Guest guest Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 I have been sending healing energy to my mother-in-law because she is having pain and walking with a stick. I somehow inadvertently absorbed her pains, nervousness, and fears . I have somehow been tied to her for about 10 days to 2 weeks.I don't have the words to describe it but it is though I was overshadowed by her and her fear and pains were acting through me. This morning I realised this is not my own character but Fathelas and I asked my higher self to clear me of Fathelas energy. I felt the clearing, and the warmth as my own self came back in it feels good to be back and clear. When healing others how do you stop this happening? As it creeps onto you and takes a while before you realise your not acting as yourself. Surreal Question I know Paula Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 At 04:11 AM 11/13/2008, you wrote: When healing others how do you stop this happening? As it creeps onto you and takes a while before you realise your not acting as yourself. I'm an empath and I get this with emotions. I even wrote a book about psychic protection, but I didn't know how to stop this until I took a class called LifeStream that had nothing to do with psychic abilities or spiritual healing (laugh) ... now I'm working on merging what I learned in this class (and subsequent study, especially of Caroline Myss) with what I know about psychic energy. There isn't a one-paragraph discussion-group style answer to the question. It has a lot to do with personal boundaries and self worth. Once I realized that I was not obligated to process psychic impressions that way, it stopped happening. There wasn't a specific " technique " other than the tool kit I learned at LifeStream. The answer is self-confidence and self-respect. There are some mental techniques you can apply, but for the most part these are like trying to sweep the tide back with a broom, at least in my experience. You can mentally ground yourself after each healing, that will help some. But you need to constantly remind yourself (until it becomes your Truth) that you don't need to take on other's pain in order for the healing to be effective. It takes constant mental vigilance until it becomes a habit. Brandi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 Hi Paula, I often used to suffer the same thins when I would practice Reiki. I put it down to being too empathic at the time. With Kundalini Healing Chrism said it is best to just send the healing and not think about it again. Not get attached to the outcome and that way K can do its work, if in fact it is meant to work with that person at that time. Good luck with this, It's horrible feeling the pain of others. Skydancer x , " alayafire " <ari.reza wrote: > > I have been sending healing energy to my mother-in-law because she is > having pain and walking with a stick. I somehow inadvertently absorbed > her pains, nervousness, and fears . I have somehow been tied to her > for about 10 days to 2 weeks.I don't have the words to describe it but > it is though I was overshadowed by her and her fear and pains were > acting through me. This morning I realised this is not my own character > but Fathelas and I asked my higher self to clear me of Fathelas energy. > I felt the clearing, and the warmth as my own self came back in it > feels good to be back and clear. > > When healing others how do you stop this happening? As it creeps onto > you and takes a while before you realise your not acting as yourself. > > Surreal Question I know > Paula > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 Hi Paula, Are you following the protocols we use on the healing group? Sending out the healing for the highest good of your MIL without any expectations and then when you are finished disconnecting? I like the method of putting the whole healing experience on a pane of glass and shattering it. Perhaps is you are remaining connected all the time, her pain is reaching back towards you. Sarita , "alayafire" <ari.reza wrote:>> I have been sending healing energy to my mother-in-law because she is > having pain and walking with a stick. I somehow inadvertently absorbed > her pains, nervousness, and fears . I have somehow been tied to her> for about 10 days to 2 weeks.I don't have the words to describe it but > it is though I was overshadowed by her and her fear and pains were > acting through me. This morning I realised this is not my own character> but Fathelas and I asked my higher self to clear me of Fathelas energy. > I felt the clearing, and the warmth as my own self came back in it > feels good to be back and clear.> > When healing others how do you stop this happening? As it creeps onto > you and takes a while before you realise your not acting as yourself.> > Surreal Question I know > Paula> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 Thanks Sky..difficult swapping over from the shamanic method part of me still stays with the first methods I learned of empathing and absorbing then clearing. That's exactly it , I stay attatched, to see if she improved. Thanks again sky love paula , " Skydancer " <ionaskydancer wrote: > > Hi Paula, > > I often used to suffer the same thins when I would practice Reiki. I > put it down to being too empathic at the time. With Kundalini Healing > said it is best to just send the healing and not think about > it again. Not get attached to the outcome and that way K can do its > work, if in fact it is meant to work with that person at that time. > > Good luck with this, It's horrible feeling the pain of others. > > Skydancer x > > , " alayafire " > <ari.reza@> wrote: > > > > I have been sending healing energy to my mother-in-law because she > is > > having pain and walking with a stick. I somehow inadvertently > absorbed > > her pains, nervousness, and fears . I have somehow been tied to her > > for about 10 days to 2 weeks.I don't have the words to describe it > but > > it is though I was overshadowed by her and her fear and pains were > > acting through me. This morning I realised this is not my own > character > > but Fathelas and I asked my higher self to clear me of Fathelas > energy. > > I felt the clearing, and the warmth as my own self came back in it > > feels good to be back and clear. > > > > When healing others how do you stop this happening? As it creeps > onto > > you and