We Are Not Victims

[Guest guest]

We are not victims except by our permission. With the Kundalini yes we can have

an amplification of current issues and traumas and yet also we can have a

release from those traumas by reaching new and expansive conclusions based upon

information that comes to us via the Kundalini.

 

We do not HAVE to be victims or be active recipients of abuse. We recognize that

others, even those close to us, have a path to walk and we allow them to walk

it. Doesnt mean we allow that path to walk over us. No one is helped by the

support of inappropriate or hurtful self indulgent behaviors.

 

Remember that we also count. How we feel about ourselves is representative of

how we feel about the temple that is being exalted. We can help others through

example but they must also come half way.

Kundalini allows for us to be able to give love that is of a freeing quality and

sometimes of a disciplinary quality.

 

We are also parents. Parents correct their children just as our Kundalini

parents correct us. It is for a greater goodness for all concerned and can be

viewed as a service of love. imho. - chrism

[Guest guest]

Thank You I know these truths but need to be reminded of them. They are

also hard to implement sometimes. I know I give my daughter permission to treat

me the way she does, and I am working on stopping that with the strength of God

and K. I woke up this morning with a great feeling of peace that I can let go of

any needs I have of her love, kindness, I felt like I was releasing her to do

what she needs to do. But at the same time I will set boundaries to protect

myself, when she gets abusive I will tell her that is not acceptable and I will

walk away and when she is ready to talk with me in a loving respecful manner I

will be available. A friend also told me to fluff the energy around my body to

make a type of energy barrier. Its just so hard for me to think of making

barriers to protect myself from my own daughter. But like you said it does not

help her to allow her inappropiate hurtful behaviors to continue toward me. If I

allow her to do that it teaches her that she can be abusive toward other loving

people. So for the greater goodness of all I will do my best at letting go of my

victim status and teaching her how to interact in a loving way. I will let her

walk her path but not let her walk over me; that is going to be my mantra for

today. Thank you again for such wisdom.

Maryann

 

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> We are not victims except by our permission. With the Kundalini yes we can

have

> an amplification of current issues and traumas and yet also we can have a

> release from those traumas by reaching new and expansive conclusions based

upon

> information that comes to us via the Kundalini.

>

> We do not HAVE to be victims or be active recipients of abuse. We recognize

that

> others, even those close to us, have a path to walk and we allow them to walk

> it. Doesnt mean we allow that path to walk over us. No one is helped by the

> support of inappropriate or hurtful self indulgent behaviors.

>

> Remember that we also count. How we feel about ourselves is representative of

> how we feel about the temple that is being exalted. We can help others through

> example but they must also come half way.

> Kundalini allows for us to be able to give love that is of a freeing quality

and

> sometimes of a disciplinary quality.

>

> We are also parents. Parents correct their children just as our Kundalini

> parents correct us. It is for a greater goodness for all concerned and can be

> viewed as a service of love. imho. - chrism

>