Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 My wife says to me, *"I've just been told you've become complacent look it up and see what it means." Complacent: smug and uncritically satisfied with yourself (Little Oxford dictionary) Smug: irritatingly pleased with oneself; self-satisfied. Oh my God! *( I've just been told `clairaudience') I am not clairaudient myself, however the other day I was thinking I wish I had some spiritual help, when I heard in my mind, "you wanted the Highest, you have to do it yourself" Not only that, it sounded so stern, almost nasty, hey that can't be spirit talking to me, or my higher self. Right now my wife talks to my son on the telephone, and he's asking about his dad. My wife says "oh he's on his a computer, clicking away a man of importance, you know what he's like" I laugh out loud as I over hear their conversation, a manic laugh, with calm yet ruffled waves of bliss beneath. My wife continues, "the Universe balances everything", and I remain in my now seemingly quite ugly smugness. With that there is arrogance too. Being smug has an arrogance around it. So my sincere apologies for any postings that have reflected my arrogance, smugness, and conceitedness. When I first joined this group I would make postings then a day or two later delete them. Someone then made a posting saying I had knowledge to share, and should not delete my postings. So then I stopped deleting them. However several weeks later I then decided to delete everything, all postings and photo's. Last week I decided to make new postings, but this time with pictures too. The grander the picture the better, to stroke my ego more. has made no comment, but intuitively I believe he'd rather people didn't post pictures as I do, with each posting. But I am so defiant and mischievous, oh God forgive me. Blessings that there is so much love here. So what are these self-obsessed ramblings about? Please help me and advice me how to work on my complacency, ego, low self-esteem, arrogance, defiance and madness too? Satchitanada~ oh but I am feeling so blissful at times…. ~ jeremy ps. and get this - even this message, as I check it in 'Preview' mode the words come up, Are you sure you want to send this message? No I am not but so what, satchitanada~jeremy do I have to work this out myself? Are you sure you want to send this message? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 Sorry cant help you with that one I am in the same boat, I cant help myself so how can I help you. I just hope others allow some tolerance's for this madness. if not then I hope they have a sense of humor else we will be the only ones laughing at our self's G jezzwizz lonely that feels. Even now I can see the writing DON'T SEND IT ! John - jezzwhizz Friday, February 06, 2009 7:52 PM Madness or what. Please help. Thank you..... My wife says to me, *"I've just been told you've become complacent look it up and see what it means." Complacent: smug and uncritically satisfied with yourself (Little Oxford dictionary) Smug: irritatingly pleased with oneself; self-satisfied. Oh my God! *( I've just been told `clairaudience') I am not clairaudient myself, however the other day I was thinking I wish I had some spiritual help, when I heard in my mind, "you wanted the Highest, you have to do it yourself" Not only that, it sounded so stern, almost nasty, hey that can't be spirit talking to me, or my higher self. Right now my wife talks to my son on the telephone, and he's asking about his dad. My wife says "oh he's on his a computer, clicking away a man of importance, you know what he's like" I laugh out loud as I over hear their conversation, a manic laugh, with calm yet ruffled waves of bliss beneath. My wife continues, "the Universe balances everything", and I remain in my now seemingly quite ugly smugness. With that there is arrogance too. Being smug has an arrogance around it. So my sincere apologies for any postings that have reflected my arrogance, smugness, and conceitedness. When I first joined this group I would make postings then a day or two later delete them. Someone then made a posting saying I had knowledge to share, and should not delete my postings. So then I stopped deleting them. However several weeks later I then decided to delete everything, all postings and photo's. Last week I decided to make new postings, but this time with pictures too. The grander the picture the better, to stroke my ego more. has made no comment, but intuitively I believe he'd rather people didn't post pictures as I do, with each posting. But I am so defiant and mischievous, oh God forgive me. Blessings that there is so much love here. So what are these self-obsessed ramblings about? Please help me and advice me how to work on my complacency, ego, low self-esteem, arrogance, defiance and madness too? Satchitanada~ oh but I am feeling so blissful at times…. ~ jeremy ps. and get this - even this message, as I check it in 'Preview' mode the words come up, Are you sure you want to send this message? No I am not but so what, satchitanada~jeremy do I have to work this out myself? Are you sure you want to send this message? