Guest guest Posted December 24, 2005 Report Share Posted December 24, 2005 MAA, IS THERE REALLY A SANTA CLAUS? Like most young children growing up in a western culture, I was whole-heartedly captured by the belief in a mysterious, jolly man named Santa Claus. I was told that he lived at the North Pole, and he magically travelled in one night all over the world, giving gifts to every child. Of course, he had Mrs. Santa Claus and the elves to help him. But, that childhood fantasy, at the tender age of six or seven, met its' demise in an experience that remains, even now, one of the highest teachings of my life. It was a cold, hard winter that year just before Thanksgiving, and our parents were struggling hand-to-mouth to care for us, the first seven children of our growing family. I overheard my parents whispering and worrying quietly about the bills, and my mother's usual reasurring words, "somehow we'll make do!" And then one day following the Thanksgiving gathering at my maternal Grandma's house, my mom pulled me aside, and asked me to quietly collect one old doll belonging to each of the three girls, and give them to her. I felt honored that she trusted me to keep some kind of secret here, although I, too, was still in the dark. On the eve of Christmas, our family traditions were going on as usual. I helped to set up the Christmas crib of the Nativity scene with a small black barn that my dad had made when he was fifteen, covering the rooftop with a thin layer of cotton-snow and a small light for the star, like the one that shown above the stable in Bethlehem. Then we older children re-told the story of the Baby Jesus's birth to the younger ones. After dinner that night, our dad came through the door from his second job selling christmas trees, pulling our own tree behind him. With our mom's guidance, we older children strung the lights and helped our younger siblings to hang the remaining, unbroken glass ornaments of Christmases-past, along with the recycled tinsel. And then, huddled around the glowing lights of our tree in the darkened room, we children and parents sang "Silent Night", "Away in the Manger", and our other family favorites. I remember my mom reminding me, within earshot of the others, to leave two of the best- decorated christmas cookies and a glass of milk on a plate for Santa Claus, near the tree. Surprisingly, she then whispered quietly to me that she could use my help with something, after the younger ones had fallen asleep. So, with bewildered anticipation, I finally crept back down the bedroom hallway, through the kitchen, to the door of the utility room where I heard hushed voices. It was there that my mom asked me if I had ever heard from any of the kids at school, or in our neighborhood, "that they didn't believe in Santa Claus"? I answered, "Of course, I heard some of the kids say that they don't `believe'. "but I do!" Somehow my mom found the words, and led me by the hand into the utility room, showing me that this year our grandma and grandpa, and great-grandma Lutz were together our Santa Claus. That small room was filled with their personally, hand-crafted gifts: torquoise- painted wooden doll cradles that converted to beds when turned over on their legs; a grey-painted table with four matching chairs; a children's play cupboard with real doors on freshly-hung hinges and a red marble-colored counter top; all of the old dolls were surrounded with sets of newly-stitched dresses, and wrapped in small, hand- knitted woolen shawls and old-fashioned quilted blankets on their beds. There must have been gifts for the boys too, representing many quiet hours and weeks of our grandparents creativity and labor to support their family (even with their retirement incomes of the late 1950's). As I reverently dressed each of the dolls in their new clothes, and set these gifts from "Santa" around the tree with my mom, I was suddenly flooded by and filled with a new realization: that my stern, maternal grandmother, my wrinkled, denture-clicking grandpa, and my old, sweet great-grandmother were full of love for us! And out of this deep love and generousity, came their giving. I could hardly wait for Christmas Day to come, to give my grandmas their first "real " Santa hug from me, and my whispered "Thank You Santa" in their ears. My stern Grandma simply smiled, and winked her eye, as she hugged me back. Along with the Saints and true, wise teachers of all ages and all nations, Shree Maa and Swami Satyananda teach that real "Spirituality is giving more than you take in every circumstance of your life". So we are all shown by example, and "called" to be Santa Claus in the world everyday, according to our means and circumstances. May the Spirit and Love of Santa Claus be with you all, always! May the Spirit of our Lord, Jesus Christ, shine brightly in your hearts today, and bless you abundantly in this coming new year! Merry Christmas to all my brothers and sisters on our Devi Mandir Chat Group, from Kamala Ma, in India. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 24, 2005 Report Share Posted December 24, 2005 Beloved Kamalajji, i am so moved by your heart warming story! It brims over with Love, Love, Love and the Spirit of Christmas. Thank-you so much for sharing it! You artistically painted this sweet childhood story so vividly, that i could sense what you were feeling. May you receive every good thing your heart desires and may Maa always light your way as you travel the golden path back to Her crystal palace of Light. :<) Happiest of Holy Days to you, dear sister! Jai Maa! Jai Swamiji! Jai Thakur Ramakrishna Deva! muktimaa , "kamalaji_india" <kamalaji_india> wrote: > > MAA, IS THERE REALLY A SANTA CLAUS? > > Like most young children growing up in a western culture, I was > whole-heartedly captured by the belief in a mysterious, jolly man > named Santa Claus. I was told that he lived at the North Pole, and > he magically travelled in one night all over the world, giving gifts > to every child. Of course, he had Mrs. Santa Claus and the elves to > help him. > But, that childhood fantasy, at the tender age of six or > seven, met its' demise in an experience that remains, even now, one > of the highest teachings of my life. > It was a cold, hard winter that year just before Thanksgiving, > and our parents were struggling hand-to-mouth to care for us, the > first seven children of our growing family. I overheard my parents > whispering and worrying quietly about the bills, and my mother's > usual reasurring words, "somehow we'll make do!" And > then one day following the Thanksgiving gathering at my maternal > Grandma's house, my mom pulled me aside, and asked me to quietly > collect one old doll belonging to each of the three girls, and give > them to her. > I felt honored that she trusted me to keep some kind of secret here, > although I, too, was still in the dark. > On the eve of Christmas, our family traditions were going on > as usual. I helped to set up the Christmas crib of the Nativity > scene with a small black barn that my dad had made when he was > fifteen, covering the rooftop with a thin layer of cotton-snow and a > small light for the star, like the one that shown above the stable > in Bethlehem. Then we older children re-told the story of the Baby > Jesus's birth to the younger ones. After dinner that night, our dad > came through the door from his second job selling christmas trees, > pulling our own tree behind him. With our mom's guidance, we older > children strung the lights and helped our younger siblings to hang > the remaining, unbroken glass ornaments of Christmases-past, along > with the recycled tinsel. > And then, huddled around the glowing lights of our tree in the > darkened room, we children and parents sang "Silent Night", "Away in > the Manger", and our other family favorites. I remember my mom > reminding me, within earshot of the others, to leave two of the best- > decorated christmas cookies and a glass of milk on a plate for Santa > Claus, near the tree. Surprisingly, she then whispered quietly to me > that she could use my help with something, after the younger ones had > fallen asleep. > So, with bewildered anticipation, I finally crept back down the > bedroom hallway, through the kitchen, > to the door of the utility room where I heard hushed voices. It was > there that my mom asked me if I had ever heard from any of the kids > at school, or in our neighborhood, "that they didn't believe in Santa > Claus"? I answered, "Of course, I heard some of the kids say that > they don't `believe'. "but I do!" > Somehow my mom found the words, and led me by the hand into the > utility room, showing me that this year our grandma and grandpa, and > great-grandma Lutz were together our Santa Claus. That small room > was filled with their personally, hand-crafted gifts: torquoise- > painted wooden doll cradles that converted to beds when turned over > on their legs; a grey-painted table with four matching chairs; a > children's play cupboard with real doors on freshly-hung hinges and a > red marble-colored counter top; all of the old dolls were surrounded > with sets of newly-stitched dresses, and wrapped in small, hand- > knitted woolen shawls and old-fashioned quilted blankets on their > beds. There must have been gifts for the boys too, representing many > quiet hours and weeks of our grandparents creativity and labor to > support their family (even with their retirement incomes of the late > 1950's). > As I reverently dressed each of the dolls in their new clothes, > and set these gifts from "Santa" around the tree with my mom, I was > suddenly flooded by and filled with a new realization: that my > stern, maternal grandmother, my wrinkled, denture-clicking grandpa, > and my old, sweet great-grandmother were full of love for us! And out > of this deep love and generousity, came their giving. I could hardly > wait for Christmas Day to come, to give my grandmas their > first "real " Santa hug from me, and my whispered "Thank You Santa" > in their ears. My stern Grandma simply smiled, and winked her eye, > as she hugged me back. > Along with the Saints and true, wise teachers of all ages and > all nations, Shree Maa and Swami Satyananda teach that > real "Spirituality is giving more than you take in every circumstance > of your life". > So we are all shown by example, and "called" to be Santa Claus in the > world everyday, according to our means and circumstances. May the > Spirit and Love of Santa Claus be with you all, always! May the > Spirit of our Lord, Jesus Christ, shine brightly in your hearts > today, and bless you abundantly in this coming new year! Merry > Christmas to all my brothers and sisters on our Devi Mandir Chat > Group, from Kamala Ma, in India. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 24, 2005 Report Share Posted December 24, 2005 Dear Kamala Ma, now this is what I call a Christmas story! You've painted such a vivid picture of your loving family that I could really see your Dad coming in with the tree and your stern Grandma and denture-clicking Grandpa:) The story contains a great lesson for all of us, and it also shows that the true Santa Claus doesn't advertise, but works quietly through many giving hands and loving hearts. Thank you for this lovely gift on Christmas eve, wishing you a very merry Christmas in India, Henny , "kamalaji_india" <kamalaji_india> wrote: > > MAA, IS THERE REALLY A SANTA CLAUS? > > Like most young children growing up in a western culture, I was > whole-heartedly captured by the belief in a mysterious, jolly man > named Santa Claus. I was told that he lived at the North Pole, and > he magically travelled in one night all over the world, giving gifts > to every child. Of course, he had Mrs. Santa Claus and the elves to > help him. > But, that childhood fantasy, at the tender age of six or > seven, met its' demise in an experience that remains, even now, one > of the highest teachings of my life. > It was a cold, hard winter that year just before Thanksgiving, > and our parents were struggling hand-to-mouth to care for us, the > first seven children of our growing family. I overheard my parents > whispering and worrying quietly about the bills, and my mother's > usual reasurring words, "somehow we'll make do!" And > then one day following the Thanksgiving gathering at my maternal > Grandma's house, my mom pulled me aside, and asked me to quietly > collect one old doll belonging to each of the three girls, and give > them to her. > I felt honored that she trusted me to keep some kind of secret here, > although I, too, was still in the dark. > On the eve of Christmas, our family traditions were going on > as usual. I helped to set up the Christmas crib of the Nativity > scene with a small black barn that my dad had made when he was > fifteen, covering the rooftop with a thin layer of cotton-snow and a > small light for the star, like the one that shown above the stable > in Bethlehem. Then we older children re-told the story of the Baby > Jesus's birth to the younger ones. After dinner that night, our dad > came through the door from his second job selling christmas trees, > pulling our own tree behind him. With our mom's guidance, we older > children strung the lights and helped our younger siblings to hang > the remaining, unbroken glass ornaments of Christmases-past, along > with the recycled tinsel. > And then, huddled around the glowing lights of our tree in the > darkened room, we children and parents sang "Silent Night", "Away in > the Manger", and our other family favorites. I remember my mom > reminding me, within earshot of the others, to leave two of the best- > decorated christmas cookies and a glass of milk on a plate for Santa > Claus, near the tree. Surprisingly, she then whispered quietly to me > that she could use my help with something, after the younger ones had > fallen asleep. > So, with bewildered anticipation, I finally crept back down the > bedroom hallway, through the kitchen, > to the door of the utility room where I heard hushed voices. It was > there that my mom asked me if I had ever heard from any of the kids > at school, or in our neighborhood, "that they didn't believe in Santa > Claus"? I answered, "Of course, I heard some of the kids say that > they don't `believe'. "but I do!" > Somehow my mom found the words, and led me by the hand into the > utility room, showing me that this year our grandma and grandpa, and > great-grandma Lutz were together our Santa Claus. That small room > was filled with their personally, hand-crafted gifts: torquoise- > painted wooden doll cradles that converted to beds when turned over > on their legs; a grey-painted table with four matching chairs; a > children's play cupboard with real doors on freshly-hung hinges and a > red marble-colored counter top; all of the old dolls were surrounded > with sets of newly-stitched dresses, and wrapped in small, hand- > knitted woolen shawls and old-fashioned quilted blankets on their > beds. There must have been gifts for the boys too, representing many > quiet hours and weeks of our grandparents creativity and labor to > support their family (even with their retirement incomes of the late > 1950's). > As I reverently dressed each of the dolls in their new clothes, > and set these gifts from "Santa" around the tree with my mom, I was > suddenly flooded by and filled with a new realization: that my > stern, maternal grandmother, my wrinkled, denture-clicking grandpa, > and my old, sweet great-grandmother were full of love for us! And out > of this deep love and generousity, came their giving. I could hardly > wait for Christmas Day to come, to give my grandmas their > first "real " Santa hug from me, and my whispered "Thank You Santa" > in their ears. My stern Grandma simply smiled, and winked her eye, > as she hugged me back. > Along with the Saints and true, wise teachers of all ages and > all nations, Shree Maa and Swami Satyananda teach that > real "Spirituality is giving more than you take in every circumstance > of your life". > So we are all shown by example, and "called" to be Santa Claus in the > world everyday, according to our means and circumstances. May the > Spirit and Love of Santa Claus be with you all, always! May the > Spirit of our Lord, Jesus Christ, shine brightly in your hearts > today, and bless you abundantly in this coming new year! Merry > Christmas to all my brothers and sisters on our Devi Mandir Chat > Group, from Kamala Ma, in India. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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