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Depends upon you dear friend and the activity. Are you killing others

as a job? Are causing wide spread pain and sufferring from doing that

which you may wish to give up? Or is it something that is of a less

morally repugnant activity. Whats going on Rich? If it is too

difficult to discuss on the open forum please contact me offlist. -

blessings Rich! - chrism

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No I am not killing, hurting or causing pain to others.

In fact most others will be quite happy.

 

Hhhmmmm.

 

How can I put this,

 

I am a teacher. I teach health (I really get very holistic and

spiritual…I love it). To put it mildly there is pressure to pass kids

who should fail. If I pass them when they fail their tests, do

little or no class work, no homework, cut class and really deserve to

fail I am doing wrong.

 

I do a lot of teaching about how to succeed in life….dedication, hard

work, reaching for a goal, etc. What they end up learning is that

they can be irresponsible, lazy and succeed by doing almost nothing.

 

Also, this may be difficult to believe, but the kids a graduating

knowing so very little I believe that it is leading the downfall of

the our country. When China and India are graduating more and more

kids that are going on to higher education and professional jobs we

(America) are graduating kids who can hardly read and write…and I

mean it…many of them can hardly read and write.

 

If I fail them…lets just say that it may go poorly for me. The blame

is always on the teacher when a student fails a class. When I raise

my standards, as we are told we to do, more students fail and I have

actually been accused of being a bad teacher.

 

It hurts to be a part of such a corrupt system.

 

The good part is that my students, no matter how they do on tests,

really do learn about health. I am proud of what I do. I am a

teacher. I may be teaching Yoga, Tai Chi or Health. On one level it

is all the same. People are helped by what I do. I live a life of

service and it is good.

 

 

rich

 

 

 

, " chrism "

<> wrote:

>

> Depends upon you dear friend and the activity. Are you killing

others

> as a job? Are causing wide spread pain and sufferring from doing

that

> which you may wish to give up? Or is it something that is of a less

> morally repugnant activity. Whats going on Rich? If it is too

> difficult to discuss on the open forum please contact me offlist. -

> blessings Rich! - chrism

>

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Hi Rich,

 

I am a new teacher and not as experienced. I think (can't say for

sure) that I experienced something similar when I flunked a lot of

kids in algebra during my student teaching experience. The blame

really does go to the teacher most of the time :(

 

Sadly, you are probably not going to change the majority of your

students since you are but one of many teachers; so I recommend giving

yourself a break and just try to change the system from the inside out.

 

Read your last paragraph again and be satisfied :) Also, realize that

you have to work with students at whatever level they are at.

Improvement is what to look for and encourage, whether the system is

ultimately corrupt or not.

 

My 2 cents,

 

-Gabriel

 

 

, " Richard

Eisenberg " <Pyaar333 wrote:

>

> I do a lot of teaching about how to succeed in life….dedication, hard

> work, reaching for a goal, etc. What they end up learning is that

> they can be irresponsible, lazy and succeed by doing almost nothing.

>

> The good part is that my students, no matter how they do on tests,

> really do learn about health. I am proud of what I do. I am a

> teacher. I may be teaching Yoga, Tai Chi or Health. On one level it

> is all the same. People are helped by what I do. I live a life of

> service and it is good.

>

>

> rich

>

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At 05:42 PM 11/12/2008, you wrote:

> I do a lot of teaching

about how to succeed in life….dedication, hard

> work, reaching for a goal, etc. What they end up learning is that

 

> they can be irresponsible, lazy and succeed by doing almost

nothing.

If you can write that into a book title you'd have a best seller on your

hands (laugh) ...

Brandi

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Yes

 

But I am not going to change the system. Many, from the inside, have

tried and lost their jobs. Many others have tried, from the outside,

and gotten so discouraged that after 10 or 15 years they have either

quite or started their own schools.

 

Anyway,

You are right, I need to, and do, feel good about what I can do…teach

health. It still bothers me to pass kids who do no work, cut class

and deserve to fail.

 

rich

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

, " strider200142 "

<gabriel wrote:

>

> Hi Rich,

>

> I am a new teacher and not as experienced. I think (can't say for

> sure) that I experienced something similar when I flunked a lot of

> kids in algebra during my student teaching experience. The blame

> really does go to the teacher most of the time :(

>

> Sadly, you are probably not going to change the majority of your

> students since you are but one of many teachers; so I recommend

giving

> yourself a break and just try to change the system from the inside

out.

>

> Read your last paragraph again and be satisfied :) Also, realize

that

> you have to work with students at whatever level they are at.

> Improvement is what to look for and encourage, whether the system is

> ultimately corrupt or not.

>

> My 2 cents,

>

> -Gabriel

>

>

> , " Richard

> Eisenberg " <Pyaar333@> wrote:

> >

> > I do a lot of teaching about how to succeed in life….dedication,

hard

> > work, reaching for a goal, etc. What they end up learning is

that

> > they can be irresponsible, lazy and succeed by doing almost

nothing.

> >

> > The good part is that my students, no matter how they do on

tests,

> > really do learn about health. I am proud of what I do. I am a

> > teacher. I may be teaching Yoga, Tai Chi or Health. On one

level it

> > is all the same. People are helped by what I do. I live a life

of

> > service and it is good.

> >

> >

> > rich

> >

>

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I like the Waldorf / Rudolph Steiner schools , my kids are in.

