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> In a message dated 02/13/2000 3:48:41 PM Eastern Standard Time, editor (AT) juno (DOT)

> com writes:

>

> > How far

> > such tightly focused self-

> > interest seems from the

> > surrender of "take the

> > time to sit, breathe and

> > observe what is happening!"

> > I wish my religious school

> > instructors had told me

> > something that simple and

> > implication-free!

 

Me too!

 

I have a friend who owns the local Montesorri School, for preschoolers. She

is a student of ACIM. When the kids get rowdy or tired, and are fighting

with each other, she'll bring everyone to have them sit in a circle on the

floor, fold their hands in their lap, close their eyes, and tell them to sit

quietly and just breath for a moment.

 

She'll find the kids saying "but Susie won't fold her hands!" "He won't be

quiet!Her eyes are open!" etc. etc. And she gently reminds them to not

worry about what the other person is doing -- just to focus to their own

self. When she finally gets that point across, quiet enters. They sit for

a minute... very quietly. Then she excuses them to what they were doing

before.

 

She is always amazed how wonderful this works! No more fighting and

everyone is working and playing together afterwards.

 

Love,

xxxtg

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As a parent of 2 young schoolers who have seen both Montessori

and Public systems, I had been watching something else in regards

to early education.

 

The switch to more traditional public schools has been sharp.

It was like watching the child at 5, and still in a Being State,

after 3 years of class room experience, enter the Dream Is Now Over State.

 

The eldest, a six year old, attends a highly rated school in

Kansas, i.e.: computer for each kindergartner, highly psychologically

developed program, lots of frills. (and candy...) They color, mostly.

 

The almost eldest, 5 1/2 yrs, attends school at a foreign language magnet,

in the currently non accredited Kansas City, Missouri District.

Interestingly, Gabrielle already has a substantial grasp of French,

exclusively used, within what has become an almost transplanted

French Speaking African Village and community here.

 

It does seem that something less than "rigid structure", allows

her to almost become one with the "learning process" within the rather

intense curriculum.

 

The comment here is how 'nice' the clean modern appearance is in Kansas,

yet how perceivably dehabilitating to children it is. And i'm saddened seeing

parents gloat with pride at the illusion of mere facilities.

 

Maybe it's not scientific, but i just can't see Gabrielle becoming

quite so "bored with school" in the midst of her working together

community, as the eldest - and her fellow young class mates - already

appear to me.

 

Thanks for bringing up Kids, it's difficult for me to see them being crushed

by any process, when there are such decent alternatives.

 

And yes, Montessori is powerful assistance in the art of Being and Respect

of *Others* :-)

 

Freeheart.

 

 

LeTeegee wrote:

>

> LeTeegee

>

> > In a message dated 02/13/2000 3:48:41 PM Eastern Standard Time, editor (AT) juno (DOT)

> > com writes:

> >

> > > How far

> > > such tightly focused self-

> > > interest seems from the

> > > surrender of "take the

> > > time to sit, breathe and

> > > observe what is happening!"

> > > I wish my religious school

> > > instructors had told me

> > > something that simple and

> > > implication-free!

>

> Me too!

>

> I have a friend who owns the local Montesorri School, for preschoolers. She

> is a student of ACIM. When the kids get rowdy or tired, and are fighting

> with each other, she'll bring everyone to have them sit in a circle on the

> floor, fold their hands in their lap, close their eyes, and tell them to sit

> quietly and just breath for a moment.

>

> She'll find the kids saying "but Susie won't fold her hands!" "He won't be

> quiet!Her eyes are open!" etc. etc. And she gently reminds them to not

> worry about what the other person is doing -- just to focus to their own

> self. When she finally gets that point across, quiet enters. They sit for

> a minute... very quietly. Then she excuses them to what they were doing

> before.

>

> She is always amazed how wonderful this works! No more fighting and

> everyone is working and playing together afterwards.

>

> Love,

> xxxtg

>

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At 12:15 AM 2/14/00 EST, LeTeegee wrote:

>I have a friend who owns the local Montesorri School, for preschoolers. She

>is a student of ACIM. When the kids get rowdy or tired, and are fighting

>with each other, she'll bring everyone to have them sit in a circle on the

>floor, fold their hands in their lap, close their eyes, and tell them to

sit

>quietly and just breath for a moment.

>

>She'll find the kids saying "but Susie won't fold her hands!" "He won't be

>quiet!Her eyes are open!" etc. etc. And she gently reminds them to not

>worry about what the other person is doing -- just to focus to their own

>self. When she finally gets that point across, quiet enters. They sit

for

>a minute... very quietly. Then she excuses them to what they were doing

>before.

>

>She is always amazed how wonderful this works! No more fighting and

>everyone is working and playing together afterwards.

 

What a nice observation!

 

--Greg

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