Criticism: Have mercy on the Mother

[Guest guest]

At 06:49 AM 9/29/2008, you wrote:

" why cant you have

mercy on the mother and are forcing it without your mind being

pure ..first control your mind and be situated in samadhi; let

kundalini rise when you are pure " Now I never 'forced' my kundalini;

 

if its awakened its not in my hands and I thought it was an insensitive

 

opinion. But my question is why why why and why always such things are

 

said? What is the reason

Because there are all too real dangers present in the process. It's not

insensitive to say to a child " Look both ways before crossing the

street " , or to warn them of the dangers of " good touch "

versus " bad touch " .

I see a theme here about perceived criticism. Not just for you, but for

everyone, for just a moment, go to your center, and pretend that

criticism isn't an attack, that it's a gesture of LOVE. The person is not

saying " you are wrong " , it is just their way of saying " I

love you, I fear for your well being " . How does this change your

response to the information they are offering? Do this with as many

instances of criticism as you can remember. It can be incredibly

healing.

Brandi

[Guest guest]

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> Because there are all too real dangers present in the process. It's

not insensitive to say to a child " Look both ways before crossing the

street " , or to warn them of the dangers of " good touch " versus " bad

touch " .

>

.. How does this change your response to the information they are

offering? Do this with as many instances of criticism as you can

remember. It can be incredibly healing

>

 

LOL the same thing my friend said. He said I scold you as a mother

scolds a child so dont mind me scolding Thanks Brandi