Guest guest Posted September 8, 2008 Report Share Posted September 8, 2008 Here's a lot to think over! If you have any detailed questions of a sensitive nature, please take them to the Tantra site, where we can write words without @##%@# !! be well, bradly -tantra/ S@xuality S@xuality is interesting from what I have observed inside my awakening. As I have written the two that are one are with in us right now. All of us have this representation. We have a sacred male and a sacred female. So the expression of the physical being that of male or female can be attenuated from the spirits journey inside that equation. Many homos@xuals are actually bi-s@xual and they are sometimes expressing the concept of the sacred male and female via their physical desires. Most are not but some are. In primitive cultures the person who exhibited both male and female attributes were sought after as the Healers or the Shamans as they were seen as having the propensity for understanding both genders. This was accepted and s@xual expression by them was understood as a natural course of logic. As they represented both then it wasn't seen as to farfetched that they would have appetites for both. S@xuality is like a very complex musical instrument. It will express its needs but can be molded or tuned by society. It can be difficult to deny but this is possible as well. Kundalini doesn't care how a person expresses their s@xuality in my opinion. When your second chakra gets lit up you will understand my meanings here. Kundalini cares about her agenda with the rewiring of your body and the decisions you make regarding that. Kundalini will not judge a person for a s@xual interest or a chosen expression of that interest unless the individual is committing Karma that will disengage a flow. The soul or Higher Self(ves) will stop the activation of a person committing r#pes or murders or tortures or other actions of the lower forces. What is important is that you live according to your own individual truth. And be happy living in harmony with that truth. Respecting other truths and individuals who may be different in their take of what works for them. Tolerance goes a long way. Inside and out. - S@x S@x can be a doorway or a gate for the increased flow of Kundalini. When experienced with love and inside of a Tantric format it can be a very powerful event. Your conscious reality can become shattered. And you may find yourself in an unfamiliar place and this of course can encourage fear. S@xual congress with a Kundalini active or interested person can activate a person very quickly and if done so with out any of the balances that we do here the person can become very extreme in their experience with the Kundalini and often fearful to the point of paranoia and psychosis. This may earn them a trip to visit the local Master Condrey in the psyche ward (they would be lucky to do so!) S@x can be one of the closest physical reflections of the divine two that are one. I would suggest that in the context of the Kundalini never have s@x without love and without the understanding of what is occurring when you do have s@x. S@x isn't just for the creation of a new life. That is one of the functions. It is also used for the creation and installation of a new phase of existence in an extant life. i.e. the Kundalini upon the human being. Many who have a hard experience with the Kriyas have often been activated by a s@xual experience. No conditioning or balances and wham! There they go. So it can be difficult. My views on s@x from where I am now are that it is to be experienced with in the parameters of love as a conscious celebration of the two that are one. Always. From a Kundalini perspective the male should retain his s$men. He should not ej$culate and allow the s@men to be reversed into the spinal channels and from there through out the body. Not everyone has this happen though. Just like the Kriyas they are an individual experience and yours will not necessarily be mine. So it is also with the GFA. G#nital Fluidic Ascendance. As the s#men rises and connects to the spinal channels it gets circulated into the endocrine system and the nervous system. It can be an automatic function of the Kundalini and it feels as if there is a tugging of the Vas Deferens of the s#minal conduits that connect to the testicle. I can actually feel it being reversed and circulated. So can anyone. It is odd at first but so are most of the Kundalini phenomena. Women can feel it as a similar tugging and a pull. And up the feminine secretions go! So it is important to be open and allowing of these events to occur. For a man keep your s#men. For a woman let the secretions be taken. There is much much more but for now this is enough let me know if I have covered what you were looking for. - Dating My take on dating is that it is a good way of getting to know a person a bit more than a casual cup of tea at the nearby tea house. To explore another person's point of view and feel how they mix with yours is a good thing imho. A good time to understand how they feel about spirituality or their take on life and love and happiness. Dating many different people and having s@x with them is also a personal prerogative. I will cover this more in my view on s@x but the K may instill at the second chakra a very active libido. Very active. And this may encourage some lusty feelings that will demand attention. Once again be careful. Open to these experiences if they are