Relationship problems -Thanks Shrikant-Zinnia-Linda

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Dear Zinnia,

Self Realization gives you strength.I know God, I am attached to him.With rest I

am detached.I speak only when asked or only if it is necessary,not

otherwise.I am within myself.Worldly actions are performed by me when someone

asks me to(even lectures I deliver because I was asked to,I did not take

initiative).Just be 3rd person and observe every action do not be involved.I

have gone through difficult times, but I survived due to strong belief in

God.His manifestation has given me 2nd birth.Why bother about worldly things

then and be attached to them?None can help you but God.............shrikant

 

 

 

 

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crazycats711;

Sun, 29 November, 2009 11:07:07 AM

FW: Re: Relationship problems -Thanks

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What helped you identify with a strength within (God) amid those circumstances

so that you did detach?

 

Zinnia

 

 

 

 

 

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Thanks Linda,Your description is clear...being in the eye of the storm as where

there is no stirring..peace like you said while all hell is breaking loose

around you. A clear and focused mind what a joyous result!love,Zinnia

 

 

crazycats711

Sun, 29 Nov 2009 07:01:38 +0000

FW: Re: Relationship problems -Thanks

Shrikant-Zinnia-Linda

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I don't know how to explain the change that took place in me. When James

or anyone goes into a drama situation where their emotions are out of control, I

slip into observer mode and the drama doesn't effect me. It is like I am in the

eye of the storm and in peace, while all hell is breaking loose around me. My

mind stays clear and focused. Sometimes it is so comical I am laughing inside. I

do not say anything most of the time and the drama ends quickly like dead weight

when they realize their outburst has no effect on me. Not for sure about that,

but that is what it seems. It is sort of like the peace in me calms the storm

within them. When it calms, then we can talk it over peacefully. The outbursts

have now lessen in their frequency. I really don't know what exactly takes

place, but I like it.

 

 

 

Before, whenever James would get angry about something and threw one of his

drama fits, it would quickly be over for him when his anger was spent, but for

me the effect stayed all day, sometimes several days.My reacting to his drama

would cause it to increase and go for a longer time. He would get even more

angry and blame me for making him get angry.

 

It doesn't bother me like that anymore, it just rolls off, doesn't touch me.

That is as well as I can explain it.

 

 

 

Linda

 

 

 

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Very well then, I won't.

joyous blessings,Zinnia

 

Sun, 29 Nov 2009 23:33:18 +0530

shrikantphule

Re: Re: Relationship problems -Thanks

Shrikant-Zinnia-Linda

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Dear Zinnia,pl. don't address me as esteemeed etc.I am a simple fellow.Past

hardships are for learning and not hankering.We should observe them as

witness.Someone, I think Socrates said if you get a good wife you are a happy

man, if you don't you become a philosopher.God gives you troubles not to tumble

you but to humble you.............shrikant