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Hi David

Having taken a personal journey through the minefield of psychological

counselling I have to agree with you. My own healing has been assisted

by counsellors who have taken a wider approach than the purely

analytical/rational. I have been lucky to find a wonderful woman who

comes from a spiritual base and uses psychological methods as a

companion to deeper healing on a spiritual/energy level. She even sent

me off to a clairvoyant (an amazing Italian woman, but that's another

story) as part of my journey to self-healing.

When the healing is based solely on the methods of modern psychology it

just doesn't seem to "take" - it is like healing the surface wound, but

not getting at the infection beneath it.

OM Shanti

Michele

 

David Bozzi wrote:

>

> David Bozzi <david.bozzi

>

> Had a conversation with a psychologist. Apparently the approach of this field

is largely

> talking and exposing 'schemas'. (aka mental constructions or patterns) I

remarked, 'No one

> has ever thought their way out of depression.' He strongly disagreed. I

proposed perhaps the

> talking is an aspect of the healing but there's more. There's healing on an

energy level

> beyond the intellect. Intellect is just a small part of it. He said what I was

talking about

> was 'philosophy'.

>

> Is it just me, or is the general approach of today's psychology naive and

limited?

>

> The sense I got was that if something is not within the realm of the rational

(very

> limited) than it is not valid.

>

> I'm writing this, I suppose, because it disturbs me somewhat, that a field

that is dedicated

> to healing depression seems so antediluvian.

>

> David

> (venting)

>

> > All paths go somewhere. No path goes nowhere. Paths, places, sights,

perceptions, and indeed all experiences arise from and exist in and subside back

into the Space of Awareness. Like waves rising are not different than the ocean,

all things arising from Awareness are of the nature of Awareness. Awareness does

not come and go but is always Present. It is Home. Home is where the Heart Is.

Jnanis know the Heart to be the Finality of Eternal Being. A true devotee

relishes in the Truth of Self-Knowledge, spontaneously arising from within into

It Self. Welcome all to a.

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michele wrote:

> Hi David

> Having taken a personal journey through the minefield of psychological

> counselling I have to agree with you. My own healing has been assisted

> by counsellors who have taken a wider approach than the purely

> analytical/rational.

 

I'm happy you found people like this. I do know there are 'aware' psychologists.

I once knew one. I'll share a bit more and let you know that I am having to take

a psychology course and my teacher

is a psychologist. While some of the observations of modern psychology are

helpful, like you say, they are for the most part superficial. I'm having some

difficulty going through this course and swallowing it.(despite having an 'A' so

far) I believe this is perhaps a lesson in tolerance for me.

 

Blessings,

 

David

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I have also studied some psychology at tertiary level (I chose to do a

couple of units as part of an English degree). What appealed to me

where people like Maslow. If you look closely at his concept of

self-actualisation it parallels Raj Yoga although he doesn't come right

out and say that self-actualisation = enlightenment. His triangle image

is one of those archetypal symbols that we have been discussing

recently. The upright triangle in Tantra is the representation of

Shiva. It also refers to the development from physical existence to the

spiritual, and Maslow mimicks this also with base needs (food, survival,

shelter) at the bottom and self-actualisation at the peak.

As above so below, as below so above

As without so within, as within so without

 

OM Shanti

Michele

 

David Bozzi wrote:

>

> David Bozzi <david.bozzi

>

> michele wrote:

>

> > Hi David

> > Having taken a personal journey through the minefield of psychological

> > counselling I have to agree with you. My own healing has been assisted

> > by counsellors who have taken a wider approach than the purely

> > analytical/rational.

>

> I'm happy you found people like this. I do know there are 'aware'

psychologists. I once knew one. I'll share a bit more and let you know that I am

having to take a psychology course and my teacher

> is a psychologist. While some of the observations of modern psychology are

helpful, like you say, they are for the most part superficial. I'm having some

difficulty going through this course and swallowing it.(despite having an 'A' so

far) I believe this is perhaps a lesson in tolerance for me.

>

> Blessings,

>

> David

>

> > All paths go somewhere. No path goes nowhere. Paths, places, sights,

perceptions, and indeed all experiences arise from and exist in and subside back

into the Space of Awareness. Like waves rising are not different than the ocean,

all things arising from Awareness are of the nature of Awareness. Awareness does

not come and go but is always Present. It is Home. Home is where the Heart Is.

Jnanis know the Heart to be the Finality of Eternal Being. A true devotee

relishes in the Truth of Self-Knowledge, spontaneously arising from within into

It Self. Welcome all to a.