not going to cause you harm physically or emotionally or psychologically. Maintain your health and do not partake of experiences that may pass an STD your way for example. A fourth chakra infusion may instill incredable levels of love and this can be a bit scary for a person not inside Kundalini but feeling these waves of love crash against them form this new person in their life. So there are areas where one needs to take a slow and gentle approach no matter how the Kundalini is making you feel. Better yet is to find a person who is open to learning about the Kundalini and can be more accpeting of these phenomena as you are able to explain it to them. Dating multiple people and having s@xual congress with them is a personal choice. Love almost always occurs with s@x but it can become demeaning if one is inside of the Kundalini as the K demands a very high level of love that often will go far beyond the shallow levels of physical s@x for the sake of s@x and for nothing other than s@x. It is better in my view to find another person with similar interests and attractive enough in body and mind and spirit for you to love and enjoy the inner explorations with just the two of you. This is how I would approach it. Dating is a prelude to the more intense experiences that are brought about by the continued interest and serve as a testing platform for the sharing and creation of life between the two of you. So it is good to get to know a person this way before embarking on a more intimate journey. imho. - Re: Relationships Relationships as understood with in the context of the emotional inter-relationship between two people are in the limited physical plane as a reflection of the higher selves' example of the male and female bonding and connection to a single expression. This has a direct relevance to the Kundalini. The two that are one and the one that is two. So with in this context, the relationship is a reflection of the " as above so below " concept. People inside of the physical experience may find it quite difficult to locate or find another person who can so exemplify the ideal that the divine union represents. It is the attempt, the striving towards that counts for the most as we live in the limited physical venue. Even so it is within the realm of physical emotional expression to live and love inside of a relationship to the degree that the individuals can. Intention is the first gate. What is it a person intends when looking for or choosing a potential mate? What are the priorities? What thoughts have formed the basis for particular passions or fantasies or expectations of another? When these questions are considered then the person can find another that corresponds, knowingly or not. We are not always conscious of what we seek. Primal needs can attach to the thought expectations and seek for them from a sub-conscious vector of searching. The alpha male and alpha female scenario connected to the person's emotional needs. With Kundalini it is somewhat different. Integrity and truthfulness, love and freedom are very important. As the Kundalini begins to change the five bodies, the expressions begin to seek a closer resemblance to the higher divine models. The two that are one. This then begins to manifest in the search for another who can embrace these concepts. If already in a relationship then the support and love and understanding of the changes or the process one half of the relationship is going into or through can be very helpful. Doesn't mean they have to " understand " from an experiential aspect, but from a place of allowing the process to unfold and not going into fear or judgment about it can be very beneficial. If this isnt allowed or is in direct blockage of the Kundalini the relationship can dissolve. Kundalini will go on regardless and if the physical reflection of the divine marriage is lacking the internal, full being, individual expression will not be. We " are " the two that are one and the one that is two. So we are what we strive to find in another. It is good to find and share our lives and it is needed for the species to continue. But we can have " the Kundalini " alone and most of the activation's and awakenings are in this context. It is rare to find, in contemporary society, another who can understand and support with out fear, the changes that can present inside of an awakening. When a person inside the Kundalini is searching for social connection with the idea of having a relationship, it is the qualities that the Kundalini will wish to express that will help one to find that other person. Much depends upon the level of activation a person is in. So if it is a pronounced second chakra activation and only to that point the physical expression of s@x will be the overriding priority and this activity will be sought over all others. This will fade but when the person is inside of it will burn hot through the system and these needs will require satisfaction. This is one of the symptoms like the heat and the cold and the Kriyas or the electrical and blissful phenomena that, in the person's unique way, can have effect for all that come into this area. Though the details and the urges may be unique to the individual the needs will be similar. It is best to have a partner who can understand these changes but it isnt often the case. So it is important to be able to transmute these urges. Or find a partner who is willing to consumate them with you. Be careful