smritimanu Posted March 11, 2014 Report Share Posted March 11, 2014 Hello all, I'm new to this forum. I request the members' help regarding marrige. Your suggestions and Jyotish solutions will be of great help to me. My Date of Birth is 11.06.1983 Time: 8 or 8.05 AM (Saturday, Bangalore, Amavasya) My marriage has been inordinately delayed. My parents have been looking out for a suitable alliance since my 24th year. None, I am not exaggerating, have been suitable. 2 alliances agreed and both rejected at later stages and some, we have realised later, were completely bogus people. My parents are not interested in an alliance from outside India as a Pandit ji had advised my parents in my childhood to not send me abroad. Some prospective families have even said that I have Kuja dosha hence I cannot be considered a good match. We as a family are in a real quandry and my career is also not going great guns despite all the efforts. Please advise. I have a brother who is younger to me (27.12.1985, 9.40 AM) and his chances of marriage are also getting delayed. Please advise suitable solutions. My family has perfomed Parvati Kalyana, Arka Vivaha, Haridra Ganapati Homam, Katyayani Homam, Kalyanotsava at Tirupati. We are at our wits end regarding this. Will I be married (India/abroad)? will my married life be joyous? Many thanks for listening to my woes and your time. SM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest KGR Posted March 12, 2014 Report Share Posted March 12, 2014 Dear Smriti, I can understand your situation as an unmarried girl of 31 years of age. But I want to tell you that life is more than just marriage and raising children. Try concentrating on your career which will improve with in few months. You have a chance of getting married after June of this year. Repeat 'Sarvamangala Mangalye' sloka 108 times a day except the forbidden 4 days. Regards, KGR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smritimanu Posted March 15, 2014 Author Report Share Posted March 15, 2014 Thank you KGR for your encouraging words; they are definitely a source of succour to me. Yes, I agree that life is more than marriage and raising children. But convincing my parents of that has been difficult and after seeing their pain,I just don't have the heart to labour that point. Right now, if my parents and my brother feel happy by getting me married I will be grateful. I want to thank you again for the solutions you have suggested I will surely follow it. If I may ask you for a bit more detail about the groom; some characteristics? Many thanks for your reply and regards Dear Smriti, I can understand your situation as an unmarried girl of 31 years of age. But I want to tell you that life is more than just marriage and raising children. Try concentrating on your career which will improve with in few months. You have a chance of getting married after June of this year. Repeat 'Sarvamangala Mangalye' sloka 108 times a day except the forbidden 4 days. Regards, KGR Thank you KGR for your encouraging words; they are definitely a source of succour to me. Yes, I agree that life is more than marriage and raising children. But convincing my parents of that has been difficult and after seeing their pain,I just don't have the heart to labour that point. Right now, if my parents and my brother feel happy by getting me married I will be grateful. I want to thank you again for the solutions you have suggested I will surely follow it. If I may ask you for a bit more detail about the groom; some characteristics? Many thanks for your reply and regards SM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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