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On Thu, 28 Oct 1999 21:36:34 -0400 David Bozzi <david.bozzi

writes:

> David Bozzi <david.bozzi

>

> Had a conversation with a psychologist. Apparently the approach of

> this field is largely

> talking and exposing 'schemas'. (aka mental constructions or

> patterns) I remarked, 'No one

> has ever thought their way out of depression.' He strongly

> disagreed. I proposed perhaps the

> talking is an aspect of the healing but there's more. There's

> healing on an energy level

> beyond the intellect. Intellect is just a small part of it. He said

> what I was talking about was 'philosophy'.

 

Who cares about his labels?

The healing is what matters,

no?

>

> Is it just me, or is the general approach of today's psychology

> naive and limited?

 

I wouldn't generalize on the

basis of one practitioner,

many modern therapists (both

MDieities and non-MDs), if not

most, will concede that an

intellectual understanding of

ones depression is generally

insufficient for anything

close to a cure. Most will

recommend a combination of

counseling and drug therapy, a

sizable minority will note the

"spiritual" or "religious"

aspect of the problem even if

they shy away from delving

into it in detail with their

patients.

>

> The sense I got was that if something is not within the realm of the

> rational (very limited) than it is not valid.

>

It is a rare practicioner who

effectively transcends the

*supposedly* "rational"

underpinnings of his/her

training, but such people do

exist!

> I'm writing this, I suppose, because it disturbs me somewhat, that a

> field that is dedicated to healing depression seems so antediluvian.

>

That sort of closed-

mindedness is very common in

the (mental and otherwise!)

health professions, but I

reiterate that exceptions do

exist!

 

 

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In a message dated 10/28/99 11:38:12 PM Central Daylight Time,

editor writes:

 

<< a sizable minority will note the "spiritual" or "religious" aspect

of the

problem even if they shy away from delving into it in detail with their

patients. >>

 

However - it is important that one's psychologist - NOT be one's own personal

spiritual teacher. Too many roles there -

diana

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David -- I am a lapsed psychologist who gave up almost all of her private

practice because of a profound disenchantment with what has happened to the

field and because K awakening threw her into a tizzy of confusion as to what

the work was really about! I do know many personal exceptions to the sad

state of affairs you described because a lot of people become therapists

because they are naturally religious and attracted to healing and they can't

figure out what else to do for a living because the priesthood or rabbinate

is not open to them. I see all healing as coming from God -- it is nothing

special, just God doing what comes naturally eternally. It becomes special

to us because of how it feels, our gratitude, and, more unfortunately, it

becomes special to professionals, gurus, HMO's, workshop leaders, radio show

hosts and so forth when we think we can understand, control, market, regulate

and take credit for it. Adding my vent to your vent, Holly

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Bruce Morgen wrote:

> Who cares about his labels?

> The healing is what matters,

> no?

 

I agree. However, a healer's capacity can be limited by his/her own

understanding.

The label is the limit. Traditional psychology embraces the label. I acknowledge

there are many psychologists that are transcending the label barrier. But they

are few,

and the world needs more. : )

> I wouldn't generalize on the

> basis of one practitioner,

> many modern therapists (both

> MDieities and non-MDs), if not

> most, will concede that an

> intellectual understanding of

> ones depression is generally

> insufficient for anything

> close to a cure.

 

I'm glad this is someone's experience. It's certainly not mine.

 

David

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At 21:36 28/10/99 -0400, you wrote:

>David Bozzi <david.bozzi

 

 

Hi David,

 

Touching base...

 

 

 

Did a degree in Psychology many years ago, and agree with a lot of what you

say.

 

I notice that psychology tends to latch onto new ways of ordering the world

that appears to be. In my case at university the computer analogy of

thought was new territory. Artificial Intelligence and all that. Then AI

went into a backwater, and now it's something else... dumdedum...

>

>Had a conversation with a psychologist. Apparently the approach of this

field is largely

>talking and exposing 'schemas'. (aka mental constructions or patterns) I

remarked, 'No one

>has ever thought their way out of depression.' He strongly disagreed.

 

I agree with you mostly. He sounds very much in his head. Over here they

still use ECT to "lift" people out of depression. What do they care whether

you can't even remember *what* you are afterwards? (rant) I do think that

thoughts have energy, so there is some truth to what he said, but not

entirely as he meant it, imo. Hypnnosis at least involves the person in a

living experience.

 

I proposed perhaps the

>talking is an aspect of the healing but there's more. There's healing on

an energy level

>beyond the intellect. Intellect is just a small part of it. He said what I

was talking about

>was 'philosophy'.

 

What he thinks is philosophy is what he can dismiss as thought experiments,

but that is often what psychology is. He could learn a lot about the

philosophy of science...

>

>Is it just me, or is the general approach of today's psychology naive and

limited?

 

Limited by its own obsession with scientific methodology in a field that

far surpasses aristotelian science, and our limited knowledge. (Why *do*

they call it Psychology, derived from the Greek word for soul? Where's the

compassion, when you regard ppl as statistical entities that respond in

predeterminable patterns?)

