relationships/Gloria G.

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Gloria Greco wrote:

Perhaps if you were best of friends you would

sit down and have this kind of conversation to

achieve change, after the loving bond was

established over time when trust had manifest

the most sincere qualities from both of you.

But when relationships are building on a

list such as this, this creates distrust and

hardness around the heart, and the ripples go

out into the group consciousness of the membership.

 

 

Melody:

Gloria, I really enjoy reading your posts. Your

experience of the healing and transfomational

power of love is in resonance with my own.

 

As I look at my own relationships, and notice the

ones presently in discord, it is easy to recognize

my own participation in the closing of another's

heart towards me. I recognize that when another

perceives me as 'slapping them', the door of their

heart closes towards me. At that point, it didn't

matter how much Truth I carry in my back pocket, the 'other' has closed the

door to me, until the

relationship had been repaired. I recognize those relationships on these

very lists that are in need

of repair... by noticing how I tend to gloss over the words some offer, as

if there is no value in them....

which, of course, is my loss until my eyes are again

cleared. :-)

 

The challenge to see with 'new eyes' is forever

the opportunity to 'be here now', and not see thru

those eyes of yesterday. It can be done, yet it

does seem as if we sometimes create a lot of

unnecessary work for each other. :-)

 

Now, having said that, it is also easy for me to

step over to the other side of the fence and say,

"goodness, look at all the opportunities I have

been given today....to stay transparent to words

and attitudes of others. And when some words 'stick',

I have been given an opportunity to see...square in

my face...what attachment is calling for freedom.

 

Would it be marvelous if we only saw the beauty and

the truth in each other, and like the 3 monkeys..

'see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil'? Yes.

 

But recognizing this little monkey began her walk

with skin that acts like fly paper, I have come to

honor those who 'ring my bells' as those who assist

me to identify them. :-) Yet, admittedly, it is

easier for me to appreciate those whose hearts are so radiant, that the

sacred space they hold for me greatly fascilitates the clearing away of

those defensive attachments.

 

So what I have taken a very long time to say I

guess <s> is, "It's all perfect, if we choose to

see it as so".

 

I, for one, used Bruce and Tim's exchange as a 'neti, neti' reinforcer.

Someone else may have been

gifted in a totally different way.

 

If my life is any example, it seems that loving

conduct cannot be legislated. (It's always

backfired when it's been a 'should' in my life.)

 

Love can however be inspired, which is what you

do in every post...and it is simply *what's left'

after 'neti, neti' has run it's full course.

 

With love,

Melody

[Guest guest]

Melody wrote:

>

> Melody <melody

>

> Gloria Greco wrote:

> Perhaps if you were best of friends you would

> sit down and have this kind of conversation to

> achieve change, after the loving bond was

> established over time when trust had manifest

> the most sincere qualities from both of you.

> But when relationships are building on a

> list such as this, this creates distrust and

> hardness around the heart, and the ripples go

> out into the group consciousness of the membership.

>

> Melody:

> Gloria, I really enjoy reading your posts. Your

> experience of the healing and transfomational

> power of love is in resonance with my own.

 

Gloria:

I hope I didn't make the impression that everything isn't

perfect...even this is perfect. There is always purpose for whatever

comes our way, however, the learning that comes with this is to reflect

on the words and the intentions coming through the words.

It is in fact, the intention which holds the power, if the intention is

one of love and acceptance even a hurtful word will be carried. If there

is other motives, then it will create a string of cause/effect that can

be quite powerful. The way to neutralize this energy is to examine

intention and simply notice where it comes from.

When people have the experience of living in the heart center and above

then whatever comes through will be with love. It is when folks haven't

learned detachment and surrender that solar plexus energies release the

fire of misunderstanding and what I call psychic warfare.

There is a big difference between the frequencies when love is the

carrier and when the solar plexus energy is being used. It is really

nothing more then where the individual is stationed in the energy body.

There is no great mystery about this, it is simply a matter of will and

purpose.

>

> As I look at my own relationships, and notice the

> ones presently in discord, it is easy to recognize

> my own participation in the closing of another's

> heart towards me. I recognize that when another

> perceives me as 'slapping them', the door of their

> heart closes towards me. At that point, it didn't

> matter how much Truth I carry in my back pocket, the 'other' has closed the

> door to me, until the

> relationship had been repaired. I recognize those relationships on these

> very lists that are in need

> of repair... by noticing how I tend to gloss over the words some offer, as

> if there is no value in them....

> which, of course, is my loss until my eyes are again

> cleared. :-)

>

> The challenge to see with 'new eyes' is forever

> the opportunity to 'be here now', and not see thru

> those eyes of yesterday. It can be done, yet it

> does seem as if we sometimes create a lot of

> unnecessary work for each other. :-)

>

> Now, having said that, it is also easy for me to

> step over to the other side of the fence and say,

> "goodness, look at all the opportunities I have

> been given today....to stay transparent to words

> and attitudes of others. And when some words 'stick',

> I have been given an opportunity to see...square in

> my face...what attachment is calling for freedom.

>

> Would it be marvelous if we only saw the beauty and

> the truth in each other, and like the 3 monkeys..

> 'see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil'? Yes.

>

> But recognizing this little monkey began her walk

> with skin that acts like fly paper, I have come to

> honor those who 'ring my bells' as those who assist

> me to identify them. :-) Yet, admittedly, it is

> easier for me to appreciate those whose hearts are so radiant, that the

> sacred space they hold for me greatly fascilitates the clearing away of

> those defensive attachments.

>

> So what I have taken a very long time to say I

> guess <s> is, "It's all perfect, if we choose to

> see it as so".

>

> I, for one, used Bruce and Tim's exchange as a 'neti, neti' reinforcer.

> Someone else may have been

> gifted in a totally different way.

>

> If my life is any example, it seems that loving

> conduct cannot be legislated. (It's always

> backfired when it's been a 'should' in my life.)

>

> Love can however be inspired, which is what you

> do in every post...and it is simply *what's left'

> after 'neti, neti' has run it's full course.

>

> With love,

> Melody

>

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