takes a while before you realise your not acting as > yourself. > > > > Surreal Question I know > > Paula > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 Thanks Sarita. Had control of the empathing for a while , I guess being my mother in law I had too much connection to her , found it difficult to disconnect.Your right it will be reaching back. Thanks Paula , " Sarita " <sarita1969 wrote: > > > Hi Paula, > > Are you following the protocols we use on the healing group? Sending > out the healing for the highest good of your MIL without any > expectations and then when you are finished disconnecting? I like the > method of putting the whole healing experience on a pane of glass and > shattering it. Perhaps is you are remaining connected all the time, her > pain is reaching back towards you. > > Sarita > > > , " alayafire " > <ari.reza@> wrote: > > > > I have been sending healing energy to my mother-in-law because she is > > having pain and walking with a stick. I somehow inadvertently absorbed > > her pains, nervousness, and fears . I have somehow been tied to her > > for about 10 days to 2 weeks.I don't have the words to describe it but > > it is though I was overshadowed by her and her fear and pains were > > acting through me. This morning I realised this is not my own > character > > but Fathelas and I asked my higher self to clear me of Fathelas > energy. > > I felt the clearing, and the warmth as my own self came back in it > > feels good to be back and clear. > > > > When healing others how do you stop this happening? As it creeps onto > > you and takes a while before you realise your not acting as yourself. > > > > Surreal Question I know > > Paula > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 Thanks Jezz, I work with the permission. Learned that one the hard way:) Dry vomit, I prefer to call it puffing great info. Thanks lots Jezz paula.. , " jezzwhizz " <jezzwhizz wrote: > > Maybe this posting belongs in the kundalini healing group? > I do believe that when I do a healing myself, I always ask permission > from my higher Self and the persons higher Self to help build the > connection. Once I have sent the healing I give thanks, and then sever > and cut the psychic connection. When sending healing there are psychic > cords of connection coming from the solar plexus region. After the > healing I will sweep my hand down in front of my own solar plexus > cutting the cords of attachment with intent. > Sometimes Sharmanic healers will take on the disease and dry vomit it > out from their mouths. While actually sending healing you may feel > diseased energies, and you can flick these away, or if they are > persistant flick them into a violet fire, (created in your mind). > Washing your hands in salt water can also help cleanse your etheric > body if you feel contaminated. Different schools of healing have > different thoughts, but generally " as a man thinketh so is he " . If you > are very sensitive then you may need to adopt a technique as > mentioned. If you still feel contaminated then have a salt bath. Use > between a half to one kilo of salt in a bath and also bathe with the > intent that you are cleaning your aura and etheric bodies. > As I have already stated, different schools have different thoughts. As > we are all unqiue individuals, what may be needed for one person will > not be needed for another, or what works for one will not for another. > This is a vast subject, ask me how to make a cup of tea and I could > make it complicated:-) So to summerise, in my opinion, ask permission, > alway send healing via your hands, give thanks and cut the connection > with intent. I hope this helps, and feel free to email me if you have > any questions. > In loving kindness jeremy > > > > When healing others how do you stop this happening? As it creeps onto > > you and takes a while before you realise your not acting as yourself. > > > > Surreal Question I know > > Paula > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 At 11:54 AM 11/13/2008, you wrote: Not get attached to the outcome Yes ... that one is VERY important! Thank you for reminding me about that one <g> ... Brandi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 The answer is self-confidence and self-respect..Brandi A very interesting truth Brandi as I had a handle on the empathy , but recently my old patterns of thought have sneaked back, your right mental vigilance..! Thanks for the help .. Paula , Brandi Jasmine <jazztalk wrote: > > At 04:11 AM 11/13/2008, you wrote: > >When healing others how do you stop this happening? As it creeps onto > >you and takes a while before you realise your not acting as yourself. > > I'm an empath and I get this with emotions. I even wrote a book about psychic protection, but I didn't know how to stop this until I took a class called LifeStream that had nothing to do with psychic abilities or spiritual healing (laugh) ... now I'm working on merging what I learned in this class (and subsequent study, especially of Caroline Myss) with what I know about psychic energy. There isn't a one-paragraph discussion-group style answer to the question. It has a lot to do with personal boundaries and self worth. Once I realized that I was not obligated to process psychic impressions that way, it stopped happening. There wasn't a specific " technique " other than the tool kit I learned at LifeStream. The answer is self-confidence and self-respect. There are some mental techniques you can apply, but for the most part these are like trying to sweep the tide back with a broom, at least in my experience. You can mentally ground yourself after each healing, that will help some. But you need to constantly remind yourself (until it becomes your Truth) that you don't need to take on other's pain in order for the healing to be effective. It takes constant mental vigilance until it becomes a habit. > > Brandi > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 At 04:58 PM 11/13/2008, you wrote: The answer is self-confidence and self-respect..Brandi A very interesting truth Brandi as I had a handle on the empathy , but recently my old patterns of thought have sneaked back, your right mental vigilance..! Thanks for the help .. Thanks for letting me remind myself ;-) Brandi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 13, 2008 Report Share Posted November 13, 2008 Hi Paula, I have