lostgal Posted August 2, 2010 Report Share Posted August 2, 2010 Hi there, I'm 23 this year. I have been in a relationship with my bf for the past 5 years. FOr the past 2 years, i have been a very controlling person towards him. I also suspect him for no reasons. Can you advise me what should I do. WHy did I change to be this person. I want to change, and I know I can. I don't want to hurt him anymore. Please advise me. We also have plans on getting married next year before my birthday-October 10. We have plans on living in overseas but we can't get a job overseas....been trying really hard. I was unemployed for 3 months then recently i got a temporary job, and now in end pf sept the contract will be ending, I need to get a job soo badly.. could you please advise me on what should I do, and what are my future like? will I be less controlling towards my husband-to-be and will I stop suspecting him for no reason. He is a gem of person..he is a reallly nice and loving guy. I dun know why and I dont realise it when I do all this to him. I want to change and can you check if I will get a good job soon in Overseas? Place of Birth: Kuantan, Malaysia D.O.B: 10-10-1986 Time of Birth: 7.36 pm/19:36 CUrrent Country: Malaysia if you need anymore information pls do ask me, i'll inform you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostgal Posted August 9, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 9, 2010 Hi there, I'm 23 this year. I have been in a relationship with my bf for the past 5 years. FOr the past 2 years, i have been a very controlling person towards him. I also suspect him for no reasons. Can you advise me what should I do. WHy did I change to be this person. I want to change, and I know I can. I don't want to hurt him anymore. Please advise me. We also have plans on getting married next year before my birthday-October 10. We have plans on living in overseas but we can't get a job overseas....been trying really hard. I was unemployed for 3 months then recently i got a temporary job, and now in end of sept the contract will be ending, I need to get a job soo badly.. could you please advise me on what should I do, and what are my future like? will I be less controlling towards my husband-to-be and will I stop suspecting him for no reason. He is a gem of person..he is a reallly nice and loving guy. I dun know why and I dont realise it when I do all this to him. I want to change and can you check if I will get a good job soon in Overseas? Place of Birth: Kuantan, Malaysia D.O.B: 10-10-1986 Time of Birth: 7.36 pm/19:36 CUrrent Country: Malaysia if you need anymore information pls do ask me, i'll inform you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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