 

I had a telling little experience during my course: a tutor of mine

approached me with a device that included a pair of headphones, a

microphone and box with a dial on it. She asked me to wear the headphones

and speak into the microphone as I read out of a book. The dial altered the

delay between the sounds coming out of my mouth and my hearing them in the

'phones. She smiled and told me that this device caused all the ppl she'd

tested it on to stammer and stutter.

 

Off we went, and I found that although the delay was noticeable, I could

read without any hesitation. She was surprised. She grabbed the box and

tweaked the dial around while I read. By this time I was having fun, and I

started to read in a sing-song way to play my voice off against the echoed

voice. My tutor couldn't understand how I did it. It didn't fit her findings.

 

Tried to tell her: when you play a lot of improvised music, you tend to

learn to dissociate what you are doing with what you are hearing, so that

you can create extrapolations on what is happening without losing the

thread. So I was using that part of my mind that synthesises musical

information to read and listen as separate streams of awareness.

 

She left shaking her head. I don't know if she ever got into why I wouldn't

stammer. She never came back to me. Guess I'm too weird for science... :)

>

>The sense I got was that if something is not within the realm of the

rational (very

>limited) than it is not valid.

 

The definition of what is psychology varies depending on who you talk to:

Oxford University in 1985 didn't mention Freud, others didn't mention Jung

tho' they dealt with Freud. All dealt with behaviourism, most dealt with

cognitive psych.

>

>I'm writing this, I suppose, because it disturbs me somewhat, that a field

that is dedicated

>to healing depression seems so antediluvian.

 

Yup. Agree with you there! However, there's some who moved on, look at

Jung, Reich, Perls, even Janov. So perhaps its just about the badge wavers

telling ppl to only look at their badge...

 

I'm gone

 

 

Robert

 

>

>David

>(venting)

>

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Thanks Holly. I do know therapists like yourself you have come to the same

conclusions as yourself.

It's good to know not everyone gets bogged down by the college texts in any

field. I see a lot of medical doctors bound by an ancient science that

ultimately harms their patients. But some grow beyond the limits. New fields pop

up (naturopaths/ transpersonal psychologists, etc)

 

Blessings,

David

 

Hbarrett47 wrote:

 

> I see all healing as coming from God -- it is nothing

> special, just God doing what comes naturally eternally. It becomes special

> to us because of how it feels, our gratitude, and, more unfortunately, it

> becomes special to professionals, gurus, HMO's, workshop leaders, radio show

> hosts and so forth when we think we can understand, control, market, regulate

> and take credit for it. Adding my vent to your vent, Holly

 

PS - a healthy dose of venting can be healing. : )

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With respect for study,

 

There are really wonderful physicians, psychologists and therapists who

are not bogged down.

 

Elliott Dacher, M.D., wrote a book called "PsychoNeuroImmunology"

I guess about 10 years ago now. When I was diagnosed with a terminal

illness he helped me clear it with meditation in about three weeks. He's

a Harvard M.D. who lectures worldwide. I could give some family

examples of uncles and brothers but i dislike personalizing things all the

time.

 

There are other wonderful psychiatrists and therapists I know working

with Tai Chi, Accupuncture, nutrition, holism, meditation, herbology,

and other forms of healing. It was the Greek God Chiron who was

credited with bringing the healing arts in, and surgery derived from the

ancient chiergury is just one of those derivations, there is also chirology,

light polarization, and many others.

 

There is someone on list who has two psychiatrist parents who both

meditate and at least one does Tai Chi, like the rest of us, this is

all fairly new to our western minds, so, it's not easy, and from their

scientific training for so many years, it also is in some ways more

difficult. But the physicians are moving fast, they get more evidence

and often alot of exposure to "miracles."

 

Last summer, I was attending a conference with the founders of the

Earth Core for Peace, and at the same time, in this rural setting where

the conference center was, there was a conference being sponsored

by Jim Gordon, M.D., who had just returned from Sarajevo where he'd

been working with war trauma victims, I forget now the name of the book

"Healthy Body, Healthy Mind?" Anyway, we kind of jumped into one

another's lectures and had breakfast, there were loads of physicians

there who were becoming awake and aware to the possibilities of healing.

 

Perhaps we are all responsible for ourselves, our visions, our health and

for being honest with our own physicians and therapists allowing them

to grow with us.

 

Now, I must confess, if everyone had glorified the medical community

this email would have debated the other side :-)

 

Much L*L*L

~ bo ~

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At 09:11 PM 10/29/99 , RainboLily wrote:

 

>Elliott Dacher, M.D., wrote a book called "PsychoNeuroImmunology"

>I guess about 10 years ago now. When I was diagnosed with a terminal

>illness he helped me clear it with meditation in about three weeks.

 

 

I'm really glad you're still with us!! Thanks to Dr. Dacher, and thanks to

you!!

 

Love,

 

--Greg

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