Guest guest Posted March 25, 2010 Report Share Posted March 25, 2010 Hi Sarah You tired of me yet? (: I thought I'd come back - the part of your dream where you say you are always backing down or something - I just wanted to add that this sorta thing has been one of my lessons - I mean I am being easier on myself now about how I am but I do get lessons...oh those glorious lessons (: Well this is one of those that I've had to learn - I just had this again but this time I spoke - My Dad wanted me to do something that was not a one time thing but would have been another thing i would have to do that would have gone on for years - he wanted me to do this bookwork on the side (: for a business he is pursuing - which i don't enjoy btw " bookwork " - He said I could do it wherever I was it wouldn't matter - I have gotten myself into these sorts of things quite often (: Doing that which is not in my heart but wanting to help and not wanting to disappoint anyone so i just do it and later it causes me usually many problems - this going against myself (: - normally I would not have said much - and by doing so would be doing something I didn't enjoy - but this time I joked with him about it lighting up the conversation but making it clear it wasn't something I was interested in - okay and then joking some more that i wasn't going there (: but I did help him to pursue that thing he wants and get him the help he needs without being tied to it forever in the end ... It was funny though 'cuz he did take a double take at me -he was surprised that i wasn't going along with it - but in the end it was lighthearted and he still gets what he wants just with someone else - and I spoke up! Yeah ! But best of all it's all okay between us (:- I don't know if this is the sort of thing you were referring to - I am just projecting myself here ha - so don't know if it helps at all - but you helped me, by writing this it is a reminder (: Well thats probably a lot more of me than you wanted - (: I'm throwing you two chi balls for listening to my rant! Lots of love Mia D (aka other deb) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2010 Report Share Posted March 25, 2010 Hi, lol, not tired. no. I have been enjoying your thoughts/responses. Tah xx I think I do the same thing with loved ones, especially my mother. It's great to hear you were able to say no to your Dad, but it still working out for you both. , " flowerpowers7777 " <flowerpowers7777 wrote: > > Hi Sarah > > You tired of me yet? (: > > I thought I'd come back - the part of your dream where you say you are always backing down or something - I just wanted to add that this sorta thing has been one of my lessons - I mean I am being easier on myself now about how I am but I do get lessons...oh those glorious lessons (: > > Well this is one of those that I've had to learn - I just had this again but this time I spoke - My Dad wanted me to do something that was not a one time thing but would have been another thing i would have to do that would have gone on for years - he wanted me to do this bookwork on the side (: for a business he is pursuing - which i don't enjoy btw " bookwork " - He said I could do it wherever I was it wouldn't matter - I have gotten myself into these sorts of things quite often (: Doing that which is not in my heart but wanting to help and not wanting to disappoint anyone so i just do it and later it causes me usually many problems - this going against myself (: > > - normally I would not have said much - and by doing so would be doing something I didn't enjoy - but this time I joked with him about it lighting up the conversation but making it clear it wasn't something I was interested in - okay and then joking some more that i wasn't going there (: > > but I did help him to pursue that thing he wants and get him the help he needs without being tied to it forever in the end ... It was funny though 'cuz he did take a double take at me -he was surprised that i wasn't going along with it - but in the end it was lighthearted and he still gets what he wants just with someone else - and I spoke up! Yeah ! But best of all it's all okay between us (:- > > I don't know if this is the sort of thing you were referring to - I am just projecting myself here ha - so don't know if it helps at all - but you helped me, by writing this it is a reminder (: > > Well thats probably a lot more of me than you wanted - (: > I'm throwing you two chi balls for listening to my rant! > Lots of love > Mia D (aka other deb) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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