Guest guest Posted July 15, 2009 Report Share Posted July 15, 2009 Hi all, I was doing really well, safeties, eating well, then everything started falling apart. Mother (86 yrs) is sick with bladder infection, 1st round of antibiotics didn't work, now they know what the bacteria is and are treating it with something else. Many trips to doctor. A 10 year old dog I sold to a couple has been returned to me. At first I was horrified they would abandon a dog that remembers no home but theirs, now they say they want the dog back eventually, when they get a fence built at their new home, but when I picked up the dog it was filthy, matted and full of stickers. I won't return the dog, but I have not told them. They did surrender the dogs papers to me, but I don't want them to start on an expensive fence if I am not going to return the dog. So somehow I must tell them. Looking for an experienced legal advisor in this field. Diet has fallen apart, no safeties, except prayers. Seems like there is no time, rushing to help with husband's business, looking for work for myself, helping mother, taking care of dogs, worrying about what to do about returned dog. Trying to get it back together, Love and light to all, Pat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 15, 2009 Report Share Posted July 15, 2009 Hi Pat, I'm sorry your plate is so full right now! You mentioned you were only doing prayers...but really you are doing sooooo much more in the loving service you give! Strange that you mentioned your mom is sick with a bladder infection, my Grandfather just was admitted into the hospital yesterday for this because he was so weak. He wasn't on any medicine yet though and badly needed fluid. Hoping your mom recovers quickly!! How fortunate she is to have you!! I do not know what to say about the dog because I do not know the legalities - I just wonder if that is their intention to really buy a fence or perhaps they were hoping you would take it back for good? I guess I don't understand why they wouldn't just walk the dog if they loved and wanted it?? Although I see how this puts you in a sticky situation. I know when my plate is so full and I'm feeling stressed its not always so easy to ask questions of Shakti/Divine - well I should say its easy to ask for guidance, but not always easy for me to know or hear the answer. I hope someone here can help you - I'm sorry I'm not much help. I suppose you could take some pictures of the dog and the condition he/she is in. But I'm wondering too why they would give you the dog papers if they really intended to take the dog back? I trust that you are being looked after and pray that the answer will unfold easily for you. Much Respect to you and all you do! Much love too! Deb (: , " Pat " <lookinglassaussies wrote: > > Hi all, > I was doing really well, safeties, eating well, then everything s Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 15, 2009 Report Share Posted July 15, 2009 Yes Pat a whirlwind of activity! No worries but allow yourself to release the micro managment. Go back to your practice and the safeties. Make this part of how you begin to incorporate and metabolize the changes that are in motion. Be clear and honest with yourself and by proxy with those whom you have dealings with. Tell the people the dog will not be coming back. Be there for MOM and allow her the " quality " of your time. These tests will come and they are as a way of stretching the muscles that the safeties produce. - blessings and breathing Pat - chrism Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 15, 2009 Report Share Posted July 15, 2009 Thanks Chrism, you are my rock. I feel as if I am bouncing on the ocean waves but I have a life line to you and the others on this site who are keeping me from floating away. I can't tell you how many times a day I think of you and the others here. Thank you for being here. Pat , " chrism " <> wrote: > > Yes Pat a whirlwind of activity! No worries but allow yourself to release the micro managment. Go back to your practice and the safeties. Make this part of how you begin to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 15, 2009 Report Share Posted July 15, 2009 Sorry about your Grandfather. It is so important to keep up on the fluids. As far as the owners of the dog go, the husband doesn't want the expense of a fence and wanted to just give me the dog, the wife wants the dog. Personally, if I had a 10 year old dog I would not get a house that I could not take the dog to. The dog is part of my family. I am grateful that they called me though. Pat , " flowerpowers7777 " <flowerpowers7777 wrote: > > Hi Pat, > > I'm sorry your plate is so full right now! You mentioned you were only doing prayers...but really you are doing sooooo much more in the loving service you give! Strange that you mentioned your mom is sick with a bladder infection, my Grandfather just was admitted into the hospital yesterday for this because he was so weak. He wasn't on any medicine yet though and badly needed fluid. Hoping your mom recovers quickly!! How fortunate she is to have you!! > > I do not know what to say about the dog because I do not know the legalities - I just wonder if that is their intention to really buy a fence or perhaps they were hoping you would take it back for good? > I guess I don't understand why they wouldn't just walk the dog if they loved and wanted it?? > Although I see how this puts you in a sticky situation. I know when my plate is so full and I'm feeling stressed its not always so easy to ask questions of Shakti/Divine - well I should say its easy to ask for guidance, but not always easy for me to know or hear the answer. > > I hope someone here can help you - I'm sorry I'm not much help. I suppose you could take some pictures of the dog and the condition he/she is in. But I'm wondering too why they would give you the dog papers if they really intended to take the dog back? I trust that you are being looked after and pray that the answer will unfold easily for you. > > Much Respect to you and all you do! > Much love too! > Deb (: > > , " Pat " <lookinglassaussies@> wrote: > > > > Hi all, > > I was doing really well, safeties, eating well, then everything s > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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