Guest guest Posted August 5, 2008 Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 dear and group I personally am against moderating people like (smiles),Iknow it does'nt bother you Chrism. I have been here over a year and have seen you attacked many times,it rallys people around you,everybody responds in a positive manner the group grows even stronger,nobody ever leaves because of the criticism. You once said to me,intention is everything,( smiles )may very well have had good intentions,trying to save us all from the evil Chrism.She/he was wrong.people are allowed to be wrong.It brings the lurkers like myself out of the woodwork to voice an opinion. You are a much loved person, nobody is going to come into this group,however erudite or knowledgable, and split it up. Love to all Rod Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2008 Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 Sharon wrote:"If nothing else, we would be adding NO fuel to their fire. I honestly believe that often times these posters come here seeking an angry and foul reaction, [(a sort of misguided thrill-V.)] thereby giving them further justification to their argument. When they fail to receive that type of reaction, it actually bursts their bubble and spoils all of their fun." Sharon, my thoughts exactly! I meant to say it and you beat me to it! LOL Yes, love the feeling of tolerance, compassion and love from inside this group. It is a rare gem, as ;you say! Love you guys, Valarie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2008 Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 I think it is keeping the group on track with ''K'' that matters the most,and that people have the support needed to get thro the tests. Thus the people who cause ''division division division' 'must eventually be asked to leave. Igor. From: rodneyderbyshireDate: Tue, 5 Aug 2008 23:08:17 +0000 A special place dear and groupI personally am against moderating people like (smiles),Iknow it does'nt bother you Chrism. I have been here over a year and have seen you attacked many times,it rallys people around you,everybody responds in a positive manner the group grows even stronger,nobody ever leaves because of the criticism.You once said to me,intention is everything,( smiles )may very well have had good intentions,trying to save us all from the evil Chrism.She/he was wrong.people are allowed to be wrong.It brings the lurkers like myself out of the woodwork to voice an opinion.You are a much loved person, nobody is going to come into this group,however erudite or knowledgable, and split it up.Love to allRod Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2008 Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 Hi Igor, You raise a good point.. and if someone came to this group and " actually " created division, I could not agree more. That is where the guidelines would come in... But I think it would take allot, for someone to divide this group... I really do..... Especially if we consider what our k activation is trying to help us with and teach us. For me personally, I think it has enabled me to strive to become a more tolerant, patient, and compassionate human being. But if the essence of this group were threatened, .. Meaning that the darkness or " threat " would be greater than the love and light that we could over shadow it with, I completely agree the darkness or threat should be asked to leave. With all of the wonderfully k activated people here, I am thinking, that is not going to happen too often... meaning, we will actually feel a real threat. I may be completely wrong, and naive, and if so, PLEASE feel free to tell me!! I I have only been a member a few months, so I don't completely understand the dynamics as maybe someone who has been here longer. Much love and respect, Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2008 Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 I say, leave it the same, and use the intrusions as teaching moments. Peter , " chrism " <> wrote: > > We have a special place here. A place where tender beginnings are made > and a place that must resonate love for those special beginnings to be > nurtured into greater maturity. > > I have a policy of as much freedom of speech as possible. Up to > recently I feel it has worked pretty well. I know that many doubt my > methods and teachings and this is ok. Yet for those who do not it can > become very disruptive to the sensitivites of those that are being > awakened. > > So I am putting it out to you. - > > Shall there be more restrictions on how much condemnation and vitriol > is allowed to be posted here? > > Do you feel that we should place newcomers on automatic moderation? > > Do you feel as if we should change anything? > - blessings all - chrism > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2008 Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 Val, You helped a great deal by sharing how you felt so eloquently. Huge hug!! Sharon --- On Tue, 8/5/08, Valarie Vousden <vjvousden wrote: Valarie Vousden <vjvousden Re: A Special Place Tuesday, August 5, 2008, 1:21 PM I don't suppose this will be much help...I can see both sides of this issue. After reading Reg's post, it made sense...ah HA! Yes. But then seeing Sarita's I totally see how this sort of thing would send new people screaming out the door. As one that's been here over a year Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2008 Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 Sharon the way you worded this brought back to my mind how an OBE forum I was a member of was destroyed by this one person who was allowed to stay way too long. He really thought he was doing the right thing and that he was right and the rest who did not side with him was wrong. Once he was banned, he ended up hacking the forum and he deleted it. He deleted everything. Only the ones who had been sending personal e-mail to each other where able to get together and create a new forum from the ashes, but many of the members were lost. No way of contacting them. The first time we were attacked here I sort of freaked, but after seeing how handled it, I