Guest guest Posted August 13, 2009 Report Share Posted August 13, 2009 Edgar I was sadden to hear of your separation with your wife becoming more finite. Separation/divorce is often a time that's difficult to move through with heart filled with sadness, with a pain body in search of a way to mitigate its excruciating pain. It's never easy to look at the relationships we've manifested with a lucidness that takes us directly to ownership, that leads us to the precipice of the mountain where we can see with clarity our participation. Marriage if full of complex connections we entangle ourselves in. They are replete with ties where we sometimes look over our shoulder and never know how they came to be. You have talked for some time how she had made the shift, connected with another man, sought the company, attention and love from outside herself. It is not uncommon for one or the other partner to mentally have made the decision to leave for some time. They then build a network of relationships or friends to buttress this web support (emotional) to allow the shift to occur with greater ease. Edgar what become significant is to see the behaviors we observed in them and how we in some indirect/direct way supported this shift. Edgar, the cord to the old you is riddled with feelings tethered to he relationship, to the emotions that lead you down this path, yes, it would be easy to simply cut them and cast them aside but they are a rich fertile soil filled with gifts that will grow the new man in you. Life is about opportunity and opportunity is about realizing you have a zillion beautiful option in every breath. Thorns turn into diamonds, diamonds gives rise to brilliance, brilliance into the beautiful light being you are. Be more Edgar, responsibility allows it all to happen. It becomes a lubricant which eases the friction as we move through this growing. Edgar you're a beautiful man, with a beautiful gifts and a beautiful heart. Come visit on Mondays, it was great to have you. Love Out..........................Loud, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 13, 2009 Report Share Posted August 13, 2009 Tony.. Thank you so much for your eloquent & beautiful words, it really warms my heart. I am now in a place of acceptance, with the loving guidance of K Ma and Chrism's advices i have found peace. I am now in the eye of the storm..in the calmness inside the eye i look at the rushing winds with a sense of trust & hope that after this storm the sun will shine. This morning these thoughts occupy my mind. My Love, a love so sweet a love so pure a love so strong a love so deep a love so true a love so fine it can only be the Divine... blessings & much love to all, edgar ________________________________ Tony Camacho <burgeoningheart Thursday, August 13, 2009 10:22:45 AM Edgar:divorce Edgar I was sadden to hear of your separation with your wife becoming more finite. Separation/ divorce is often a time that's difficult to move through with heart filled with sadness, with a pain body in search of a way to mitigate its excruciating pain. It's never easy to look at the relationships we've manifested with a lucidness that takes us directly to ownership, that leads us to the precipice of the mountain where we can see with clarity our participation. Marriage if full of complex connections we entangle ourselves in.. They are replete with ties where we sometimes look over our shoulder and never know how they came to be. You have talked for some time how she had made the shift, connected with another man, sought the company, attention and love from outside herself. It is not uncommon for one or the other partner to mentally have made the decision to leave for some time. They then build a network of relationships or friends to buttress this web support (emotional) to allow the shift to occur with greater ease. Edgar what become significant is to see the behaviors we observed in them and how we in some indirect/direct way supported this shift. Edgar, the cord to the old you is riddled with feelings tethered to he relationship, to the emotions that lead you down this path, yes, it would be easy to simply cut them and cast them aside but they are a rich fertile soil filled with gifts that will grow the new man in you. Life is about opportunity and opportunity is about realizing you have a zillion beautiful option in every breath. Thorns turn into diamonds, diamonds gives rise to brilliance, brilliance into the beautiful light being you are. Be more Edgar, responsibility allows it all to happen. It becomes a lubricant which eases the friction as we move through this growing. Edgar you're a beautiful man, with a beautiful gifts and a beautiful heart. Come visit on Mondays, it was great to have you. Love Out......... ......... .........Loud, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 13, 2009 Report Share Posted August 13, 2009 Greetings Tony & Edgar, I found your words very moving and a beautiful way to give advice to Edgar at this time in his breakup. I had a difficult first marriage breakup and it took some years for me to see how I had played my part in ending the marriage. There were times when I should have stepped in and resolved certain issues but I closed my eyes to them hoping they would go away but knowing deep down that each time I dismissed an issue I was putting another nail in the coffin of our family set up. Looking back some 17yrs later I can see things more clearly. Not questioning when I should have, and ignoring things as he took a step towards a new life. I did not try and pull him