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 Hi Jeremy,, haha..I laughed when I read this. God forbid we should all be perfect, humble and meek..even though those are wonderful qualities. My advice is to excacerbate your imperfections (just for a little while, at least ). Pictures and foibles make the mix fun. love Bruce > > > My wife says to me, * " I've just been told you've become > complacent look it up and see what it means. " > > Complacent: smug and uncritically satisfied with yourself (Little > Oxford dictionary) > > Smug: irritatingly pleased with oneself; self-satisfied. > > Oh my God! > > *( I've just been told `clairaudience') > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 @@Are you sure you want to send this message? No I am not but so what,@@@ LOL! Most of the time I say that before I make a post. Hehe! Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. There is no rhyme nor reason. I am glad you posted this. It's a little comforting to me that I am not the only one. I think I am clairaudient. I hear things in my head all the time and sometimes they are not such nice words. Linda --- " jezzwhizz " <jezzwhizz wrote: > > > > > My wife says to me, * " I've just been told you've become > complacent look it up and see what it means. " > > Complacent: smug and uncritically satisfied with yourself (Little > Oxford dictionary) > > Smug: irritatingly pleased with oneself; self-satisfied. > > Oh my God! > > *( I've just been told `clairaudience') > > > > I am not clairaudient myself, however the other day I was thinking I > wish I had some spiritual help, when I heard in my mind, " you wanted > the Highest, you have to do it yourself " Not only that, it sounded > so stern, almost nasty, hey that can't be spirit talking to me, or > my higher self. > > Right now my wife talks to my son on the telephone, and he's asking > about his dad. My wife says " oh he's on his a computer, clicking > away a man of importance, you know what he's like " I laugh out > loud as I over hear their conversation, a manic laugh, with calm yet > ruffled waves of bliss beneath. My wife continues, " the Universe > balances everything " , and I remain in my now seemingly quite ugly > smugness. > > With that there is arrogance too. Being smug has an arrogance around it. > > So my sincere apologies for any postings that have reflected my > arrogance, smugness, and conceitedness. When I first joined this group I > would make postings then a day or two later delete them. Someone then > made a posting saying I had knowledge to share, and should not delete my > postings. So then I stopped deleting them. However several weeks later I > then decided to delete everything, all postings and photo's. Last > week I decided to make new postings, but this time with pictures too. > The grander the picture the better, to stroke my ego more. Chrism has > made no comment, but intuitively I believe he'd rather people > didn't post pictures as I do, with each posting. But I am so defiant > and mischievous, oh God forgive me. Blessings that there is so much love > here. So what are these self-obsessed ramblings about? Please help me > and advice me how to work on my complacency, ego, low self-esteem, > arrogance, defiance and madness too? > > > > Satchitanada~ oh but I am feeling so blissful at times…. ~ jeremy > > ps. and get this - even this message, as I check it in 'Preview' mode > the words come up, > > Are you sure you want to send this message? No I am not but so what, > > satchitanada~jeremy > > do I have to work this out myself? > > > > Are you sure you want to send this message? > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 I often feel exactly the same, and I get very excited about a post Ive made then spend the rest of the day agonising over what people will think as a result of it, and thinking I should delete it. I think its perfectly normal. For myself I think its part of my need to feel and be accepted by everyone. So rather than being myself I build up everything I do, then some small part of me hints at it being a little over the top and so I feel I shouldnt have done it. The overconfident always have low self esteem (thats me!!). If I had to give myself advice, I'd tell myself just to be me and not worry about it. But then I dont take my own advice =) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 7, 2009 Report Share Posted February 7, 2009 "My wife says to me, *"I've just been told you've become complacent look it up and see what it means.""I am very complacent at times, partly because I don't really like the way most people are in this society, so I usually brush them aside and go on with my business. Sometimes, it's just easier to ignore people than to have to look them in the eye and deal with their drama, whatever it may be. "With that there is arrogance too. Being smug has an arrogance around it."People that don't understand what's inside an arrogant person usually don't deserve to.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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