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hi everyone...

 

Well, its been another of those fun weeks. The resolution is

summarized by these beautiful lines, from a recording I have. I dont

know who wrote them or says them; they just ring true.

 

'rest in natural great peace,

this exhausted mind.

Beaten helplessly by karma and neurotic thoughts.

Like the relentless fury of the pounding waves

in the infinite ocean of samsara.

Rest in natural great peace.

To find rest.'

 

My kundalini process took a strange turn this week. I was feeling

very blocked in the neck and shoulders last week and the energy has

been sitting too much in my head for a long time. Through some

strange events, I ended up with a chinese traditional healer who

diagnoses energetic blockages using iridology. He identified the

blocked area in my shoulders, and then gave me a type of powerful

massage to unblock the area.

 

I spent the next few days bringing awareness to that area, trying to

find the psychological relation to the blocks, asking what I was

blocking. I was also feeling very bored with myself, and feeling

frustrated in my speech and my action. I have had dreams of a wounded

young man with his arms and hands destroyed in an accident, and I

have felt kundalini has been working in my arms and hands, so I made

a connection that I have issues expressing myself in action and work

in the world. Taking right action and gettint right results has been

one of my weaknesses for a long time.

 

In the preceding weeks before, I had had several dreams of the old

president leaving, and the new president taking his office. The new

president was characterized by service and genuine interest in the

well being of others, as opposed to the outgoing president who was

motivated by self interest. There has been a lot of inner activity

and reorganization, and sometimes confusing and painful.

 

In a nushell, there has been a lot of inner shifting. On top of this,

I have been spending time with a new friend, who is wise and whose

opnion I value. Anyway, last week I realized that I had to express

myself, and I had to egoically identify with my realization of my

true self, and that I was moving into an identity as a spiritual

teacher. My egoic self has to adjust to reflect this new identity,

and i need to identify with this new role, before I can transcend it.

 

My wise friend and I started butting heads in the week. As I was

identifying with the ego that speaks its truth and holds firm to its

values, my friend made some comments to me about me which were

contrary to some of deepest values. She is often right about many

things, yet here I felt she was wrong, and I stood my truth, as well

as called for a process of dialogue with her to understand where

these viewpoints were coming from, so we could move to a clearer

understanding of our situation.

 

I did not feel understood by her, and one of my assumptions of

friendship is that we are not isolated islands each with our own

stories (which is true from one perspective) but my process is

equally the process of those around me, and we need to inhabit each

others interiors, in mutual embrace, to grow and learn. I made the

mistake of expecting her to adopt my value system, and i identified

strongly with that value system. She reacted strongly, feeling such

an approach was an invasion of her boundaries.

 

My head was noisy after our spirited discussion and she was very

angry with me. It has taken me two days of reflection, shadow work

and just an intention to let go to return to an inner state of ease.

 

What was interesting was my ability to trust this process of being

with the mind. So often sprituality is equated with being with ones

sensory feelings, yet the mind is in itself also a valid experience.

Who is there to witness this? What is the awareness that illuminates

this thinking experience? I did not have to try and change my

thinking or make it go away. It was nice to spend two days with

these thoughts, watching the mind being beaten by karma, and

watching it slowly settle.

 

Tonight, I feel at ease again, yet I am stunned by the ferocity of my

self contraction in the week. The kundalini energy is powerful; it

just magnifies every experience I have and slowly I am learning to

deal with that, to work with it. The process is own it, identify,

express, and then let go...

 

So what is my message in this blog? Perhaps it is just to be allowed

to be a messy human. An awakened mind does not necessarily mean that

emotions and thoughts are always nice and loving. It means that one

is able to be with ones experience without judgement, without

condemnation, without aversion of undue attraction. To be with

oneself in all that arises, and to be deeply curious about that.

Thats the key to self learning, to the unfolding of the self. And

slowly, if we can be with the difficulty, then the soul is purified

and natural love and natural goodness start to increase, becoming

stronger and stronger.

 

With love

Bruce

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Thanks for sharing Bruce! It was good to read of your explorations this week and made me feel less...singled out, lol. I am going through something right now myself that I can't quite put into words. Lots of inner stuff/struggle going on, emotional changes, etc. My dreams have been tugging at me quite a bit even to the point of scaring me at times until I figured out the messages. All part of the package I guess!

Sarita

, "bruce_oom" <bruce_oom wrote:>> hi everyone...> > Well, its been another of those fun weeks. The resolution is > summarized by these beautiful lines, from a recording I have. I dont > know who wrote them or says them; they just ring true.> > 'rest in natural great peace,> this exhausted mind.> Beaten helplessly by karma and neurotic thoughts.> Like the relentless fury of the pounding waves> in the infinite ocean of samsara.> Rest in natural great peace.> To find rest.'> >

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Hi Bruce,

 

I do hope you are feeling a bit clearer now that you have shared your

thoughts. I also love the lyrics, so have copied it into my K Note

book full of words of wisdom, that I always travel with.

 

Always remember: " This too shall pass " .

 

Thank you, Skydancer x

 

 

> , " bruce_oom "

> <bruce_oom@> wrote:

> >

> > hi everyone...

> >

> > Well, its been another of those fun weeks. The resolution is

> > summarized by these beautiful lines, from a recording I have. I

dont

> > know who wrote them or says them; they just ring true.

> >

> > 'rest in natural great peace,

> > this exhausted mind.

> > Beaten helplessly by karma and neurotic thoughts.

> > Like the relentless fury of the pounding waves

> > in the infinite ocean of samsara.

> > Rest in natural great peace.

> > To find rest.'

> >

> >

>

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