Guest guest Posted June 26, 2009 Report Share Posted June 26, 2009 Dear chrism, due to my recent post there came a question in my mind. Maybe you could give me a tip... I would say, that I really forgave my parents. We have now a very good relationship and I feel, that they can accept and love me now. There were many other persons and situations in my childhood which teached me, that " I'm wrong and strange " . But I would also say, that I really forgave them and when I think back, there is no negative emotion. Even there is gratitude that this brought me on my path. But why do I feel still that there is something like a wound that I get not rid of. Does this need simply more time? Is there something I'm on te wrong track? Blessing, Robert Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 26, 2009 Report Share Posted June 26, 2009 Part of it can be the separation one may feel due to the way one has been treated. Differences are accentuated in society and not always gracefully. Yes give yourself more time and place yourself in your practice inside of the inner joy as much as you can. The hurtful qualities of the past will only remain as long as there are anchor points for them to attach to so look at these areas and be firm and gentle at the same time. It will not always be an instant process. - Be diligent in your forgiveness and ever mindful that what you went through has brought you to where you are and this is indeed a good thing Robert. - blessings to you. - chrism , " robert_vergin " <robert.vergin wrote: > > Dear chrism, > > due to my recent post there came a question in my mind. Maybe you could give me a tip... > > I would say, that I really forgave my parents. We have now a very good relationship and I feel, that they can accept and love me now. > There were many other persons and situations in my childhood which teached me, that " I'm wrong and strange " . But I would also say, that I really forgave them and when I think back, there is no negative emotion. Even there is gratitude that this brought me on my path. > > But why do I feel still that there is something like a wound that I get not rid of. Does this need simply more time? Is there something I'm on te wrong track? > > Blessing, Robert > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 26, 2009 Report Share Posted June 26, 2009 of course you are not on the wrong track, you should stop doubting yourself. And, there is bound to be wounds as things such as this leave deep inprints on the mind, heart and soul. Be kind and patient with yourself , forgiveness is an ongoing process, taking much time. There are many layers to the onion. Have more faith in yourself. Blessings Robert lots of love elektra x x x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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