this where many can get into trouble as the urges will not always identify with what one has thought was the " modus operendai. " They can be quite different from what one is used to and can be very world altering from a " personal reality " position. No worries. It is the " infusion " that is making these personal priority " changes and it is best to go with them as long as they do not endanger your physical or emotional well being or health. So be very careful and do your best to stay clean and undamaged and out of jail regardless of the extreme or not extreme scenarios you may find yourself pulled towards. If already in a relationship one can work the inner physical expressions turning or transmuting them into powerful energies of creativity and strength and physical expression. Reverse the org#sms and other means that on this general list I will not go into. In the seeking for a partner to have relationship with one needs to focus on the quality of love that one is extending and find a person who can at least match that love expression. Imbalances in the feeling and expression of love can doom a relationship, as the one who loves the least will control the relationship. So look for balance of this most important expression. I have found that it is also very important as previously mentioned to stay with in your integrity no matter if it means the loss of the potential relationship. It is best as the importance of living externally ones personal truths is part of the patterning process that the Kundalini will engrave into a persons priorities. Often this is the case not always though. It is what I recommend. Often inside of the Kundalini if you start out as a difficult person then as the infusion progresses you become even that much more difficult. Driving everyone away from you. So look at your own emotional balance and get " some " positive feedback so that you do not blindly go into situations where you are expressing as a complete idiot and an irritating one at that, and oh, trying to find a relationship as well. This can be a very painful and potentially dangerous experience. Be emotionally able to have and to hold another person with equal ardor as much as you are able to do so. - blessings – chrism Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 9, 2008 Report Share Posted September 9, 2008 Hmm,so how does one go about finding someone who's right or maybe i should leave that to K ? I met someone but it looked like that man was so shocked to see me the expression of extreme shock on his face never changed in the 5 min or so that we stared at each other.What a waste ! love,nicole , " curball2002 " <curball2002 wrote: > > Here's a lot to think over! If you have any detailed questions of a > sensitive nature, please take them to the Tantra site, where we can > write words without @##%@# !! > > be well, bradly > > -tantra/ > > > S@xuality > > S@xuality is interesting from what I have observed inside my > awakening. As I have written the two that are one are with in us > right now. All of us have this representation. We have a sacred male > and a sacred female. So the expression of the physical being that of > male or female can be attenuated from the spirits journey inside > that equation. > > Many homos@xuals are actually bi-s@xual and they are sometimes > expressing the concept of the sacred male and female via their > physical desires. Most are not but some are. > > In primitive cultures the person who exhibited both male and female > attributes were sought after as the Healers or the Shamans as they > were seen as having the propensity for understanding both genders. > This was accepted and s@xual expression by them was understood as a > natural course of logic. As they represented both then it wasn't > seen as to farfetched that they would have appetites for both. > > S@xuality is like a very complex musical instrument. It will express > its needs but can be molded or tuned by society. It can be difficult > to deny but this is possible as well. Kundalini doesn't care how a > person expresses their s@xuality in my opinion. When your second > chakra gets lit up you will understand my meanings here. > > Kundalini cares about her agenda with the rewiring of your body and > the decisions you make regarding that. Kundalini will not judge a > person for a s@xual interest or a chosen expression of that interest > unless the individual is committing Karma that will disengage a > flow. The soul or Higher Self(ves) will stop the activation of a > person committing r#pes or murders or tortures or other actions of > the lower forces. > > What is important is that you live according to your own individual > truth. And be happy living in harmony with that truth. Respecting > other truths and individuals who may be different in their take of > what works for them. Tolerance goes a long way. Inside and out. - > > > > S@x > > S@x can be a doorway or a gate for the increased flow of Kundalini. > When experienced with love and inside of a Tantric format it can be > a very powerful event. Your conscious reality can become shattered. > And you may find yourself in an unfamiliar place and this of course > can encourage fear. > > S@xual congress with a Kundalini active or interested person can > activate a person very quickly and if done so with out any of the > balances that we do here the person can become very extreme in their > experience with the Kundalini and often fearful to the