Guest guest Posted April 21, 2010 Report Share Posted April 21, 2010 Dear and KAS Family: I posted my thanks for the healing and love being sent to me on the healing website, but i wanted to post a bit more as to a further reason why I am probably getting these chronic migraines. I have posted previously as to my having to support my adult son who is both a type 1 diabetic and bipolar and has not been able to get and keep a job, and how helping him to the degree I have been doing is putting me in debt. I knew things had to change, but I did not want to put him on the street, so I wrote him an email 2 days ago that instead of my husband and I just paying his bills, we will give him a specified amount of money each month and he will need to budget and pay his own bills. We will not rescue him. I was afraid of his reaction, as he has threatened us many times in the past, but he seems to be taking it well, and even told me yesterday that he loved me. The reason this has been such a big issue is that my husband feels we should just keep sacrificing for him, no matter what the cost to us, and so my decision had created conflict between us too, but even that seems to be better than I had anticipated. Please keep our son Mark, and Bill and I in your prayers. Love and Peace always Diane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 23, 2010 Report Share Posted April 23, 2010 Dear Diane, Prayers for your family. As difficult as it is may it bring you all growth. Blessings, Katharine ________________________________ Diane Baugh <cdgbdronningen Wed, April 21, 2010 3:54:32 PM GRATITUDE AND UPDATE  Dear and KAS Family: I posted my thanks for the healing and love being sent to me on the healing website, but i wanted to post a bit more as to a further reason why I am probably getting these chronic migraines. I have posted previously as to my having to support my adult son who is both a type 1 diabetic and bipolar and has not been able to get and keep a job, and how helping him to the degree I have been doing is putting me in debt. I knew things had to change, but I did not want to put him on the street, so I wrote him an email 2 days ago that instead of my husband and I just paying his bills, we will give him a specified amount of money each month and he will need to budget and pay his own bills. We will not rescue him. I was afraid of his reaction, as he has threatened us many times in the past, but he seems to be taking it well, and even told me yesterday that he loved me. The reason this has been such a big issue is that my husband feels we should just keep sacrificing for him, no matter what the cost to us, and so my decision had created conflict between us too, but even that seems to be better than I had anticipated. Please keep our son Mark, and Bill and I in your prayers. Love and Peace always Diane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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