Guest guest Posted April 11, 2000 Report Share Posted April 11, 2000 Hi Jerry, I was going to step around this current dance of "Who do you Love?", but perhaps because I'm enjoying my first cup of tea in comparative quiet, and your posts always are thought-provoking (oh no...), here goes... > Taking your points briefly and in summary >form: when l talk about dealing with the Hitler types, l'm not necessarily >advocating hatred and hostility toward them, but rather reacting >appropriately according to their actions. This means first, a realistic >appraisal of the danger involved and second, resistance. Below here you describe a situation happening in the present, and in this circumstance, I would agree, as would many who tried to stand against the might of a powerful regime. In so doing, however, many did not lower themselves to the cruelty, condemnation and hatred of their enemies, and that is compassion, imo. Past conflicts and atrocities represent gifts of opportunity to learn the truth once the fierce heat of feelings has abated somewhat. We can begin to notice our own and others' actions and feeling in a more detached light, and see where our and their programming has affected the situation. Soul searching, perhaps... lf l walk down the >street and pass by a thug mugging an old woman, is it right conduct for me to >simply ignore it, assuring myself that hey, the thug and l are one, l am the >thug, the thug is l, the thug may be a saint for all l know, etc., so this >is none of my business.......? l think most would agree that this is not >right conduct, and that l should help to whatever extent l can. > > Basically, the same principle applies to the >Hitlers who are intent on murder and crime on a mass scale. Foreign policy is >complicated, of course, involving many practical considerations, but all >things being equal, the moral thing to do is to try to come to the assistance >of those being victimized. And if it's your own country, you're certainly >going to defend yourself. l read once that Gandhi at one time wanted to try >the same nonviolent approach against the nazis that had worked with the >British, and that Aurobindo basically told him to stick that approach up his >ass, assuring him that the nazis were not to be confused with the British. Horses for course, to be sure, but make sure you know your horse... Ghandhi seemed to realise the truth of the situation. Perhaps it could be said that Hitler and his believers had a form of madness that would not/could not see another way... A dissociation from being able to feel the sense of common experience which Ghandhi had used so skilfully to show the British the error of their ways? > > You're a pretty bright lady, Amanda .... l think you'd >have enought sense also to be able to discriminate between the British (who >were never perfect by any means) and the nazis. Spiritual teachings are >wonderful, but most respected teachers have always said that while we're here >on earth, our first duty is to respect life: our own and others' also. And >the Gita is in line with this. lt says do your duty, fight the battle that >has to be fought -- without anger, fear, knowing all are immortal -- the way >of the sammurai warrior. Sounds great -- few of us have the skill to fight a >battle that way -- so we fight anyway, if we have to, and do our best. > > l have no problem feeling compassion for the Hitlers >if it's arrived at in an authentic way -- if it's TRUE compassion. To me this >means first fully comprehending their crimes and the incredible suffering >they've caused; in other words, trying to comprehend the incomprehensible -- >then feeling this suffering - without defending ourselves against it - and >utter compassion for the countless victims, whose numbers can hardly be >counted, because a million deaths touch millions more. l think the above is >the minimum required and represents an extraordinary act of which few people >are capable. lt's alot of shit to wade through, but if you've done it, then >maybe you're ready to feel compassion for the Hitlers. lf you haven't done >it, then l think the compassion is not real and is masking avoidance, denial >and probably deeper problems that underlie that. > So it's not >that l'm against feeling compassion for Hitler. l just don't trust most of >what l've heard as being the real thing. There's another element to this. No >matter what someone has done, l can feel at least a twinge of compassion if >l either hear or see an act of heartfelt remorse. What act of contrition did >we ever see out of the Hitlers? I see your point, Jerry, but may I interpose here that humans operate within certain bounds of behaviour. For example, we have psychological mechanisms that defend our egos from overwhelm. For instance, it may be that the enormity of their crimes may have had the same effect on them as it can do on us - they may not be able to gaze unflinchingly upon it, and it would be unfair of us to demand what we are unwilling to do ourselves, or at least understand why they may not be able to. Secondly, rationalisation and the distant chain of command can objectify one's actions. A handgun is an easier method of killing than one's bare hands, because it removes one from the effect of one's actions to some extent. How much more removed are they who give orders from on high, ensconsed in their power and priviledge? Their responsibility is tragic, all the more because they were foolish enough to believe that distant orders diminished their responsibility. Something so terrible to accept in oneself is often suppressed, denied, reasoned into something else. We all do this to some extent. The mechanism is there to protect our egos. How much harder is it to accept in another? I have also seen in England real remorse being shown by the "Moors murderer" Myra Hindley, and yet at the merest suggestion that she be freed or placed in a more open prison after several decades, the public bays for revenge, demanding that the politicians throw away the key and let her rot for her "despicable" crimes. The media whips up a storm, and debate dies. She has no chance to be heard fairly, to make amends, to heal herself or others. All credibility for her has long been burnt, and ppl see only a "snapshot" of her, not the person growing, changing and learning. And so the wheel grinds on. The Nuremburg trials were as political as they were cathartic: sections of transcript and offered evidence that cast a more sympathetic light upon Nazism were suppressed. I'm not advocating Nazism, I'm advocating understanding the common mechanisms that the righteous share with the heinous. With any of them, l know of no such >expression, l know of no side that even reveals human vulnerability, Well, how is history written? By the victors... You would need to to swim upstream against the tide of opinion to find that sort of information. Also, history often seems to work in a spiral: the shift of act of revenge to reaction of revenge between states over the centuries, the lingering hatreds and remembered atrocities that maunder on through generations that never experienced them and yet create more, serve only to remind how pointless and wasteful the human political mechanism is. The microcosm of psychology within the macrocosm of politics and economics is blatantly eveident, and yet we still look for flags to wrap ourselves in. as we >think of it. So on what is the compassion based? lt appears to be based more >on an abstract principle than on any real experience. This is another reason >why l don't trust the compassion professed for Hitler by some. Mark's view that what is past is eminently forgivable I agree with, on the proviso that we learn, not from knee-jerk reaction, abstract ideals or herd-based opinions of normality, but from direct perception as far as we are able, recognising our own ability to harm, kill and damn. > As l alluded >to in my last post, in nearly 20 years l've found the process of spiritual >bypass to be rampant on the spiritual path. lt's impossible for any of us not >to engage in it at some point. Too many of us want to try to act as if we're >extraordinary spiritual beings -- empathizing with Hitler, etc -- before >we've mastered the art of being ordinary ones. And it causes problems. All right, I accept that we *can* make ourselves feel holier than thou through exhibitionist compassion, but to look the whole scene in the eye and not flinch is hard. Until such time as we can do this without becoming frightened of our *own* capabilities to be what we see in others (because to understand it we need to become it for a while), at least we can have a noble aim to be compassionate. At least we can aim not to commit revenge in the name of righteousness. We need to let go of the wheel sometimes... > > Very briefly, the last point: l have no problems with >spiritual teachers, per se. ln fact, l still love my 2 primary old teachers >even tho they caused me 7 yrs of problems with my k. l love them because l >believe they were good and kind men who did their best and wanted to help me. >l do have a problem with the sort of teachers l ripped in my Jerryananda >series, because they promoted themselves like gods and then acted like >beasts. l don't mind a teacher having human flaws. l do mind it when they >display sub-human flaws. Totally agree here: hypocracy is an area that I find very difficult, probably because I find it hard enough to be as I am, and I don't need someone acting high and mighty when they don't honour their words in deed. Cheers, Rob > love, > jerry > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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