point of > paranoia and psychosis. This may earn them a trip to visit the local > Master Condrey in the psyche ward (they would be lucky to do so!) > > S@x can be one of the closest physical reflections of the divine two > that are one. I would suggest that in the context of the Kundalini > never have s@x without love and without the understanding of what is > occurring when you do have s@x. > > S@x isn't just for the creation of a new life. That is one of the > functions. It is also used for the creation and installation of a > new phase of existence in an extant life. i.e. the Kundalini upon > the human being. Many who have a hard experience with the Kriyas > have often been activated by a s@xual experience. No conditioning or > balances and wham! There they go. So it can be difficult. > > My views on s@x from where I am now are that it is to be experienced > with in the parameters of love as a conscious celebration of the two > that are one. Always. From a Kundalini perspective the male should > retain his s$men. He should not ej$culate and allow the s@men to be > reversed into the spinal channels and from there through out the > body. > > Not everyone has this happen though. Just like the Kriyas they are > an individual experience and yours will not necessarily be mine. So > it is also with the GFA. G#nital Fluidic Ascendance. As the s#men > rises and connects to the spinal channels it gets circulated into > the endocrine system and the nervous system. It can be an automatic > function of the Kundalini and it feels as if there is a tugging of > the Vas Deferens of the s#minal conduits that connect to the > testicle. I can actually feel it being reversed and circulated. So > can anyone. It is odd at first but so are most of the Kundalini > phenomena. > > Women can feel it as a similar tugging and a pull. And up the > feminine secretions go! So it is important to be open and allowing > of these events to occur. For a man keep your s#men. For a woman let > the secretions be taken. > > There is much much more but for now this is enough let me know if I > have covered what you were looking for. - > > > Dating > > My take on dating is that it is a good way of getting to know a > person a bit more than a casual cup of tea at the nearby tea house. > To explore another person's point of view and feel how they mix with > yours is a good thing imho. > > A good time to understand how they feel about spirituality or their > take on life and love and happiness. > > Dating many different people and having s@x with them is also a > personal prerogative. I will cover this more in my view on s@x but > the K may instill at the second chakra a very active libido. Very > active. And this may encourage some lusty feelings that will demand > attention. Once again be careful. Open to these experiences if they > are not going to cause you harm physically or emotionally or > psychologically. Maintain your health and do not partake of > experiences that may pass an STD your way for example. > > A fourth chakra infusion may instill incredable levels of love and > this can be a bit scary for a person not inside Kundalini but > feeling these waves of love crash against them form this new person > in their life. So there are areas where one needs to take a slow and > gentle approach no matter how the Kundalini is making you feel. > Better yet is to find a person who is open to learning about the > Kundalini and can be more accpeting of these phenomena as you are > able to explain it to them. > > Dating multiple people and having s@xual congress with them is a > personal choice. Love almost always occurs with s@x but it can become > demeaning if one is inside of the Kundalini as the K demands a very > high level of love that often will go far beyond the shallow levels > of physical s@x for the sake of s@x and for nothing other than s@x. > It is better in my view to find another person with similar > interests and attractive enough in body and mind and spirit for you > to love and enjoy the inner explorations with just the two of you. > This is how I would approach it. > > Dating is a prelude to the more intense experiences that are brought > about by the continued interest and serve as a testing platform for > the sharing and creation of life between the two of you. So it is > good to get to know a person this way before embarking on a more > intimate journey. imho. - > > > Re: Relationships > > Relationships as understood with in the context of the emotional > inter-relationship between two people are in the limited physical > plane as a reflection of the higher selves' example of the male and > female bonding and connection to a single expression. This has a > direct relevance to the Kundalini. The two that are one and the one > that is two. So with in this context, the relationship is a > reflection of the " as above so below " concept. > > People inside of the physical experience may find it quite difficult > to locate or find another person who can so exemplify the ideal that > the divine union represents. It is the attempt, the striving towards > that counts for the most as we live in the limited physical venue. > Even so it is within the realm of physical emotional expression to > live and love inside of a relationship to the degree that the > individuals can. Intention is the first gate. > > What is it a person intends when looking for or choosing a potential > mate? What are the priorities? What