They teach the kids on what individually interests them , and all

subjects no matter where you begin , follow into each other so

everything is eventually taught from their initial interest and the

lessons have a natural flow.Some kids learn kinetically, or visually

and they presently are left out of the system in normal schools that

teach from an audio perspective. Perhaps making them seem lazy or

antisocial . But I think everyone can be reached ,just a matter of

finding the bridges, and inspiring the fire.

 

Paula~

 

 

 

, " Richard

Eisenberg " <Pyaar333 wrote:

>

>

> Yes

>

> But I am not going to change the system. Many, from the inside,

have

> tried and lost their jobs. Many others have tried, from the

outside,

> and gotten so discouraged that after 10 or 15 years they have

either

> quite or started their own schools.

>

> Anyway,

> You are right, I need to, and do, feel good about what I can do…

teach

> health. It still bothers me to pass kids who do no work, cut class

> and deserve to fail.

>

> rich

>

>

Kundalini-Awakening-Systems-

1 , " strider200142 "

> <gabriel@> wrote:

> >

> > Hi Rich,

> >

> > I am a new teacher and not as experienced. I think (can't say for

> > sure) that I experienced something similar when I flunked a lot of

> > kids in algebra during my student teaching experience. The blame

> > really does go to the teacher most of the time :(

> >

> > Sadly, you are probably not going to change the majority of your

> > students since you are but one of many teachers; so I recommend

> giving

> > yourself a break and just try to change the system from the

inside

> out.

> >

> > Read your last paragraph again and be satisfied :) Also, realize

> that

> > you have to work with students at whatever level they are at.

> > Improvement is what to look for and encourage, whether the system

is

> > ultimately corrupt or not.

> >

> > My 2 cents,

> >

> > -Gabriel

> >

> >

> > , " Richard

> > Eisenberg " <Pyaar333@> wrote:

> > >

> > > I do a lot of teaching about how to succeed in

life….dedication,

> hard

> > > work, reaching for a goal, etc. What they end up learning is

> that

> > > they can be irresponsible, lazy and succeed by doing almost

> nothing.

> > >

> > > The good part is that my students, no matter how they do on

> tests,

> > > really do learn about health. I am proud of what I do. I am a

> > > teacher. I may be teaching Yoga, Tai Chi or Health. On one

> level it

> > > is all the same. People are helped by what I do. I live a

life

> of

> > > service and it is good.

> > >

> > >

> > > rich

> > >

> >

>

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The last paragraph is the most telling I agree with Gabriel.

 

Also one needs to consider the self and the family and how they may

be affected by your priorities. Yes it is a malfunctioning system.

But you are making a difference and there is no such thing as

perfection inside of an imperfect system. So I suggest you do your

best and work from an aspect of the safeties that sustains

integrity as much as you can without depriving or hurting those who

count on your integrity and approach to teaching because you want to

punish those cheating the system.

 

Work is hard to find these days. I know! So do not hurt yourself

unless you feel absolutley called to do so for the reasons you

state. Look at what is working and see where the balance is tipping.

 

Continue to do the safeties and continue to condition for the

Kundalini. - blessings Rich. - chrism

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Richard,

For me, the earmark of an excellent teacher is one who inspires his students to want to learn. Failing a student can be a stigma that lasts for many years. Here in Texas, teachers are under pressure to "teach the test". Real learning is foregone to teach how to pass the test, so more funding is available for the school system itself. You seem to sincerely care for the students, and what you are teaching is so valuable now and down the road. There are other kinder, gentler institutions of learning. Maybe you could seek a different environment without having to go to battle. I understand the principle you are defending. It really isn't anything new under the sun. I am just surprised to hear that anyone still actually fails a child with remedial programs, tutors, and summer schools available for those who need help. Blessing to you and the right outcome to your dilemma.

 

Namaste,

 

Julie--- On Wed, 11/12/08, Richard Eisenberg <Pyaar333 wrote:

Richard Eisenberg <Pyaar333 Re: Thinking about the Safeties, letting go - Rich Date: Wednesday, November 12, 2008, 2:38 PM

 

 

No I am not killing, hurting or causing pain to others. In fact most others will be quite happy. Hhhmmmm.How can I put this,I am a teacher. I teach>

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Thank you for your encouragement and advice.

 

I do feel/know that I do something of real value for the kids. I

really do teach them about health…all aspects of health, physical,

mental, emotional and spiritual, (yes I do teach some spiritual, not

religious, stuff). And many of them actually learn.

 

I still struggle with having to pass kids who cut class 20 or 30

times and do hardly any work in class and fail tests. But that is

out of my hands. You are right I need to consider other things like

my wife and how it would be for her if I lost my job.

 

To some degree it is ego that I feel that I must do the right thing

and fail those kids who deserve it. There is only so much I can do

without putting my job in jeopardy.

 

I do and need to continue to focus on the positive side

 

Rich

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

, " chrism "

<> wrote:

>

> The last paragraph is the most telling I agree with Gabriel.

>

> Also one needs to consider the self and the family and how they may

> be affected by your priorities. Yes it is a malfunctioning system.

> But you are making a difference and there is no such thing as

> perfection inside of an imperfect system. So I suggest you do your

> best and work from an aspect of the safeties that sustains

> integrity as much as you can without depriving or hurting those who

> count on your integrity and approach to teaching because you want

to

> punish those cheating the system.

>

> Work is hard to find these days. I know! So do not hurt yourself

> unless you feel absolutley called to do so for the reasons you

> state. Look at what is working and see where the balance is

tipping.

>

> Continue to do the safeties and continue to condition for the

> Kundalini. - blessings Rich. - chrism

>

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