Guest guest Posted May 14, 1999 Report Share Posted May 14, 1999 Xan Maranya <XanM Everything here is relationship. That's what duality means. "Relationship" has come to connotate the intimate-man-woman-thing. If you decided to reject and refuse relationships then you would stop eating food, enjoying the view or even breathing air. Harsha: Well stated. But there is no need to limit the notion of "relationships" only to external perceptions such as men, women, food, things, views, etc. Relationships exist also in states where the perceptions are "internal" (such as sleep or even Savikalpa Samadhis). The foundation of all relationships is built on perceptions whether they are external (men, women, animals, things, etc.) or internal (dreaming about men, women, animal, things, etc,. or having various kinds of visions in the superconscious states of angels, heavenly objects, celestial regions, etc.). It makes no difference whether the perceptions are external or internal, the perceiver is in relationship with the perceptions. Duality ends when the Perceiver and Perceived (Seer and the Seen) merge. Mystics like Kabir and Jnaneshwar have written beautiful poetry to describe this "Unity." Xan: Would you consider that the phenomenon of relationship is not hell but opposition is? When there is consciousness in wholeness what is there to oppose? If I am opposing anything I short-out my experience of wholeness. Harsha: Why can't one oppose a relationship and maintain Wholeness. Sometimes, it is wise to walk away from a relationship with a situation or a person. Let us say someone who knows Karate is feeling angry with Ted. It would be wise for Ted to make a run for it while maintaining perfect wholeness and integrity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 15, 1999 Report Share Posted May 15, 1999 During the life of Buddha, many were practicing his teachings and consequently many householders attained nirvana with substratum remaining. Obviously, leading a spiritual life and having relations aren't mutually exclusive. The Buddha described the nirvana with substratum as being endowed with perfect knowledge, having done what has to be done, having halted the wheel. From then on, he mentioned two possibilities: 1. one can rejoice one's feelings, as they have been purified from the stains of all impressions and new impressions cannot be made anymore. 2. one doesn't rejoice one's feelings and they will be burnt also. This leads to a situation (nirvana without substratum) that cannot be described as anyone can imagine it to be entirely different from the previous; the Buddha called it a microcosm where the laws of nature loose validity. >From this perspective, one cannot possibly predict whether or not one will rejoice one's feelings, as in the present era even nirvana with substratum has become a rarity. However, the life of the Buddha enables one to lift the veil even "before one is there". For the Buddha, suffering became the main issue. If one recognizes a period in life, where one had to take such a beating that one would have preferred to continue life without feelings, the impression has been created that will cause one to opt for 2.. Which leaves the rest of us to evolve through genuine relationships. Jan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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