knew that what happened to that forum would most likey never happen here. It seems we are attacked soon after each shaktipat. Linda , Sharon Grubb <sharongrbb2000 wrote: > > Hi Igor, > > You raise a good point.. and if someone came to this group and " actually " created division, I could not agree more. That is where the guidelines would come in... But I think it would take allot, for someone to divide this group... I really do..... Especially if we consider what our k activation is trying to help us with and teach us. For me personally, I think it has enabled me to strive to become a more tolerant, patient, and compassionate human being. But if the essence of this group were threatened, .. Meaning that the darkness or " threat " would be greater than the love and light that we could over shadow it with, I completely agree the darkness or threat should be asked to leave. > With all of the wonderfully k activated people here, I am thinking, that is not going to happen too often... meaning, we will actually feel a real threat. I may be completely wrong, and naive, and if so, PLEASE feel free to tell me!! I I have only been a member a few months, so I don't completely understand the dynamics as maybe someone who has been here longer. > > Much love and respect, > > Sharon > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2008 Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 How can you attack that which needs no defense? I know you are never hurt by criticism Chrism. It only provides opportunities for all of us to practice loving tolerance. And it gives you a chance to show your full disclosure. So when it comes every once in a while, let us partake of these lessons until we get better and better at them. So I say no automatic moderation for me. Moderate them after it becomes clear all they intend to do is attack, for some attacking might very well be part of their process. Who are we to judge? So for me, I'm fine the way things are. lots of love to everyone, bradly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2008 Report Share Posted August 5, 2008 Would this be a good question for a Poll? Love. , " chrism " <> wrote: > > We have a special place here. A place where tender beginnings are made > and a place that must resonate love for those special beginnings to be > nurtured into greater maturity. > > I have a policy of as much freedom of speech as possible. Up to > recently I feel it has worked pretty well. I know that many doubt my > methods and teachings and this is ok. Yet for those who do not it can > become very disruptive to the sensitivites of those that are being > awakened. > > So I am putting it out to you. - > > Shall there be more restrictions on how much condemnation and vitriol > is allowed to be posted here? > > Do you feel that we should place newcomers on automatic moderation? > > Do you feel as if we should change anything? > - blessings all - chrism > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 6, 2008 Report Share Posted August 6, 2008 I do believe that this forum should have restrictions to keep the topics to kundalini, challenging peoples character is not of that learning, I am not interested in idle slandering of people or arguing. We should all stay within the parametres set of loving consideration to one another. Maybe we could open a new group called " kundalini attack and ego battle forum " where people can air their concerns and fears. Then I can choose not to be a part of THAT forum. Love and smiles elektra x x x ________ Not happy with your email address?. Get the one you really want - millions of new email addresses available now at http://uk.docs./ymail/new.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 6, 2008 Report Share Posted August 6, 2008 This is correct and if you see the posting on guidlines for our interactions here on the site we are set up to discuss,''K'' issues. Having said that there will be people who always question the Messenger,and want human proof. I agree we are strong as a group and not going to be broken up.................the new people will go thro an intense period as they read the site and experience discord. It is a test for them to see ''thro'' these issues and glean the path of Intiation for ''K'' as this is an Inner walk with your inside self. Having said that if some members go over the top on being negative,then removal is required. Igor. From: sharongrbb2000Date: Tue, 5 Aug 2008 17:00:09 -0700RE: A special place Hi Igor,You raise a good point.. and if someone came to this group and "actually" created division, I could not agree more. That is where the guidelines would come in... But I think it would take allot, for someone to divide this group... I really do..... Especially if we consider what our k activation is trying to help us with and teach us. For me personally, I think it has enabled me to strive to become a more tolerant, patient, and compassionate human being. But if the essence of this group were threatened, .. Meaning that the darkness or "threat" would be greater than the love and light that we could over shadow it with, I completely agree the darkness or threat should be asked to leave. With all of the wonderfully k activated people here, I am thinking, that is not going to happen too often... meaning, we will actually feel a real threat. I may be completely wrong, and naive, and if so, PLEASE feel free to tell me!! I I have only been a member a few months, so I don't completely understand the dynamics as maybe someone who has been here longer.Much love and respect,Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 6, 2008 Report Share Posted August 6, 2008 Subversive posts may inspire or pain experienced members for a day or two, but a wary newbie leaving on the strength of them could conceivably suffer unnecessarily for years, and that troubles me. So overall I think I opt for initial moderation too. Tom , Claudia <newtfoodbowl wrote: > > Enough to cause some to leave the group > > Bottom line: I believe that new people should be moderated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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