What would you do?

September 16, 2009

Hi and All,

First, thanks for the Scatterfield and up-coming Shaktipat. Each

Shaktipat time the Kundalini decides to dredge up things from my past that

I thought I was over. I joined Facebook a while back as my son suggested it. A

week after that I got a message via Facebook from a woman who had a 2yr affair

with my ex-husband while we were still married. It was a chatty note asking if I

could send her his new details as she has lost contact with him!

As I read it I was shaking and all the hurtful memories came back to me. For an

hour I was unable to do anything, then my son phoned me for a chat. I told him

what had happened and as he knew what a rat his dad was we could discuss it

openly. That affair had caused my children pain as well, so he was hurt by this

woman's cheek. He said he would deal with it for me and I left it with him.

I'm okay now and can laugh at the woman's brazen attitude and cheek! But what

would you have done? I would like to know as really I did nothing but pass my

problem onto my son. My ex was a womaniser to the end of our marriage and I may

well have to face this situation again.

Blessings, Skydancer x

September 16, 2009

hi iona,

go on to your life.you have not to tell something to woman.love your

son.that's it for me.love..ali

A.Arslan

2009/9/17 iona winton <ionaskydancer

>

> Hi and All,

>

> First, thanks for the Scatterfield and up-coming Shaktipat. Each

> Shaktipat time the Kundalini decides to dredge up things from my past that

> I thought I was over. I joined Facebook a while back as my son suggested it.

> A week after that I got a message via Facebook from a woman who had a 2yr

> affair with my ex-husband while we were still married. It was a chatty note

> asking if I could send her his new details as she has lost contact with him!

>

> As I read it I was shaking and all the hurtful memories came back to me.

> For an hour I was unable to do anything, then my son phoned me for a chat. I

> told him what had happened and as he knew what a rat his dad was we could

> discuss it openly. That affair had caused my children pain as well, so he

> was hurt by this woman's cheek. He said he would deal with it for me and I

> left it with him.

>

> I'm okay now and can laugh at the woman's brazen attitude and cheek! But

> what would you have done? I would like to know as really I did nothing but

> pass my problem onto my son. My ex was a womaniser to the end of our

> marriage and I may well have to face this situation again.

>

> Blessings, Skydancer x

>

September 17, 2009

I also had a letter out of the blue from someone in my past via facebook,

someone who had made me feel darkness, a vampire friend. She now contacts me

with a terrible story of loss and suffering and wants to be friends again. I

really loved her and her family but feel unsure as to letting her in again.

I guess its up to us to feel whats right.

If you are no longer with your husband why should you care who he sees? He is a

free agent right? You are now happily with a lovely man of your own. I think

its time to forgive and forget and move on.

Thats what I am doing with my long lost buddy.

Blessings dear sis, I know you will make the best decision and move through this

love elektra x x x

September 19, 2009

Hi Ali,

I was going to follw the similar advice like you have given, but I decided to

face one of my old deamons and lay my past to rest.

Thank you for replying, Skydancer x

, ali arslan <alion74

wrote:

>

> hi iona,

>

> go on to your life.you have not to tell something to woman.love your

> son.that's it for me.love..ali

> A.Arslan

>

> 2009/9/17 iona winton <ionaskydancer

>

> >

> > Hi and All,

> >

> > First, thanks for the Scatterfield and up-coming Shaktipat. Each

> > Shaktipat time the Kundalini decides to dredge up things from my past that

> > I thought I was over. I joined Facebook a while back as my son suggested it.

> > A week after that I got a message via Facebook from a woman who had a 2yr

> > affair with my ex-husband while we were still married. It was a chatty note

> > asking if I could send her his new details as she has lost contact with him!

> >

> > As I read it I was shaking and all the hurtful memories came back to me.

> > For an hour I was unable to do anything, then my son phoned me for a chat. I

> > told him what had happened and as he knew what a rat his dad was we could

> > discuss it openly. That affair had caused my children pain as well, so he

> > was hurt by this woman's cheek. He said he would deal with it for me and I

> > left it with him.

> >

> > I'm okay now and can laugh at the woman's brazen attitude and cheek! But

> > what would you have done? I would like to know as really I did nothing but

> > pass my problem onto my son. My ex was a womaniser to the end of our

> > marriage and I may well have to face this situation again.

> >

> > Blessings, Skydancer x

> >

September 19, 2009

Hi Dear Sis,

Yes, I suppose it must happen to many of us now our details are out there for

the world to see. I will reply to her and let her know that I no longer have

contact with him, and wish her well. I know it was the sudden shock of seeing

both their names connected again. I am over him and so happy with J, my Soul

Mate. Also our union gave me two beautiful children, so it was not all bad!

Blessings, Skydancer x

, Elektra Fire

<elektra.fire wrote:

>

> I also had a letter out of the blue from someone in my past via facebook,

someone who had made me feel darkness, a vampire friend. She now contacts me

with a terrible story of loss and suffering and wants to be friends again. I

really loved her and her family but feel unsure as to letting her in again.

> I guess its up to us to feel whats right.

>

> If you are no longer with your husband why should you care who he sees? He is

a free agent right? You are now happily with a lovely man of your own. I think

its time to forgive and forget and move on.

> Thats what I am doing with my long lost buddy.

>

> Blessings dear sis, I know you will make the best decision and move through

this

> love elektra x x x

>

September 19, 2009

I would have wrote a nice chatty letter back and said, " unknown where abouts for

hubby. last seen with you. I was about to ask you how to reach him. " LOL. just