back to me. The next few months will be hard Edgar and there may be times when you feel that there is nothing left for you. At those times, please talk to us. We are here with open arms and a big box of kleenex. Something far more wonderful awaits you round the corner, I know that to be true. Always remember your children are the inocents in all this and do your best to make the transition as easy for them as you can. My love is with you. Blessings, Skydancer x , Tony Camacho <burgeoningheart wrote: > > Edgar > > I was sadden to hear of your separation with your wife becoming more finite. Separation/divorce is often a time that's difficult to move through with heart filled with sadness, with a pain body in search of a way to mitigate its excruciating pain. > > It's never easy to look at the relationships we've manifested with a lucidness that takes us directly to ownership, that leads us to the precipice of the mountain where we can see with clarity our participation. Marriage if full of complex connections we entangle ourselves in. They are replete with ties where we sometimes look over our shoulder and never know how they came to be. > > You have talked for some time how she had made the shift, connected with another man, sought the company, attention and love from outside herself. It is not uncommon for one or the other partner to mentally have made the decision to leave for some time. They then build a network of relationships or friends to buttress this web support (emotional) to allow the shift to occur with greater ease. Edgar what become significant is to see the behaviors we observed in them and how we in some indirect/direct way supported this shift. > > Edgar, the cord to the old you is riddled with feelings tethered to he relationship, to the emotions that lead you down this path, yes, it would be easy to simply cut them and cast them aside but they are a rich fertile soil filled with gifts that will grow the new man in you. > Life is about opportunity and opportunity is about realizing you have a zillion beautiful option in every breath. > > Thorns turn into diamonds, diamonds gives rise to brilliance, brilliance into the beautiful light being you are. Be more Edgar, responsibility allows it all to happen. It becomes a lubricant which eases the friction as we move through this growing. Edgar you're a beautiful man, with a beautiful gifts and a beautiful heart. Come visit on Mondays, it was great to have you. > > > Love Out..........................Loud, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2009 Report Share Posted August 16, 2009 Love to you Edgar.......Richard Sent from my BlackBerry device on the Rogers Wireless Network Edok Ananda <edok.ananda Thu, 13 Aug 2009 21:38:55 Re: Edgar:divorce Tony.. Thank you so much for your eloquent & beautiful words, it really warms my heart. I am now in a place of acceptance, with the loving guidance of K Ma and Chrism's advices i have found peace. I am now in the eye of the storm..in the calmness inside the eye i look at the rushing winds with a sense of trust & hope that after this storm the sun will shine. This morning these thoughts occupy my mind. My Love, a love so sweet a love so pure a love so strong a love so deep a love so true a love so fine it can only be the Divine... blessings & much love to all, edgar ________________________________ Tony Camacho <burgeoningheart@ <burgeoningheart%40> > Kundalini-Awakening <%40> -Systems-1 Thursday, August 13, 2009 10:22:45 AM Edgar:divorce Edgar I was sadden to hear of your separation with your wife becoming more finite. Separation/ divorce is often a time that's difficult to move through with heart filled with sadness, with a pain body in search of a way to mitigate its excruciating pain. It's never easy to look at the relationships we've manifested with a lucidness that takes us directly to ownership, that leads us to the precipice of the mountain where we can see with clarity our participation. Marriage if full of complex connections we entangle ourselves in.. They are replete with ties where we sometimes look over our shoulder and never know how they came to be. You have talked for some time how she had made the shift, connected with another man, sought the company, attention and love from outside herself. It is not uncommon for one or the other partner to mentally have made the decision to leave for some time. They then build a network of relationships or friends to buttress this web support (emotional) to allow the shift to occur with greater ease. Edgar what become significant is to see the behaviors we observed in them and how we in some indirect/direct way supported this shift. Edgar, the cord to the old you is riddled with feelings tethered to he relationship, to the emotions that lead you down this path, yes, it would be easy to simply cut them and cast them aside but they are a rich fertile soil filled with gifts that will grow the new man in you. Life is about opportunity and opportunity is about realizing you have a zillion beautiful option in every breath. Thorns turn into diamonds, diamonds gives rise to brilliance, brilliance into the beautiful light being you are. Be more Edgar, responsibility allows it all to happen. It becomes a lubricant which eases the friction as we move through this growing. Edgar you're a beautiful man, with a beautiful gifts and a beautiful heart. Come visit on Mondays, it was great to have you. Love Out......... ......... .........Loud, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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