Guest guest Posted August 12, 1999 Report Share Posted August 12, 1999 Hello Fiona, Thank you so much for sharing your story. I know it wasn't easy. I hope it has helped you as much as it has probably helped other people. I know when I hear such things, it helps me to understand more, and that helps me in working with people. I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive your mother... sometime, not necessarily right now. The only way I have found to forgive everything is to think of the mistakes I have made in this life and in other lives and forgive myself... and others too. I know we come into incarnation to learn to love more and better, and living in the body isn't easy... sometimes we make mistakes. So I forgive myself for the mistakes I made... I know I was trying to learn love... and I forgive the others too. >Secret shame > >My whole life spent trying to gain approval of others and get >'forgiveness' for >my secrets to ease my shame. So many years - so much energy has gone into >hiding the shameful secrets of my life, feeling absolutely split down my >centre, >knowing I wasn't being true to my essence. >The shame . put upon me by Mother -- that I was a girl - not in the mould >that >she wanted. >snip< >Up until . yesterday, when a little boy, without words, but simply through the >expression of his being, said come and play. Come and play with the innocent. >I see the reflection . > >I honour the gift.with respect Beautiful! I hope you can give lots of love to the wonderful child in you... and be the loving mother that you deserve. Love and blessings, Dharma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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