allow it to cleanse and heal. It takes an effort at > times so please be advised of this. It takes effort and diligence to > be aware of the emotional body and then it takes an effort to reveal > that which needs to be cleared and then to clear it. > > As one gets into the practice of doing this one becomes more adept > and the resolutions do become much quicker and more pronounced in > the ability to plumb the depths of the issue. > > Old hurts are covered up by more denial and more memory blocks than > new ones unless the new ones are extremely severe. So if one has had > a difficult childhood one can then uncover it piece by piece and > begin to forgive and balance those hurtful remembrances that > occurred as a child. > > Often the view of an adult of a childhood issue is enough to work > the balance in and of itself as the person now being an adult can > perhaps relate to what the parent or parents did as they tried what > they could to raise the child within societal guidelines present at > that time. Other hurts from parent to child go much deeper and > require more time and more love. > > So please DO this part of the practice. You have EVERYTHING to gain > from it and it can save you from focusing on a negative event blown > up and magnified by Kundalini. - blessings all - chrism > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2008 Report Share Posted July 17, 2008 Congratulations David !! It sounds like you've invited the Divine Feminine to be a permanent house guest. Much awaits you - Love and best wishes - John. ==================== David wrote: " --- I seem to be going through a phase of extreme emotional sensitivity -----. It's as if my heart and solar plexus chakras have been exposed to the open air, raw and sensitive -- " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2008 Report Share Posted July 17, 2008 And I just " thought " I had purged myself of old beliefs and forgiven all those in my path who had harmed me, and made amends to all those I had harmed. Yet I kept repeating old behavior. Now I know that I am experiencing my " dark night of the soul " ; but I am also aware that is one of the last vestiges of dropping EGO. It is time to Wake UP!!! That is my exercise during the next few days, to tell myself to WAKE UP!!!. Chrism's posts come uncannily at the moment I am trudging through the mire, covered with mud. I am beginning to see the way out, the other side, the pristine beach, the golden meadow. Shaktipat is sending dreams, very profound, wake up, sleep, dream, face another old adversary. 8 hours of sleep, and wake up tired. " This too shall pass. " Namaste my friends --- On Wed, 7/16/08, chrism <> wrote: <> Emotional Balancing Wednesday, July 16, 2008, 9:18 PM " Oh I have been doing THAT my entire life! " I hear this quite a bit from people who are going to just pass over the emotional balances through forgiveness. Or they will forgive it once and expect that it is done and will not repeat or make the forgiving part of a continuing practice. Hurts that are received need to be balanced through forgiveness. They need to be acknowledged and released and it typically isn't a one time process. It must be done over and over assiduously recovering and remembering those things that were part of the pain, those people who were part of the pain, those scenarios that were part of the pain. And as these are uncovered they require forgiveness for a piece of the balance to be achieved. Little pieces adding up to a whole. You will know without needing to be told when a matter is at last put to rest. With the Kundalini the emotional state can become extremely magnified and even the littlest hurt can become a huge issue. This little issue can become a snowball of anxiety and hurt and deception if it is allowed to go unchecked. So as you begin to feel a certain way that is perhaps not balanced emotionally about a subject or person or experience, go into it and check it out! Do not let it sit and fester and infect the other aspects of your emotional body. Work at it and allow it to cleanse and heal. It takes an effort at times so please be advised of this. It takes effort and diligence to be aware of the emotional body and then it takes an effort to reveal that which needs to be cleared and then to clear it. As one gets into the practice of doing this one becomes more adept and the resolutions do become much quicker and more pronounced in the ability to plumb the depths of the issue. Old hurts are covered up by more denial and more memory blocks than new ones unless the new ones are extremely severe. So if one has had a difficult childhood one can then uncover it piece by piece and begin to forgive and balance those hurtful remembrances that occurred as a child. Often the view of an adult of a childhood issue is enough to work the balance in and of itself as the person now being an adult can perhaps relate to what the parent or parents did as they tried what they could to raise the child within societal guidelines present at that time. Other hurts from parent to child go much deeper and require more time and more love. So please DO this part of the practice. You have EVERYTHING to gain from it and it can save you from focusing on a negative event blown up and magnified by Kundalini. - blessings all - chrism Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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