Guest guest Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 My 2 oldest children came over to celebrate my b-day on Sat and i was willing to cook and have a nice weekend but in the end it didn't turn out that way.My second oldest child,a girl will be 18 in Nov and sahe she had a child at 17 and she was in a correctional facility for more than a year for stabbing her oldest sister from where she ran away several time,hence the child.I decided to give her another chance but she thinks everybody is out to get her and she's violent and dramatic and i've had it.Whenever she comes over she expects my youngest,my 10 year old daughter to watch the baby and me to cook and everything for her,while she goes on the computer,talks on the phone and does nothing.The baby sleeps with her in the bed and when he wakes up and cries at night she never wakes up.The sleep of the dead,lol.Last night,i told her that she would have to leave earlier before dark but that's not what happened.She was still here at 8:45pm and she cursed out her sister for leaving the baby and using the bathroom while she was on the computer and i told her sister to let it go but she didn't of course and that ended with her accusing me of being mean and a racist.Did i mention that the child's father is hispanic but that's still white in my eyes.She was just projecting stuff on me.I wasn't upset and she accused me of not caring and she said that was the last time she was coming over.See,I've got problems too !This morning i had a disgusting dream.I dreamed that my son who is 14 found me attractive in a se%@*l way.Yewwwwwwww! I told him to get away from me and quick.No,i don't believe he was the one,maybe an entity.My cat has been acting strange last night.He likes to knead my upper arm nd lie next to me and purr his heart out and last night he did that but he never settled down and he started to bite something unseen next to me.I was concerned that he might attack me while i was sleeping and threw him out and closed the door.At 3:45 he started to miaw and claw at my door and i let him in and he was ok.What the heck is this ? love,nicole Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 Poor you love, I had a dream like that, my dad was my lover and trying to have sex with me, it felt wrong in the dream and really vivid, I woke up feeling horrible and couldn't go near my dad. I don't know what these dreams are about but YUCK**** and double YUCK*** you just don't need those images EVER! Good luck with everything, your daughter sounds really angry at the world and thinks that the world owes here a living, I hope she finds her way back to love and respect. Teenagers hey! hee hee, Just awful at times, think they know it all (I remember those days only too well). Love elektra x x x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 Hi I know these sorts of dreams…..is it that we are being trainedto confront some sort of fear within….or is it the union of the feminine andthe male  which is trying to happen within us?? RegardsPrasad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 Hi Nicole, well, good that you got it out. I am praying for you that your higher self will guide you... love Bruce Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 Well Elektra,thank you for your input on my dream.I'm pretty sure that this has been the only dream i've ever had about such a thing.Yuck!Not that i've never had dreams with someone else,lol.My daughter told me yesterday that she had changed,way before that fiasco happened.What i don't get it is that everytime she tells me that she had changed ,she does something to make me believe that she did not,lol.Who knows, maybe she has to learn from her mistakes or there's some karma going on ? I hope she becomes a lovely,open and positive young woman soon but she's very impulsive and stubborn. love,nicole , Elektra Fire <elektra.fire wrote: > > Poor you love, I had a dream like that, my dad was my lover and trying to have sex with me, it felt wrong in the dream and really vivid, I woke up feeling horrible and couldn't go near my dad. > I don't know what these dreams are about but YUCK**** and double YUCK*** you just don't need those images EVER! > > Good luck with everything, your daughter sounds really angry at the world and thinks that the world owes here a living, I hope she finds her way back to love and respect. > Teenagers hey! hee hee, Just awful at times, think they know it all > (I remember those days only too well). > > Love elektra x x x > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 Lol Paula military school ! I will have to think about it.I scare them sometimes too.Maybe moving to Europe would be fun for them,lol.You don't want to know how bored they were when the internet was down for 2 weeks last year.I was kind of smilling inside while they were bored and complained every minute.When I told them that when i was growing up there was no internet ,computers,ps3,psp and little gadgets,their eyes opened up wide and looked at me as if i was nuts. love,nicole , " alayafire " <ari.reza wrote: > > Hi Nicole > I can give you the kurdish solution which really works for keeping the > kids in line...hope it something possible for you... > > When the kids are going through their nutty phases, they move to a > really boring country with nothing what so ever to do.. > > My sister-in-law Bushra has done this for her son as he was a lazy stop > out..going through 6 university places.He now finds work fun !They are > in Jordan.Maybe the countryside will work for you.. > > It was great for my kids to as I merely mention Jordan or Kelvinside > military school and they suddenly become love and light... > > Im keeping my ace up my sleave , if those two wear off, I 'll scare > them with my weapon of mass destruction...Iran! Iran is the place all > kurdish men fear to tread, as they never leave the country without a > wife lol!!! The bermuda triangle of the East > > hugs hope your problems get better ... > Paula xxx > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 Thank you Bruce ! It's been a disgusting dream,lol.Yuck,yuck and double yuck ! love,nicole , " bruce_oom " <bruce_oom wrote: > > Hi Nicole, > > well, good that you got it out. I am praying for you that your higher > self will guide you... > > love > Bruce > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2008 Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 > Lol Paula military school ! lol Nicole im not serious im trying to make you laugh, so that you forget yor worries:) separately and seriously , Europe and travel is good for kids , when they see new things happening , sparks the imaginiation.. all kids go through stuff, it's their rite of passage, love paulax Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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