Guest guest Posted November 19, 2003 Report Share Posted November 19, 2003 Gujarati Grooms Paying for Brides Times News Network AHMEDABAD, INDIA, November 15, 2003: On his 31st birthday, Mitesh Patel of Rajkot, Gujarat found his ageing father was worried because he had not found a suitable bride for his son. The old man was left with no alternative but to "settle" for a tribal girl, in the process coughing up a large dowry (bride price, actually), as per the tribal marriage custom. In Gujarat, where the sex ratio has dropped to 878 girls for 1000 boys, villages are grappling with this new problem. The grooms are waiting. But, where is the bride? Said Haribhai Adhruk, a village elder, "This trend is becoming commonplace in our village. It's a fallout of people not wanting girls, and the sonography machine has played havoc," he says. Experts warn that social practices like dhoodh-piti (tradition of drowning infant girl in milk prevalent in Saurashtra), sata-paddhati (tradition of marrying daughters into the family of daughter-in-law) and issues like domestic violence, gender discrimination and illegal abortions continuing unabated, there are grave consequences in store for Gujarat. "The state government has begun confiscating unlicensed sonography machines and has raided illegal sonography centres. But, it is society that should realize the problem and bring about a difference," says Amar Vyas, a social activist in Mehsana, a district notorious for female feticide. A startling instance of the social complicity was apparent when the Ahmedabad district health office appealed to people to report cases of female feticide anonymously. Not a single call was received on the phone number that was advertised. "If this trend continues, it will create law and order problems with a rise in domestic violence and infidelity," says social scientist Achyut Yagnik. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
REASWARAN Posted November 19, 2003 Report Share Posted November 19, 2003 Let me put things in perspective- Yes there are cases of abortions of female fetuses in India. and No - there is no blanket legality accorded to such acts. Abortion is legal in India upto the time the fetus is three months old I think. Why ? Because unfortunately, several Indians still carry the old mental framework of wanting a male child- to carry on the dynasty you see-never mind if the dynasty is worth a tuppeny. Anyway if the first child is a female , they go onto the second and if also a female onto the third and so on until the woman collapses or the male child is born. Which leaves us with a host of little girls who get no care from their parents 'cause they finally have a son- never mind he may a good for nothing' . With legalised abortion, at least such children will not come into the world and suffer nor will a woman be made to go through the tyranny of unwanted birhs- sure it is not the pefect solution - but the woman should have the choice of having a child or not - she's the one who bears the brunt after all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2003 Report Share Posted November 19, 2003 India is well know to its strong religion and faith. But how come they mosre value honor in expense of life? How could you relate the acts/legality of abortion to the brand of India's spirituality? I think there is something wrong with this. In most Christian nation (aside from the west) abortion is highly classified as against God. where could you insert this act to India's faith? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kulapavana Posted November 19, 2003 Report Share Posted November 19, 2003 "With legalised abortion, at least such children will not come into the world and suffer nor will a woman be made to go through the tyranny of unwanted birhs" If you conceived a child, your duty is to raise it well. We devotees must follow the Vedic law on this issue. Sinful people invent bogus justification for their evil acts - do not fall for their poisonous "reasons". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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