thoughts have formed the basis > for particular passions or fantasies or expectations of another? > When these questions are considered then the person can find another > that corresponds, knowingly or not. We are not always conscious of > what we seek. Primal needs can attach to the thought expectations and > seek for them from a sub-conscious vector of searching. The alpha > male and alpha female scenario connected to the person's emotional > needs. > > With Kundalini it is somewhat different. Integrity and truthfulness, > love and freedom are very important. As the Kundalini begins to > change the five bodies, the expressions begin to seek a closer > resemblance to the higher divine models. The two that are one. This > then begins to manifest in the search for another who can embrace > these concepts. If already in a relationship then the support and > love and understanding of the changes or the process one half of the > relationship is going into or through can be very helpful. Doesn't > mean they have to " understand " from an experiential aspect, but from > a place of allowing the process to unfold and not going into fear or > judgment about it can be very beneficial. > > If this isnt allowed or is in direct blockage of the Kundalini the > relationship can dissolve. > > Kundalini will go on regardless and if the physical reflection of the > divine marriage is lacking the internal, full being, individual > expression will not be. We " are " the two that are one and the one > that is two. So we are what we strive to find in another. > > It is good to find and share our lives and it is needed for the > species to continue. But we can have " the Kundalini " alone and most > of the activation's and awakenings are in this context. It is rare to > find, in contemporary society, another who can understand and support > with out fear, the changes that can present inside of an awakening. > > When a person inside the Kundalini is searching for social connection > with the idea of having a relationship, it is the qualities that the > Kundalini will wish to express that will help one to find that other > person. Much depends upon the level of activation a person is in. So > if it is a pronounced second chakra activation and only to that point > the physical expression of s@x will be the overriding priority and > this activity will be sought over all others. This will fade but when > the person is inside of it will burn hot through the system and these > needs will require satisfaction. > > This is one of the symptoms like the heat and the cold and the Kriyas > or the electrical and blissful phenomena that, in the person's unique > way, can have effect for all that come into this area. Though the > details and the urges may be unique to the individual the needs will > be similar. It is best to have a partner who can understand these > changes but it isnt often the case. So it is important to be able to > transmute these urges. Or find a partner who is willing to consumate > them with you. Be careful this where many can get into trouble as the > urges will not always identify with what one has thought was > the " modus operendai. " > > They can be quite different from what one is used to and can be very > world altering from a " personal reality " position. No worries. It is > the " infusion " that is making these personal priority " changes and it > is best to go with them as long as they do not endanger your physical > or emotional well being or health. So be very careful and do your > best to stay clean and undamaged and out of jail regardless of the > extreme or not extreme scenarios you may find yourself pulled > towards. If already in a relationship one can work the inner physical > expressions turning or transmuting them into powerful energies of > creativity and strength and physical expression. Reverse the org#sms > and other means that on this general list I will not go into. > > In the seeking for a partner to have relationship with one needs to > focus on the quality of love that one is extending and find a person > who can at least match that love expression. Imbalances in the > feeling and expression of love can doom a relationship, as the one > who loves the least will control the relationship. So look for > balance of this most important expression. > > I have found that it is also very important as previously mentioned > to stay with in your integrity no matter if it means the loss of the > potential relationship. It is best as the importance of living > externally ones personal truths is part of the patterning process > that the Kundalini will engrave into a persons priorities. Often this > is the case not always though. It is what I recommend. > > Often inside of the Kundalini if you start out as a difficult person > then as the infusion progresses you become even that much more > difficult. Driving everyone away from you. So look at your own > emotional balance and get " some " positive feedback so that you do not > blindly go into situations where you are expressing as a complete > idiot and an irritating one at that, and oh, trying to find a > relationship as well. This can be a very painful and potentially > dangerous experience. Be emotionally able to have and to hold another > person with equal ardor as much as you are able to do so. - > blessings – chrism > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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