had this happen with me, especially with family members. Most of the time I began picking up on when my mom gets sick even before I am informed by a family member over the phone. Every time it seems I never think about it until it's all over with. I began feeling sick with dizziness and nausea at least a day or so before my s-i-l called and told me my mom was in the hospital sick since that Sat. I have been feeling better these last few days since she was well enough to come home. I didn't think about it until yesterday and thought, dang! I did it again. LOL! If I took some of my moms pain and sickness, I don't mind. I was not harmed by I don't think, except for feeling under the weather for a couple of weeks. I was not sending her healing energy, but was only praying for her better good. I just didn't think about disconnecting each time. Maybe I stay connected all the time to her. I will practice disconnecting even when I just say a prayer for her and see how it goes. Linda , " alayafire " <ari.reza wrote: > > I have been sending healing energy to my mother-in-law because she is > having pain and walking with a stick. I somehow inadvertently absorbed > her pains, nervousness, and fears . I have somehow been tied to her > for about 10 days to 2 weeks.I don't have the words to describe it but > it is though I was overshadowed by her and her fear and pains were > acting through me. This morning I realised this is not my own character > but Fathelas and I asked my higher self to clear me of Fathelas energy. > I felt the clearing, and the warmth as my own self came back in it > feels good to be back and clear. > > When healing others how do you stop this happening? As it creeps onto > you and takes a while before you realise your not acting as yourself. > > Surreal Question I know > Paula > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 14, 2008 Report Share Posted November 14, 2008 Hi, I sometimes want to send healing energy to people I know..can anyone talk me through the simple process of how to actually do this? Thanks.. love Bruce Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2008 Report Share Posted November 15, 2008 Hi paula, I've certainly had this happen and it's not always related to healing people either. I can quite easily pick up on peoples general negativity just through normal interaction. I can usually tell because my mind all of a sudden begins a self righteous tirade, blaming others and justifying myself, Lol. Then i realise I'm polluted and go and cleanse myself usually by stating as you did, 'From my inner being I clear myself' or 'from the god in me....' Sometimes I need to do it more than once. or go down to the beach or to a natural place with cleansing energy. Actually I clear myself in this way in bed at night every day. Of course I'm sure i'm not always, only picking up others' vibes, Lol, but it can be very difficult to tell the difference. I went through lots of self recrimination for my ugly thoughts etc before I realised what was going on most of the time at least. I guess most people here have done a lot of cleansing and releasing of their own dense energy, and as a result anytime they open themselves to others what they pick up on can feel quite awful. Regards Ana -- In , " alayafire " <ari.reza wrote: I asked my higher self to clear me of Fathelas energy. > I felt the clearing, and the warmth as my own self came back in it > feels good to be back and clear. > > When healing others how do you stop this happening? As it creeps onto > you and takes a while before you realise your not acting as yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2008 Report Share Posted November 15, 2008 Hi Ana I wrote you another mail but ate it Yes I have this too , I thought I had cured it but in truth I really just ran away from it, by becoming semi-reclusive and only being in the company of positive people..chicken of me ..time to face it I guess. The beach , I love it, I was supposed to go back to my farm in august and I'm still here at the beach, keep saying next week I like your routine,going to add it to my safeties , recapitulate and cleanse , great idea thanks!! love paula xx , " anastojo " <brent.ana wrote: > > Hi paula, > I've certainly had this happen and it's not always related to healing > people either. I can quite easily pick up on peoples general > negativity just through normal interaction. I can usually tell > because my mind all of a sudden begins a self righteous tirade, > blaming others and justifying myself, Lol. Then i realise I'm polluted > and go and cleanse myself usually by stating as you did, 'From my > inner being I clear myself' or 'from the god in me....' Sometimes I > need to do it more than once. or go down to the beach or to a natural > place with cleansing energy. > Actually I clear myself in this way in bed at night every day. > > Of course I'm sure i'm not always, only picking up others' vibes, Lol, > but it can be very difficult to tell the difference. I went through > lots of self recrimination for my ugly thoughts etc before I realised > what was going on most of the time at least. > I guess most people here have done a lot of cleansing and releasing of > their own dense energy, and as a result anytime they open themselves > to others what they pick up on can feel quite awful. > > Regards > Ana > > > > -- In , " alayafire " > <ari.reza@> wrote: > I asked my higher self to clear me of Fathelas energy. > > I felt the clearing, and the warmth as my own self came back in it > > feels good to be back and clear. > > > > When healing others how do you stop this happening? As it creeps > onto > > you and takes a while before you realise your not acting as yourself. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 15, 2008 Report Share Posted November 15, 2008 , " alayafire " <ari.reza wrote: > but in truth I really just ran away from it, > by becoming semi-reclusive and only being in the company of > positive people..chicken of me ..time to face it I guess. Ah yes this sounds familiar! Lol, Wow that sounds lovely, choosing between the beach or a farm... plenty of cleansing options, haha Cheers Ana > > The beach , I love it, I was supposed to go back to my farm in august > and I'm still here at the beach, keep saying next week Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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